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James Esses reaches settlement and receives apology

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LargeSquareRock · 14/08/2024 09:56

This is just wonderful news.

Take note, all of the institutions that continue to discriminate against lawful gender critical beliefs.

x.com/jamesesses/status/1823642057669259573?s=61&t=NHDSDk1MaF98_GOtcuLi0Q

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GeorgeOrwellsTurningGrave · 14/08/2024 10:39

I'm so pleased for James. He's such a thoroughly decent and thoughtful person. I hope the therapeutic profession hasn't lost him entirely. And, as others have said, that reads like a sincere and reflective apology. Let's hope those words find practical steps going forward so they do protect future and present students from egregious bullying in future.

YellowAsteroid · 14/08/2024 10:39

Wow! Wonderful news.

Getonwitit · 14/08/2024 10:50

Excellent news

MarieDeGournay · 14/08/2024 10:52

CocoapuffPuff · 14/08/2024 10:26

That's a very good apology letter. Professional and reflective. I wonder who has left? Cos that big a change of attitude is usually only possible when accompanied by a forceful personality leaving.

Congratulations to James, and well done for staying strong through what must have been a very upsetting experience.

I agree that the letter is very good, an exemplar for all apology letters, none of the mealy-mouthed 'we're sorry if anybody was offended' 'we're sorry you think we did something wrong' kind of stuff😠

Credit where credit is due to the Metanoia Institute for acknowledging their wrong and trying to make things right.

I like to recognise 'confession and a firm purpose of amendment' when it occurs, which ex- or indeed current Catholics will recognise as the pre-requisites for forgiveness.

A bit Pollyanna-ish of me, perhaps, but fair dues to Metanoia for that letter.

Mostly though, Bravo and thank you James!

GenderBlender · 14/08/2024 10:56

Now, that's how to do an apology. Won't undo the harm they caused, but at least he can say he made a positive impact.

Helleofabore · 14/08/2024 10:57

It really is interesting that they admit that so much has changed so quickly in the medical understanding around this ideological led issue. The very foundation of affirming only truly has been shaken.

DisappearingGirl · 14/08/2024 10:59

Here's the full text of the apology from Metanoia:

"We are pleased to announce that we have reached settlement in the Employment Tribunal claim brought by James Esses against us.

Metanoia recognises that gender-critical beliefs are protected under the Equality Act 2010. These are the beliefs that sex is binary, immutable and biological and is fundamentally important. Whilst Metanoia specialises in professional training for those working in adult and not child psychotherapy it accepts as a matter of general principle the validity of the professional belief that children with gender dysphoria should be treated with explorative therapy, rather than being affirmed towards medical intervention. Discrimination against students because of these beliefs is unlawful.

Metanoia also acknowledges the changing policy landscape in this field, including the significant UKCP withdrawal from the 2017 Memorandum of Understanding on Conversion Therapy, on child safeguarding grounds, as well as the outcome of the Cass Review. We accept that Mr Esses’ advocacy on this subject-matter was motivated by a desire to protect children.

We also recognise the importance of freedom of speech within educational institutions and the steps taken by the government in this regard, including the recent introduction of the Higher Education (Freedom of Speech) Act 2023.
We accept that in our treatment of Mr Esses we were in breach of our own policies, when we summarily, and without due process, expelled him from his Masters’ course in Integrative Psychotherapy. Mr Esses was not afforded a hearing or an internal appeal.

We also apologise for publicising Mr Esses’ expulsion on social media and in other communications. We accept that the Institute’s public comment on social media contributed to Mr Esses receiving online abuse from third parties, which we condemn.

As a consequence of his expulsion, Mr Esses was barred from the opportunity of completing the additional two years of his studies and receiving his qualification with the Institute. Mr Esses passed every assessment undertaken which had been marked, had received positive feedback from his clinical placements and, at the time of his expulsion, had been signed off to set up in private practice by his supervisor, clinical placement and personal tutor. We apologise to him for the impact of his expulsion, both professional and personal.

Notwithstanding the fact that high-quality therapy is rooted in empathy, active listening and unconditional positive regard, we did not fulfil these values in our treatment of Mr Esses. For this we apologise fully.

We will seek to learn the lessons from this ordeal to ensure that this never happens to another student within our Institute and have already taken significant steps so as to improve quality in decision-making. We acknowledge the hurt that it has caused to Mr Esses and wish him well for the future."

CocoapuffPuff · 14/08/2024 11:00

I'd be interested in just how many clinicians are struggling to sleep right now. I'm sure some won't bother their arses, but I'd like to think the majority who hopped on the bandwagon are having some serious "oh shit, what've I done?" moments.

Beowulfa · 14/08/2024 11:03

Thanks to James (and others) who've stood up for vulnerable children rather than take the easy route along with their craven colleagues.

HandShoe · 14/08/2024 11:07

Great news, and nice to see a proper apology for a change!

lubl · 14/08/2024 11:07

Im a counsellor and on several counsellor/therapist facebook pages, where James Esses and his case has and still is being talked about. The mealy mouthed, deeply unpleasant way they talk about him
has always made me feel sick.

These are people who care not a shit for the safeguarding of vulnerable children. They wanted and still want Esses silenced because he represents logic and truth.

