Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Conference on the Nordic Model, November, London, Reem Alsalem keynote speaker

13 replies

ArabellaScott · 05/09/2024 12:11

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/women-for-sale-private-matter-or-public-crisis-tickets-973603282627

'Pornography. Prostitution. Surrogacy. These colossal, rapacious industries are based on using women as commodities. This is often justified as a woman’s right to choose what she does with her body and that it is a private matter of no concern to anyone else. But is this really true?
If she’s been groomed by the culture from childhood to always put men’s needs before her own, or is homeless, or a student or single mum struggling in poverty, how much of a free choice does she really have? And isn’t it of public concern now we know that porn and buying sex are associated with men believing they’re superior and entitled to sexual access to women – the very attitudes that underpin male violence against women and children – especially now we are in the midst of an epidemic of such male violence?
And what about surrogacy? Does paying someone to carry a child not suggest that a child is private property and not a unique member of the community to whom we all bear a responsibility? How is that affecting society? Is it really a private matter? Who are the winners and losers in such a system?
These are some of the issues that this conference will be addressing. Come along to:

  • Hear women with lived experience of the sex and surrogacy industries and other experts discussing how these industries work and their personal and social impacts.
  • Participate in interactive workshops on a range of related themes.
  • Be inspired to resist and be part of a movement for change.

Venue
Central London (WC1 postcode). The exact details of the venue will be communicated to ticket holders by email 48 hours before the event.'

Sounds good.

Absolutely galling that this event has to keep the venue secret.

Women for sale: Private matter or public crisis?

Selling our bodies. At what cost?

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/women-for-sale-private-matter-or-public-crisis-tickets-973603282627

OP posts:
OP posts:
IwantToRetire · 05/09/2024 17:18

Glad the conference info has been posted but Reem Alsalem will be part of a Q&A session at the end of the day (which is great of course).

Over half of the conference is workshop based, but as yet the details of the workshop themes for morning and afternoon sessions are not yet announced.

And yes really sad, but I think most NMN conferences have had to keep their event address quiet until the last momen. Sad

If anyone interested in the Nordic Model you can find links to some of their earlier events, some of which have recordings or transcripts of what was said.

https://nordicmodelnow.org/about/events/

Events | Nordic Model Now!

A list of events run by NMN, with information about how to book for upcoming events and links to recordings and transcripts of past events.

https://nordicmodelnow.org/about/events

Layeredveg · 05/09/2024 17:22

I will be there!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/09/2024 17:57

Organisers are Nordic Model Now.

That's great @ArabellaScott - NMN are excellent.

IwantToRetire · 06/09/2024 18:57

Have just seen some of the workshops details are now available.

Also a clear statement about why the conference is open to both men and women, but also why some workshops will be women only.

ArabellaScott · 06/09/2024 19:10

Ah, okay, Reem Alsalem is doing the closing plenary. Sorry, don't know how I got that into 'keynote speaker'.

OP posts:
IwantToRetire · 06/09/2024 19:19

ArabellaScott · 06/09/2024 19:10

Ah, okay, Reem Alsalem is doing the closing plenary. Sorry, don't know how I got that into 'keynote speaker'.

I think something was circulated online once she was confirmed and on first reading it did sort of come over like that.

Either way still think it is great that what is a grass roots women's campaign has got someone from the UN to attend!

And hope this brings them for main stream media attention.

Also good that NMN are putting the emphasis on providing the opportunity for women to speak directly to each other.

IwantToRetire · 02/11/2024 21:46

This is the updated programme:

