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Bannedontherun · 28/10/2024 19:01

I think an alliance is possible but we would have to have a very very strict terms of reference, that sets out the strict membership criteria and clear objectives of said alliance. And it would have to be agreed that this cannot be altered or amended in any way.

A loose affiliation would also require topics of discussion on the periphery of the alliance as excluded from debate,

We can see from various groups and affiliations that there can be mission drift, disagreements on say how hard is the line is, on trans rights, etc. do we include surrogacy?, (no IMHO) even though i do not agree with it.

So we would also have to inspect what issues are lobbied from elsewhere, Christian right, sex matters, Genspec, and defer to them for some more detailed arguments.

I think on reflection this could prove impossible.

We might end up sounding like a scene from life of Brian.

However willing to explore.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 28/10/2024 21:13

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 27/10/2024 17:54

I was envisaging women like you forming a new party, funnily enough - Labour-supporting or left-leaning women who have an epiphany about Labour and the Lib Dems.

Haven't we just watched that one crash and burn for the very reason that they had to embed values like "intersectionality" and identity politics from the outset to be acceptable to the Left?

One of the GC Labour Groups I belonged allowed WEP women to become members because it was considered that WEP was consistent with "Gender Critical Left" aims - despite WEP having TWAW in the small print.

I know I am repeating myself but this is a key point IMHO:

"The left hijacked feminism for its own ends and IMHO it is beyond time to take it back. Women should stop accepting that they have to take second place."

The Party you envisage would aim to attract women of the Left. That would inevitably include activists, who would be duty-bound by their allegiance to socialism to ensure that where there was a conflict of values that socialism took precedence over feminism.

If the constitution and membership did not permit this, would they stay?

If they left, how long could it remain the Party that you envisage?

If "politics is the art of the possible", is such a party possible?

Or just pie in the sky?

I like this discussion between Sheila Jeffreys and Linda Bellos about the options for left wing feminists. It is very pragmatic.

Sheila Jeffreys & Linda Bellos Discuss Feminism Left vs Right politics

The Party you envisage would aim to attract women of the Left. That would inevitably include activists, who would be duty-bound by their allegiance to socialism to ensure that where there was a conflict of values that socialism took precedence over feminism.

There is nothing socialist about the identity politics (including transgenderism) that’s currently touted by so-called leftwingers. And although men on the left have often sidelined women’s issues, they have no valid socialist grounds for opposing women’s rights.

I’ve been a feminist and s socialist all my adult life. No conflict there — though plenty of conflict with misogynists who like to identify as socialists.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 29/10/2024 10:44

It's worth checking out The Laughing Auditor at the trans protest outside a building where a collective of lesbians who wanted to peacefully meet together had the noisy TRAs outside and the kind of behaviour he filmed. On YouTube.

WomanDaresTo · 29/10/2024 16:02

Omg I've just remembered a shouty drunk bloke arguing with me at the end of the night, years ago. "you women", etc etc.

Anyway his (lovely) girlfriend was distraught in the women's loos after - saying "i just don't understand: he was a founding member of the WEP you know" 😂

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/10/2024 16:55

YourAmplePlumPoster · 29/10/2024 10:44

It's worth checking out The Laughing Auditor at the trans protest outside a building where a collective of lesbians who wanted to peacefully meet together had the noisy TRAs outside and the kind of behaviour he filmed. On YouTube.

Oh yes - that was brilliant. Here he is explaining to Andrew Doyle how he was doing his "job" of monitoring the police when he came upon this group of misogynists and homophobes trying to stop the Lesbian Project's inaugural meeting from happening and how they turned on him to try to stop him recording their aggression and bigotry 😂:

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=620963746031116

YourAmplePlumPoster · 29/10/2024 18:38

Glinner did a chat with him as well.

Bannedontherun · 29/10/2024 18:44

I saw that all by myself on you tube the police lack of reaction was startling.

SidewaysOtter · 29/10/2024 19:21

WomanDaresTo · 29/10/2024 16:02

Omg I've just remembered a shouty drunk bloke arguing with me at the end of the night, years ago. "you women", etc etc.

Anyway his (lovely) girlfriend was distraught in the women's loos after - saying "i just don't understand: he was a founding member of the WEP you know" 😂

It's amazing how many "progressive liberal" men who proudly proclaim their feminist credentials are actually raging misogynists who can't accept women not acting as they're told they should by those who think they know better than them (i.e. men) Hmm

YourAmplePlumPoster · 31/10/2024 09:04

There's barely a cigarette paper between leftist men and right wing men, except the right have decided to reject the notion of trans women are women.