They talk about gender critical therapists with utter disdain and hatred. They refer people to services with names such as cuddly unicorn affirmation counsellors (made up
name but you get
the gist) which are usually therapists who've had surgery or hormones themselves as believe they're in the wrong body.

They write poorly phrased letters of
complaint about GC therapists to the UKCP and BACP. Fortunately the UKCP have done their homework and wised up tosafeguarding
and the law.
I wonder when BACP will do the same?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/08/2024 11:14

That's a brilliant outcome - well done James for persisting.

Ivehearditbothways · 14/08/2024 11:15

I really like that they have mentioned new research and the Cass report etc, that they are acknowledging that actually, he was right and medical research is supporting him. That they got it wrong for the sake of cancel
culture rather than actual research. It’s good they’ve put that in.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/08/2024 11:16

lubl · 14/08/2024 11:07

Im a counsellor and on several counsellor/therapist facebook pages, where James Esses and his case has and still is being talked about. The mealy mouthed, deeply unpleasant way they talk about him
has always made me feel sick.

These are people who care not a shit for the safeguarding of vulnerable children. They wanted and still want Esses silenced because he represents logic and truth.

They talk about gender critical therapists with utter disdain and hatred. They refer people to services with names such as cuddly unicorn affirmation counsellors (made up
name but you get
the gist) which are usually therapists who've had surgery or hormones themselves as believe they're in the wrong body.

They write poorly phrased letters of
complaint about GC therapists to the UKCP and BACP. Fortunately the UKCP have done their homework and wised up tosafeguarding
and the law.
I wonder when BACP will do the same?

That's quite terrifying isn't it? Counsellors / therapists so steeped in gender woowoo they abandon their professional ethics, skills and knowledge of child safeguarding.
This ideology really does beclown all those who support it.

Boiledbeetle · 14/08/2024 11:16

I know it's already been replicated in posts but here's the screenshots of James' post for posterity!

James Esses reaches settlement and receives apology
James Esses reaches settlement and receives apology
KnitFastDieWarm · 14/08/2024 11:17

I really appreciate proper apologies like
this. Kudos to them for actually accepting they were wrong and learning. It’s a sign of real wisdom and integrity to be able to say ‘we were wrong, we’ve learned more now, and we’re sorry’

Glamourreader · 14/08/2024 11:22

So pleased for James, he's been so brave and put everything on the line.

duc748 · 14/08/2024 11:32

CocoapuffPuff · 14/08/2024 10:26

That's a very good apology letter. Professional and reflective. I wonder who has left? Cos that big a change of attitude is usually only possible when accompanied by a forceful personality leaving.

The contrast to the mealy-mouthed 'apologies' in some other cases is marked, isn't it? Whatever the reason, it's good news.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 14/08/2024 11:34

Notwithstanding the fact that high-quality therapy is rooted in empathy, active listening and unconditional positive regard, we did not fulfil these values in our treatment of Mr Esses. For this we apologise fully.

This bit is great. Well done whoever wrote this.

NitroNine · 14/08/2024 11:40

@MarieDeGournay
I like to recognise 'confession and a firm purpose of amendment' when it occurs

As you say, they’re showing genuine contrition, which is heartening.

(For anyone interested in the theology, with apologies for the sidetrack to everyone else: I can understand why people might get the impression the Sacrament of Reconciliation allows some endless sin-cycle with no repercussions; & clearly the Seal of the Confessional absolutely means that in the secular world. However, your immortal soul is essentially in the shitter if you mention something in confession for which you’re not sorry [conflicted feelings is something else, eg it’s accepted & understood a woman confessing to stabbing their abusive husband in self-defence is likely to have conflicting emotions about it]; &/or that you intend to do again; &/or that you’ll not make any effort to atone for. Not applicable to the institute, obviously - though I suppose if the person who wrote the apology randomly happened to be Catholic it will have shaped how they think about making apologies, as you can see 😉)

lcakethereforeIam · 14/08/2024 11:44

Mea culpa, mea maxima culpa?

anyolddinosaur · 14/08/2024 11:57

James email to supporters says "Although I am not in a position to reveal the exact terms of settlement, I can say that I am extremely happy with them. " The apology includes "Mr Esses passed every assessment undertaken which had been marked, had received positive feedback from his clinical placements and, at the time of his expulsion, had been signed off to set up in private practice by his supervisor, clinical placement and personal tutor"

so my guess would be that there was a considerable financial payment, that fulsome apology and signing him off again if that is necessary.

NitroNine · 14/08/2024 12:02

lcakethereforeIam · 14/08/2024 11:44

Mea culpa, mea maxima culpa?

I mean, it does have a touch of:

I confess to almighty God James Esses,
and to you, my brothers and sisters,
that I have greatly sinned
through my thoughts and in my words,
in what I have done, and in what I have
failed to do;
through my fault, through my fault,
through my most grievous fault;
therefore I ask blessed Mary ever-Virgin,
all the Angels and Saints James Esses,
and you, my brothers and sister,
to pray for me to the Lord our God please give me a chance to do better, [which is admittedly a bar you could easily trip over, but I have to start somewhere…]

lonelywater · 14/08/2024 12:08

great news for James and a proper "you got me bang to rights, guv," apology. Maybe someone should forward that to the BMA?

RantyMcRanterton · 14/08/2024 12:26

Wow that's astonishing. Well done James.