10 am: Opening plenary

  • Valérie Tender: A continuum of disrespect for women as whole human beings. Valérie, a sex trade survivor, will discuss the harm caused to women involved in pornography, prostitution and surrogacy by dissociation, how it is not a “special skill” certain women have, and how the commodification of women’s bodies cannot comply with labour and employment laws and practices.
  • Hannah Coban: The social media to sexual exploitation pipeline. Hannah works for Kairos, a charity in Coventry supporting women at risk of or subject to sexual exploitation. Her talk will examine how social media is being used to groom and exploit girls and women and how we can support those who are subject to sexual exploitation.
  • Heli St Luce: The Nordic Model and how it differs from full decriminalisation. Heli will introduce the Nordic Model approach to prostitution and explain how it compares with the fully decriminalised approach beloved by the sexploitation industry.
11-11.10: Break 11.10: Morning workshop session. In this session, you will be able to choose whether to attend a panel discussion in the main hall or a smaller interactive workshop. Full details of the options can be found further down this page. 12-40-1.40: Lunch break 1.40: Afternoon workshop session. As in the morning workshop session, you will be able to choose whether to attend a panel discussion in the main hall or a smaller interactive workshop. 3.10: Break 3.20: Closing plenary
  • Kellie Ziemba: Not a private matter. Kellie will discuss the themes covered during the course of the day and confirm that women being on sale in the sexploitation and surrogacy industries is indeed a public crisis that urgently needs addressing.
  • Reem Alsalem. United Nations Special Rapporteur on violence against women and girls, its causes and consequences.
  • Q&A
4.30: Event ends. We have booked space in a nearby pub for afterwards, where everyone is invited to join us to continue the conversation in a more relaxed environment. Details of this will be announced at the end of the conference.

(see next post for workshop sessions)

IwantToRetire · 02/11/2024 21:48

MORNING WORKSHOP SESSION OPTIONS
In this session we are offering two workshops looking at the practical impacts of the availability and normalisation of porn and the sex trade on our lives. These have different impacts and meanings for men vs. women and so we are offering separate workshops for men and women. The aim is that everyone feels free to discuss the issues honestly and not be inhibited by potential reactions from those of the opposite sex. We ask that everyone respects this. None of the other morning workshops or panel discussions have this restriction. For more about this, see the Eventbrite page.

Workshop room 1. Women, Sex and Desire: Navigating our pornified world in relationships and beyond. For women only. This is aimed primarily at younger women struggling to date, form relationships and develop careers in a world in which many (if not most) of their male contemporaries are now heavy porn users and OnlyFans and prostitution are sold as empowering. We will discuss the impact of porn, and practical strategies for addressing this in sex and relationships, as well as misogyny in the workplace. Facilitator: Eileen.

Workshop room 2. Pornification deprogramming. For men only. This workshop will be run by men for men who want to explore the impact of porn and the wider sex industry on their lives and attitudes and how to de-programme from that and become part of a movement for more meaningful and egalitarian relationships between men and women. Facilitators: Michael Conroy and Björn Suttka.

Workshop room 3: A Small Collection of Innocuous Objects. This workshop will be facilitated by Jimini Hignett, an artist and writer whose work has, for many years, focused on prostitution. Hignett’s book of the same name will form the impetus for the workshop in which a slide show of supposedly ‘innocuous’ tourist souvenirs – including fridge magnets, snow globes, salt and pepper shakers – from the red-light district of Amsterdam (a city Hignett has lived in for almost 40 years), will be juxtaposed with a short film of a male actor narrating the text of a young Dutch prostitution survivor challenging the idea that involvement in the prostitution industry is a free and positive choice. Unveiling the subliminal message conveyed by the imagery, the incongruities between the survivors’ testimonies and the world portrayed by the souvenirs, sheds light on the larger links which are often ignored in the debate concerning prostitution, and opens up a space for participants to reflect on what these objects mean, and to discuss their implications for society and the adults and children in whose kitchens and living rooms they end up. Facilitator: Jimini Hignett

Workshop room 4: Interviewing Survivors. An interactive workshop designed for bloggers, citizen journalists and writers covering interviewing techniques, formats and legal issues. Journalism students also welcome. Facilitator: Julia Robinson.

Main hall: What’s wrong with surrogacy?

