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Sad that the Bunbury thread is not around anymore

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RickyBobbysKFC · 26/07/2024 07:49

But if it is, could someone point me in the right direction?

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Floisme · 26/07/2024 08:46

I miss Bunbury too - a very clever woman, I learned a lot from her.

But I think she - and all talk of her - was banned in the end, so I don't expect there's much left of any threads where she features.

highame · 26/07/2024 08:57

I've tried a search and found nothing. Maybe someone else will be luckier.

Can't even find The Bluestocking threads

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 26/07/2024 09:00

The links in the following work for me.

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 2

The Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

This is a continuation of the earlier Public Service Announcement thread:

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3321127-public-service-announcement

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls.

Quoting from the Cornell & Stanford paper I linked above:

While most users tend to be civil, others may engage in antisocial behavior, negatively affecting other users and harming the community. Such undesired behavior, which includes trolling, flaming, bullying, and harassment, is exacerbated by the fact that people tend to be less inhibited in their online interactions (Suler 2004).

[We are addressing] several questions about antisocial behavior: First, are there users that only become antisocial later in their community life, or is deviant behavior innate? Second, does a community’s reaction to users’ anti- social behavior help them improve, or does it instead cause them to become more antisocial? Last, can antisocial users be effectively identified early on?

I'm using this paper as a lens to view the posts from users - particularly the researchers' discussion of the work they did to predict FBUs (Future Banned Users).

In fact, we only need to observe 5 to 10 user’s posts before a classifier is able to make a reliable prediction. Further, cross- domain classification performance remains high, suggesting that the features indicative of antisocial behavior that we discover are not community-specific.

Just gone back to take a look at the earliest Bunbury PSA threads - it's quite emotional. Various bits of research and links in the opening posts and that's probably the first time Fermats posted her 'how to handle a derailer' advice.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Public Service Announcement | Mumsnet

When you see threads plopped into FWR, especially the curious repeat of well worn subjects, I recommend you check for poster history before engaging....

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3321127-public-service-announcement

Floisme · 26/07/2024 09:04

Thanks for the reminder and I take your point @StickItInTheFamilyAlbum

RickyBobbysKFC · 26/07/2024 09:24

Thank you all for your replies. I had a long break from FWR and I’m starting to feel vocal again!

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StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 26/07/2024 09:29

I miss the Bluestocking and the village.

RickyBobbysKFC · 26/07/2024 09:30

@StickItInTheFamilyAlbum thanks Stick.

I’ve been dipping in and out of MN for a few weeks now and I’m finding it hard not to bite on a few threads. The thought of Bunbury has kept me going, but this morning I couldn’t help myself and started posting on a thread. I need to stay strong!

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ErrolTheDragon · 26/07/2024 09:36

I'm an idiot, I just posted this on the old Bluestocking thread instead of here

The linked Bluestocking thread was at 999 with no link to a subsequent thread. I was thinking last night we could do with reopening the pub - a few people on MrsTPs thread seemed in need of drowning their sorrows, metaphorically or otherwise.

ErrolTheDragon · 26/07/2024 09:45

...and therefore felt obliged to do the decent thing...

The Bluestocking is reopening www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/5128182-the-bluestocking-is-reopening

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