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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

People who have the condition are born with ovaries?!

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Confusedovaries · 03/09/2024 21:06

I have just read a Guardian article about polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). In the article, it says that “people with the condition were born with ovaries”, as well as two of three other features.

This sentence doesn’t flow particularly easily, so I re-read it a couple of times to try and clarify the point. Tell me - is it using this phraseology in order to avoid saying “women”? Throughout the article, it refers to “people” with PCOS rather than “women”.

I don’t usually contribute to this board, but this has troubled me. How can it not be possible to talk about women’s health, without using the word “women”? Please tell me I’ve misinterpreted!

PCOS article

The invisible toll of life with polycystic ovary syndrome

The overlooked emotional and psychological effects of PCOS are creating a silent mental health crisis

https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/article/2024/sep/03/pcos-effects-mental-health

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GeorgeOrwellsTurningGrave · 04/09/2024 08:28

NewGreenDuck · 04/09/2024 08:10

Actually they do talk about women in the article, but it's stating that black women are under diagnosed, so for some reason the author is happy to talk about women if they are a particular ethnicity but not women generally.
I was fuming about this article, a condition that only affects females, and we aren't even allowed to mention that.

Ah yes, the othering of black women proving sexism, racism amd misogyny are very much alive and well at The Guardian.

Welcome to the best corner of the internet, OP. You'll find it full of information. Ignore the sad little men and their confused female assistants who occasionally plop on these threads. I find it best to "grey rock" those.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 04/09/2024 08:28

NoBinturongsHereMate · 04/09/2024 00:23

There were people on Twitter saying they knew Imane Kalife had fallopian tubes because they'd seen a childhood photo of a girl in a dress.

Perhaps we should all ask them.

I was going to say that posters on mumsnet have said it

and then i got proof 😀

which is ironic 🤔

Lovelyview · 04/09/2024 08:28

UtopiaPlanitia · 03/09/2024 23:38

Maybe if a campaign happened with letter writing en masse something might possibly happen but I wrote to them to cancel my monthly subscription when The Guardian published an article using the term ‘menstruators’. I told them how sexist and dehumanising and disrespectful it was to describe women in that way and I never received a response.

I did however write an email to Hadley Freeman to tell her that as much as I enjoyed her (and Suzanne Moore’s) writing, and as much as I admired and commended her for taking a stance within The Guardian on women’s rights, I couldn’t continue to pay for The Guardian after reading that word in an article about women. Hadley very kindly replied and thanked me for my support and wished me well.

Sadly, I think The Guardian is a lost cause 🤷‍♀️

I agree a single email won't change anything but during the election campaign I was struck by politicians saying 'that never comes up on the doorstep' when asked about single sex spaces. I think we often think someone else is raising issues for us when actually we have to be the ones doing it. While organised campaigns are good I do think individuals saying 'this is wrong' are useful too.

Signalbox · 04/09/2024 08:39

Even putting aside the woman / language issue the article is medically illiterate. A persistent cough can be caused by reflux which can be diet related. Of course a Doctor is going to ask about your diet.

When Normandie Luscher, a 35-year-old illustrator in Syracuse, went to the doctor for a persistent cough, she felt judged for her size. “The doctor was like, ‘So, tell me about what you’re eating,’” says Luscher, who’d already had bariatric surgery to treat the prediabetes she developed from having PCOS. “I was just like, ‘Why? What does that have to do with anything?’”

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 04/09/2024 08:40

NoBinturongsHereMate · 04/09/2024 00:23

There were people on Twitter saying they knew Imane Kalife had fallopian tubes because they'd seen a childhood photo of a girl in a dress.

Perhaps we should all ask them.

I really wish I didn’t believe people could be as stupid as that. It’s terrifying.

Boudiccaofsteel · 04/09/2024 08:43

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 04/09/2024 08:40

I really wish I didn’t believe people could be as stupid as that. It’s terrifying.

And from the recent BMA motion it seems some of the qualified medical profession think people can change sex which is beyond terrifying. I have little faith in the medical profession at the best of times due to the appalling treatment some of my family received but to think that those supposedly qualified could be so stupid beggars belief

Pookerrod · 04/09/2024 08:45

I read it first thing when I was still very tired and not quite woken up yet and it took me a while to realise what was being said. At first I thought how did I get through a science degree many moons ago without realising that we’re not born with ovaries and they just somehow develop during adolescence?? I almost googled it before realising they’re trying desperately hard not to say women/females 🙄

NewGreenDuck · 04/09/2024 08:50

BTW, I have/ had PCOS. I think if the doctor had called me a person with ovaries I'd have thumped him. ( since the menopause I no longer have symptoms, even the excess hair has gone!)
On another note, would they talk about people with a prostate?

RedToothBrush · 04/09/2024 08:51

NewGreenDuck · 04/09/2024 08:50

BTW, I have/ had PCOS. I think if the doctor had called me a person with ovaries I'd have thumped him. ( since the menopause I no longer have symptoms, even the excess hair has gone!)
On another note, would they talk about people with a prostate?

No because the argument would be that lots of men don't know what a prostate due to lack of education is or have limited levels of English...

ErrolTheDragon · 04/09/2024 08:52

Signalbox · 04/09/2024 08:39

Even putting aside the woman / language issue the article is medically illiterate. A persistent cough can be caused by reflux which can be diet related. Of course a Doctor is going to ask about your diet.

When Normandie Luscher, a 35-year-old illustrator in Syracuse, went to the doctor for a persistent cough, she felt judged for her size. “The doctor was like, ‘So, tell me about what you’re eating,’” says Luscher, who’d already had bariatric surgery to treat the prediabetes she developed from having PCOS. “I was just like, ‘Why? What does that have to do with anything?’”

