Natasha Walter, who's been a feminist campaigner for many years, and now supports refugee women, has written a piece about how women ought to come together to fight against Trump:
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/dec/01/there-are-cracks-in-the-feminist-movement-but-i-have-faith-in-women-to-stand-up-to-trump
She's very disappointed that a "majority of white women chose to put a sexual abuser in the White House and to undermine other women’s reproductive rights."
As an example of the rifts among women, she writes:
"In Britain, arguments quickly erupted in 2017 over whether the Women’s March was either too exclusive of trans women – since those pink hats might be 'excluding trans women' – or, on the contrary, too eager to centre them. Since then, winning arguments on gender identity seems to be more important to some feminists than finding common ground."
Wanting to be fair to Walter, I did reflect on whether she is right or not. Perhaps women face so many attacks now on things like reproductive rights, or even more basic rights in countries like Afghanistan, that we should put aside our differences and unite?
But I just can't. When I think about the kind of self-described "feminist" who is happy to see violent sex offenders placed in women's prisons, or see teenage girls forced to share changing rooms with adult men, or stand by while rape victims lose their right access to single-sex support from other women, I feel such rage that I cannot begin to contemplate working with someone like that. However much these women claim to be pro abortion rights or anti-sexual abuse, they are wholeheartedly supporting men as they trample on women's rights. They are not feminists. It's impossible to ally with them, because they do not care about any women other than themselves.