I think you're referring to something I wrote. This might help -
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender_history
I understand that the effects of the current trans movement, as manifested by TRAs, has had a very deleterious effect on women and girls. And that this has made us very angry and frustrated. I also understand the concept of social contagion and I agree that at least some of the confused teenagers who are currently claiming to be trans, actually are not.
But SOME OF THEM ARE. And really - do we have to descend into hatred? Don't any of the posters on here with their vitriolic comments know any non-gender-conforming people? And even if you don't can you not at least try to understand and empathise?
Above all, why is it absolutely fine for people to be gay, but not trans?? Thirty years ago being gay was widely considered abnormal, perverted and disgusting, and people would be ashamed and horrified if their child came out. Now most people are probably somewhat concerned but overall tolerant and accepting. The shame and horror has attached iteself to trans people instead. See a pattern here?
Of course we need to sort out the clash between our rights and those of aggressive trans groups, and of course it should be decided in our favour. But I really can't stand posters on here who basically don't believe that my gentle, intelligent and completely harmless trans daughter exists, or that she is somehow making it up, attention seeking or mentally ill. She is none of those things and she is here.
And thank you, MrsSkylerWhite. What you said. I probably shouldn't have fed the beast by providing a link. I guess I still hope to get through to at least one person on here.