Yeah, in PCOS because of insulin resistance (this woman developed prediabetes because of it!) of course diet is important. I think I was fortunate that the 'low GI' concept came up at the right time for me.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 04/09/2024 09:00

Transactivists can’t even cope with their own mangled language.

From the Guardian story:
Infertility can also be a significant blow to one’s sense of gender identity [my italics]. When Anne Kamau, a 42-year-old salesperson from Nairobi, was diagnosed with PCOS, her gynecologist told her she might never have children. “I felt like he’d taken away something core to a woman’s life,” she says.

Yes, that is a painful loss.

No, it doesn’t mean she started identifying as male, non-binary or anything else. So it’s not about ‘gender identity’.

But it would be silly to expect sense or consistency from people who willingly talk nonsense.

mansplainingsincethe90s · 04/09/2024 09:05

It's The Guardian, what do you expect?

Boudiccaofsteel · 04/09/2024 09:14

ReadWithScepticism · 04/09/2024 07:41

That is very moving, @Boudiccaofsteel . I wish someone from the guardian could read it. I'm sorry you have had to struggle with this horrible condition, and that idiotic stuff like this has made things even harder for you.

Thank you. Clue is in the user name I simply have got to the point where I do not give a damn what anyone thinks of me they will have to deal with their lack of intelligence or empathy. But I do wish I'd learned that lesson much earlier in life as PCOS did stop me doing things most obviously dating but also meant I lacked confidence in the early stage of my career until I had a fantastic ( male ) boss who was very supportive.

I look back on my teenaged self moping around in her bedroom and think that if someone had told me some of the things I would have the chance to do as an adult, travelling, reaching the top of my career, meeting some amazing people then I never would have believed them. So if you are one of those younger women ( or you are mum or nan to a younger woman with the condition) then please don't let PCOS ruin your life. You'll need a robust sense of humour, a good set of healthy recipes and prioritise your fitness. And unfortunately you may need to spend a bit more on good quality clothes if you are a bigger girl which make a difference. But above all do not believe the rubbish on the internet ..: or indeed the Guardian. I read that article and it was absolute rubbish that makes PCOS look like some whiny self pitying condition

BinkyBeaufort · 04/09/2024 09:21

I've had a subscription to The Grauniad for a couple of years, but cancelled it recently because of just this issue.

rollypanda · 04/09/2024 09:28

LunaandLily · 04/09/2024 08:01

Imane Khelif has ovaries but if you call her a woman on mumsnet, you better watch out. Never happy, you lot.

He's gone through male puberty. So most likely no ovaries.

Lancelottie · 04/09/2024 09:32

TorghunKhan · 03/09/2024 22:19

The copy editor probably made the change.

The copyeditor will be at the mercy of the style guide for the publication.

I had to fight quite hard once against 'menstruating people' being imposed on a damn article about health issues in pregnant women. They were very much not menstruating.

Lancelottie · 04/09/2024 09:35

Lovelyview · 04/09/2024 08:28

I agree a single email won't change anything but during the election campaign I was struck by politicians saying 'that never comes up on the doorstep' when asked about single sex spaces. I think we often think someone else is raising issues for us when actually we have to be the ones doing it. While organised campaigns are good I do think individuals saying 'this is wrong' are useful too.

It 'doesn't come up on the doorstep' because they run away if you start to mention it.

It comes up as they flee down the path saying 'I can see this isn't going to be a useful discussion.'

TorghunKhan · 04/09/2024 09:36

Lancelottie · 04/09/2024 09:32

The copyeditor will be at the mercy of the style guide for the publication.

I had to fight quite hard once against 'menstruating people' being imposed on a damn article about health issues in pregnant women. They were very much not menstruating.

exactly, a circle of madness, where one decision made by some knob head skews every article for years to come

PermanentTemporary · 04/09/2024 10:16

@rollypanda in the interests of fairness, I dont think we know that either.

(For me the entire problem with the IOC's allegedly inclusive approach (in fact, total abdication of responsibility) is that individual medical histories and appearance get openly bandied about. Given the situation, I can't be sorry that we actually did get confirmation that Caster Semenya does have a DSD only known in males, but it is only due to the IOC's ludicrous system that it ended up being known at all. Now we have others being caught up in sports politics. If the IOC gave clear guidance to affiliated organisations on making sure that their categories are not breached by those who don't belong to the category, individual histories could remain private - we'd know that anyone who turned up in an Olympic category has already provided appropriate proof of their right to be in it. Currently we don't know either way).

Newbieatthis · 04/09/2024 10:30

PatatiPatatras · 03/09/2024 21:16

By the way, blindness affects people born with eyes. Just saying.
🙄

Just almost choked on my coffee on the train, thanks for a bit of light relief Patati Smile

Carouselfish · 04/09/2024 10:32

They do mention women once they start talking about actual factual research.

Hoardasurass · 04/09/2024 10:44

@Boudiccaofsteel unfortunately not only do these idiots claim that PSOC makes you trans they also claim that it makes you intersex 🤬

NoBinturongsHereMate · 04/09/2024 10:49

Lancelottie · 04/09/2024 09:35

It 'doesn't come up on the doorstep' because they run away if you start to mention it.

It comes up as they flee down the path saying 'I can see this isn't going to be a useful discussion.'

Also, some politicians lie. Including about what comes up on doorsteps (or while fleeing down the garden path).

ErrolTheDragon · 04/09/2024 10:49

Hoardasurass · 04/09/2024 10:44

@Boudiccaofsteel unfortunately not only do these idiots claim that PSOC makes you trans they also claim that it makes you intersex 🤬

It's ludicrous. It does indeed only affect 'people with ovaries' - who are therefore unequivocally female, regardless of 'gender identity'.

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