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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
DanielaDressen · 03/11/2024 10:22

And yet that female American academic who passed herself off as black for years got sacked 🤷🏻‍♀️

Twoshoesnewshoes · 03/11/2024 10:35

Lol race doesn’t exist but they identify as a white person 🤷‍♀️

AmandaHoldensLips · 03/11/2024 10:42

Oh dear. It would all be so much easier to navigate if we substituted "identifies as" for "wants to be".

theDudesmummy · 03/11/2024 10:52

"I know the light of my White femaleness swirls and lurks about".

What???

quantumbutterfly · 03/11/2024 10:53

The old word for this was delusional.

MarieDeGournay · 03/11/2024 10:53

Dr Gladden has issues with his identity, and has his own responses and solutions .

It would be interesting if he was writing this in poetry, or creative prose, but an academic making 'I now am' statements in apparently serious prose, is 'interesting' in a different way..

Of course there sometimes seems to be a bit of a golden glow around the people who do not share an oppression - seeing them walking around avoiding the hassle that we have to put up with on a daily basis - or even, if you are disabled, seeing people just walking around and climbing those steps that prevent you from entering a building - and this has to have an impact, and different people are going to respond differently - some with hatred, some with envy, some with a burning desire for justice and equality that makes whatever you are fully respected.

The able-bodied young man bounding up the steps that I struggle with may have serious mental health problems. The white woman who seems so authoritative to Dr Gladden may be the survivor of sexual abuse, or may be about to meet her rapist. The white supremacist thug looking for his next victim won't pause to ponder whether they may identify as white, and therefore should be spared.

There are structural inequalities and injustices in society which unfortunately we can't just identify out of, or in the case of trans-identifying men wanting to be women, identify into. People are entitled deal with their lived experience of structural inequalities in different ways that feel right to them, and this person has responded in a very individual way which will raise eyebrows and hackles on every side.

That's how Dr Gladden feels, and he's entitled to write about it, and I'm inclined to leave it at that rather than generalise from his very personal and distinctive take on being black/white/male/female.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 03/11/2024 10:55
angry tennis GIF by NOWNESS

Well…..

NewGreenDuck · 03/11/2024 10:58

I'm wondering what else he might identify as?

sunbum · 03/11/2024 11:08

He's really racist. Like there's some huge difference and undefinable 'betterness' about being a white woman instead of a a black woman (never mind the fact that he is a man of course). Horrible man.

Lolapusht · 03/11/2024 11:20

I do hope no-one dismisses his opinions with a “white woman’s tears”…

HonestPayforHonestWork · 03/11/2024 11:23

Try going on the transracial subreddit…it’s eye-opening.

arethereanyleftatall · 03/11/2024 11:23

I don't mind this in that the more and more ridiculous it becomes, the more people that are prepared to stand up and say that it is all delusional, absurd, damaging and insulting and the farce that has been trans, gets lumped in with that.

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/11/2024 11:51

I should think somebody who is knowledgeable about post-modernism could explain this and make a decent case for it being an interesting and challenging perspective.

MarieDG - thought-provoking take on Gladden's work.

lcakethereforeIam · 03/11/2024 11:51

AmandaHoldensLips · 03/11/2024 10:42

Oh dear. It would all be so much easier to navigate if we substituted "identifies as" for "wants to be".

I prefer the shorter 'isn't'.

I'll preface this by saying I've not had time to read or watch any of those links. I'll do that later, then this post will probably make me cringe. Anyway, especially if he's American or European he's probably got white ancestry, so 'identifying' with that part of his genetic make up? Why not? It makes more sense than the impossibility of a man claiming to be female.

Eta

Still daft though.

AliasGrace47 · 03/11/2024 12:36

theDudesmummy · 03/11/2024 10:52

"I know the light of my White femaleness swirls and lurks about".

What???

What the actual ..? This is fucking insane. It seems pretty insulting to black women- is he the sort of man who would only date a white woman out of internalised racism. Fetishising, prejudiced & insulting to all groups concerned.

UmbrellaEllaEllaElla · 03/11/2024 12:37

This is why I don't like spending a lot of time around people

NewGreenDuck · 03/11/2024 12:40

If he said he was mixed race I don't think anyone would be arguing about it, because we understand that to be likely ie having ancestors from different places. But it's the ludicrous idea that he can be trans racial as well as being trans gender. I mean how much more stupid things is he going to come up with. No one changes sex, he seems to think that feeling something means he is that.
I feel like I am witnessing the equivalent of the decline and fall of the Roman empire.

CallYourselfAChef · 03/11/2024 12:42

😂😂Pier Morgan said, ages ago, what's to stop him from identifying as a black lesbian. The whole world has gone mad with it all

Screamingabdabz · 03/11/2024 12:43

In some ways, the sooner we get to being able to identify as a whatever sub-atomic giraffe punk Chinese purple -haired three year old grandma of a footstool we like, the sooner the normal people can just crack on with proper binary toilets, sports and healthcare and sanity can resume.

So I’m all for it!

NPET · 03/11/2024 13:19

Oh I see...
I was going to say I'd heard of a front man but not a back man...

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 03/11/2024 13:31

Most of what he’s saying makes no sense at all, he wants to have swishy hair and rosy cheeks yet he doesn’t so he identifies as if he does and that makes him feel better?? 🤯

I’m surprised that no one has picked up on him saying he could have stood up to violence if he was a white girl, because women’s and girls never experience violence do they?? 😡 that’s so incredibly offensive.

NoCarbsForMe · 03/11/2024 17:37

"The Man Who Mistook Himself For A White Woman"

WomensSports · 03/11/2024 17:42

🤢🤢🤢

TheAutopsyOfMNCorpus · 03/11/2024 18:57

NoCarbsForMe · 03/11/2024 17:37

"The Man Who Mistook Himself For A White Woman"

I must have missed that Oliver Sacks book.😉

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