RethinkingLife · 17/11/2024 18:32

As an update, WEP has voted to dissolve.

Founders and leaders are still failing to grasp their own contribution to its demise.

Members of the Women’s Equality party (WE) have voted to dissolve the organisation after nearly a decade of activism, with its leaders blaming challenging finances and a more polarised political landscape.
The move, backed by the WE’s leader, Mandu Reid, and the party co-founders Catherine Mayer and Sandi Toksvig, was supported by 78% of members at the special conference, narrowly above the three-quarters majority needed for it to pass.

In an interview with the Observer in October setting out the idea, Reid said that while its policies and priorities were as relevant as ever, a lack of donations that started during Covid and changes to politics meant the party seemed no longer to be workable.

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/nov/17/womens-equality-party-wep-members-vote-dissolve-organisation

Women’s Equality party members vote to dissolve organisation

Challenging finances and polarised political landscape blamed for closure after nearly decade of activism

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/nov/17/womens-equality-party-wep-members-vote-dissolve-organisation

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/11/2024 18:43

How desperately sad.

The (literal) end of the Women's Equality Party
Rightsraptor · 17/11/2024 18:46

Good.

Don't let the door hit you on your way out.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 17/11/2024 18:47

Such a wasted opportunity. Privileged women who abandoned women's rights and child safeguarding in favour of the niche demands of certain men.

lcakethereforeIam · 17/11/2024 18:50

78% voted to dissolve it, does that mean 3/4-ish of one of them wanted to keep it going? I'm struggling to believe anyone else showed up.

HerGorgeousMajestyArabellaScott · 17/11/2024 18:54

Fuckity bye.

DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 17/11/2024 18:56

I ended my membership in 2021 so couldn't vote, so thanks for the update.

I'm sad to see the end of what could've been something brilliant. I was so excited by the idea of it and was really involved with supporting Harini in the 2017 general election in Lambeth. But like so many others, I quit when they stopped being able to define a woman. So not sad to see what it became being ended.

larklane17 · 17/11/2024 19:33

Kidding themselves that they were instrumental in making changes for the benefit of women.

Shitting on the women who had high hopes for them and gave them their support.

Playing shepherdesses. like a bunch of over-privileged Marie Antoinettes.

Signalbox · 17/11/2024 19:58

If they’d stood up for women they’d be thriving right now.

RethinkingLife · 17/11/2024 20:14

Signalbox · 17/11/2024 19:58

If they’d stood up for women they’d be thriving right now.

If WEP had stood up for women, it's possible that women would have had a political force that

  • pre-empted the need to go to employment tribunals and that WEP might have attracted that money instead
  • argued for affordable childcare
  • facilitated the lives of single parents (largely women)
  • there would be better treatment of carers (largely women).

Oh, what might have been. Some of the saddest words. I can only hope that there's political space for genuinely women-centred policies to flourish now that WEP has slow motion dripped in obscurity towards its inevitable demise.

TrainedByDinosaurs · 17/11/2024 23:37

Glad they have closed, sadly the ‘women’s’ organisations that centre males are going to have to learn that those males aren’t going to contribute to keep you going when the women leave

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/11/2024 00:11

Fuckity bye.

It's really the only response.

PronounssheRa · 18/11/2024 09:45

Have they ever pondered the reason why donations dried up.

This is exactly the kind of thing I would have given money too, if they were in fact a party for women. Instead I have donated to more than a few crowdfunders, mainly those where women have had to take their employer to tribunal because they were discriminated against. The exact thing I would have expected WEP to be all over. Yet, they weren't.

SilverChampagne · 18/11/2024 09:50

The exact thing I would have expected WEP to be all over. Yet, they weren't.
Are there any examples of anything they did actually achieve?
I’m mystified as to how they justified their existence at all.

borntobequiet · 18/11/2024 09:52

They got interviewed quite a lot by sympathetic media, raising their individual profiles. I think that’s it.

GlomOfNit · 18/11/2024 10:55

Women's Hour just finished a hand-wringing interview with Catherine Meyer and Sandi Toskvig. Dear god, that's my BP buggered for the day, then ...

The GASLIGHTING! The DARVO! The BS! The sheer bloody bald-faced cheek of trying to tell us that the TWAW issue has nothing to do with the demise of the party, yet carefully steering the 'discussion' off that subject every time it's brought up. Nuala brings up a Pink News article, SO pleased that publication is being cited on Women's Hour ...

If I honestly felt that the party really did want to maintain a non-shouty space to continue this debate, as ST just claimed, I'd be a lot more hopeful. But we know damn well that isn't the case.