  • Anna Fisher: Surrogacy in the UK. A brief look at the current law on surrogacy in the UK and the Law Commission’s proposals for change.
  • Olivia Maurel: A surrogacy born child fighting against surrogacy today. Olivia will talk about her personal story being born through surrogacy, the harms it has caused her, and why surrogacy should be banned to protect children
  • Gary Powell: Surrogacy as reckless commercialism: the degradation of the human on the altar of bogus LGBT+ rights. Surrogacy has been given a power-boost in recent years by the LGBT+ lobby and the claims that gay men have a human right to be biological parents. The consequence of this is that opposing surrogacy gets condemned as “bigoted” and a violation of gay rights. Gary, himself a gay man, will explain the flaws in this argument and the risks that the multibillion-dollar surrogacy industry poses.
  • Marie-Anne Isabelle: This is what is wrong with surrogacy. Marie-Anne, who was an altruistic surrogate for a family member, will explain why she believes the official HFEA advice that surrogacy for a family member is a good option is misguided; how things went terribly wrong for her; and how she came to realise that this is far from unusual.
  • Q&A/discussion.

AFTERNOON WORKSHOP SESSION OPTIONS

Workshop room 1: Raising kids in a pornified world – This workshop is suitable for anyone who cares for, or works with, children and young people. It will outline an up-to-date context of pornography and the sex trade and suggest practical strategies for: having age-appropriate conversations about pornography and the sex trade; encouraging children and young people to speak up if they feel unsafe; and supporting children and young people to recognise the harms of pornography and the sex trade. Facilitator: Helen McDonald.

Workshop room 2: A woman’s experiential journey: Supporting women with experience of the sex industry – This workshop is primarily aimed at professionals working in healthcare, the VAWG sector, the criminal justice system, the police, housing or addiction services, and similar and will be focused on how to effectively support women who are or have been in the sex industry. Facilitators: Sally Jackson and Hannah Shead.

Workshop room 3: Campaigning against surrogacy in the UK and beyond. A workshop looking at the issues caused by surrogacy and reform in the UK and abroad, focusing on recent legal change in Ireland. This workshop will examine how different feminist groups are campaigning against surrogacy and look at practical actions to make change. Facilitators: Lexi and Marie Josèphe Devillers.

Workshop room 4: Groomed (women only). An intimate space for a small group of women to explore first memories of being sexualised with the (longer term) aim of reclaiming female sexuality on our own terms. Facilitator: Heli St Luce.

Main hall. The sex industry: A conducive context for male violence? This will start with a short film that juxtaposes prostitution adverts, sex buyer (punter) reviews, and survivor testimony and will be followed by:

  • Valérie Tender: Punter Reviews – Adding insult to injury. How does it feel when a woman involved in prostitution reads the reviews that punters have left about her?
  • Linda Thompson: Money and Power – A brief overview of the global sex industry, its power dynamics and links with mainstream culture.
  • Merly Åsbogård: Sexual exploitation as VAWG. Speaking from her own experience of prostitution along with her academic research, Merly will explain why we need to understand sexual exploitation as violence against women and girls (VAWG) and how that violence runs through the whole of society – it does not end with the individual prostitution encounter.
  • Julia Long: Pornification: the sex industry as a model for male / female relations. This talk will provide a radical feminist analysis of the pornification of culture, looking at how the sex industry informs wider social relations between women and men, including the construction of femininity and heterosexuality.
  • Q&A/discussion.

https://nordicmodelnow.org/2024/09/27/women-for-sale-private-matter-or-public-crisis/

Women for sale: Private matter or public crisis?

Selling our bodies. At what cost?

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/women-for-sale-private-matter-or-public-crisis-tickets-973603282627

Ereshkigalangcleg · 02/11/2024 22:10

Julia Long: Pornification: the sex industry as a model for male / female relations. This talk will provide a radical feminist analysis of the pornification of culture, looking at how the sex industry informs wider social relations between women and men, including the construction of femininity and heterosexuality.

Fantastic to see Dr Julia Long doing a session.

Layeredveg · 09/11/2024 18:49

Hi all. Did anyone go to the conference today? I thought it was v powerful

IwantToRetire · 09/11/2024 22:27

Layeredveg · 09/11/2024 18:49

Hi all. Did anyone go to the conference today? I thought it was v powerful

That's good to hear.

I had intended to use the live stream option but a boringly mundane domestic problem cropped up.

I hope it was well attended.

They seem to have gone to a lot of effort to make an opportunity not only to hear speeches but to able to participate.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page