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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
YoucancallmeAI · 10/07/2024 12:54

you can also read the article by putting url into archive.ph

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TWETMIRF · 10/07/2024 13:07

I doubt the people who think it's OK to buy babies will give a shit. The mother isn't seen as human, just as something that serves the wants of the buyers.

Hoppinggreen · 10/07/2024 13:12

Who cares as long as the product turns out healthy, mind you if it doesn't the purchaser is under no obligation to take it

circular2478 · 10/07/2024 13:15

@Hoppinggreen this is a baby we're talking about not an oil painting someone has commissioned

TWETMIRF · 10/07/2024 13:23

Yet babies have been rejected by commissioning parents for not being up to standard. We are against surrogacy because we see the mother and baby that is harmed each time. It's people trafficking and exploitation and should be consigned to history.

Helleofabore · 10/07/2024 14:03

I think you will find hopping has posted sarcasm.

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 10/07/2024 14:08

circular2478 · 10/07/2024 13:15

@Hoppinggreen this is a baby we're talking about not an oil painting someone has commissioned

Yes.
That’s literally her point.

JellySaurus · 10/07/2024 17:17

I wonder whether there are differences in outcomes between mothers who are carrying IVF pregnancies with donor eggs for themselves, and those mothers who are carrying commissioned babies.

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 10/07/2024 20:56

JellySaurus · 10/07/2024 17:17

I wonder whether there are differences in outcomes between mothers who are carrying IVF pregnancies with donor eggs for themselves, and those mothers who are carrying commissioned babies.

Yes, I wondered this, too. For example, it's fairly common for lesbian couples to do reciprocal IVF, where one woman carries a baby created using the other woman's egg- I'd be really interested to know if the non-biological, gestational mother was more likely to experience complications in this scenario.

needtonamechangeforthis1 · 10/07/2024 21:03

I'd like to read the actual scientific paper that has been peer reviewed on this before forming an opinion. Not some agenda driven journalist attempt to make sense of the findings without a thorough understanding.

JellySaurus · 11/07/2024 00:35

Topofthemountain · 10/07/2024 21:46

I thought risks when using a donor egg were always increased, the end 'path' of the baby is largely irrelevant to some extent.

This gives a brief overview, it is from a fertility services provider, so if anything would want to.play down the risks.

https://www.cofertility.com/family-learn/what-is-pregnancy-like-when-using-donor-eggs

But what about the pregnant woman? Does it make a difference to her health outcomes if she is seen as the beloved mother of her own baby, or as the gestating vessel of an unrelated infant?

YoucancallmeAI · 11/07/2024 00:43

Isn't there something about if a woman was malnourished in utero & growing up then she is more likely to have complications in pregnancy - even if she isn't malnourished while pregnant? Seeing as an awful lot of surrogates are from poorer backgrounds maybe this could be a factor in poor outcomes (for the surrogate).

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Topofthemountain · 11/07/2024 08:16

JellySaurus · 11/07/2024 00:35

But what about the pregnant woman? Does it make a difference to her health outcomes if she is seen as the beloved mother of her own baby, or as the gestating vessel of an unrelated infant?

I don't understand what you are asking. Seen by whom? The use of a donor egg increases the risk of complications, there may be other risk factors in the case of a surrogate mother, but donor egg and IVF increases that risk.

Hoppinggreen · 11/07/2024 08:21

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 10/07/2024 14:08

Yes.
That’s literally her point.

Precisely

RedToothBrush · 11/07/2024 08:23

TWETMIRF · 10/07/2024 13:07

I doubt the people who think it's OK to buy babies will give a shit. The mother isn't seen as human, just as something that serves the wants of the buyers.

This.

They will hire PR to sanitise anything and then claim that the surrogate made a free choice.

HelloCheekyCat · 11/07/2024 08:31

Presumably a woman accepts higher risks if she’s using IVF & donor eggs because the end result is the baby she wants.
With surrogacy she has all the risks but could die for someone else to have their baby. But it’s ok because the surrogate gets paid (even though because she’s being paid she doesn’t REALLY want to do it)

JellySaurus · 11/07/2024 08:53

@Topofthemountain

Health outcomes for patients are affected by HCP prejudices (conscious or otherwise). Things like women's pain being dismissed but men's pain taken seriously, and dropping blood oxygen not being noticed in black women because HCPs are on the lookout for pallor. Do HCPs and other caregivers take as much care with the surrogate mothers' physical and mental health as they do with other mothers? Do the surrogate mother's own thoughts and attitudes have an affect - the knowledge that she will be giving the baby away, for example?

Topofthemountain · 11/07/2024 12:30

JellySaurus · 11/07/2024 08:53

@Topofthemountain

Health outcomes for patients are affected by HCP prejudices (conscious or otherwise). Things like women's pain being dismissed but men's pain taken seriously, and dropping blood oxygen not being noticed in black women because HCPs are on the lookout for pallor. Do HCPs and other caregivers take as much care with the surrogate mothers' physical and mental health as they do with other mothers? Do the surrogate mother's own thoughts and attitudes have an affect - the knowledge that she will be giving the baby away, for example?

Thank you for explaining. It would be interesting to know if that adds another layer of risk on top of the IVF + donor egg which already increases risk

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