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Stonewall has expelled crossdressers from the trans umbrella - Sex Matters

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IwantToRetire · 01/07/2024 01:49

Stonewall’s long-standing definition of “trans” changed on 27th June 2024 to drop “crossdresser” from the list. Before then, it said:

“Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, gender-queer (GQ), gender-fluid, non-binary, gender-variant, crossdresser, genderless, agender, nongender, third gender, bi-gender, trans man, trans woman, trans masculine, trans feminine and neutrois.”

The so-called “trans community” is not a homogenous group but a list of identity options, some of which, like “neutrois”, no one can define. Crossdressers are familiar to many of us, though, and in the past would not have been described as trans. It always seemed odd that Stonewall’s definition included them. It has worked well for crossdressers, though, normalising their behaviour and giving them protection. Calling a man a part-time crossdresser could see you branded transphobic and even cost you your job – even if the man in question did not claim to be a woman.

Article continues at https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/stonewall-redefines-trans-to-exclude-crossdressers/

Stonewall redefines trans to exclude crossdressers - Sex Matters

Stonewall has expelled crossdressers from the trans umbrella Why do some men crossdress? Are crossdressers no longer trans? Stonewall has expelled crossdressers from the trans umbrella Stonewall’s long-standing definition of “trans” changed on 27th Jun...

https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/stonewall-redefines-trans-to-exclude-crossdressers

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Delphin · 02/07/2024 09:55

BobbyBiscuits · 01/07/2024 20:19

For me cross dresser is a bit outdated as a concept. Surely in this day and age clothing is warn by people and it just means they are dressed or clothed? A man in a dress or a woman in overalls and high Vis? They are just clothes. Clothes don't have a gender?

Clothes have a gender insofar as they are tailored to a specific body form. A woman's dress off the rack won't fit a male body.
A few weeks ago I was watching a docu about reuse and recycling. Three men were building a smoking box from an old metal cupboard. The electrician of the three (an artist in his main job) was wearing a skirt and top in black, which were clearly tailored to his male form. Black leggings, male sandals, male short-hair cut, clean shaven. He looked like a man, who was wearing a well tailored skirt. A bit like a medieval male dress. No indication that he identified as trans.

TempestTost · 02/07/2024 10:41

BobbyBiscuits · 01/07/2024 20:19

For me cross dresser is a bit outdated as a concept. Surely in this day and age clothing is warn by people and it just means they are dressed or clothed? A man in a dress or a woman in overalls and high Vis? They are just clothes. Clothes don't have a gender?

It's not about the clothes. It's about imagining themselves as women sexually. The clothes are a means to an end.

LittleLittleRex · 02/07/2024 10:46

As people are still getting to define themselves, these men can just claim to feel like a women with their lovely womanly fishnets and erections and they are still included.

I suspect my definition of a cross dresser is not the same as the way these men see themselves, this purely stops us claiming that Stonewall supports them. It still does support them as they can just call themselves whatever they like.

lamppostliving · 02/07/2024 10:50

nauticant · 01/07/2024 07:53

Following comments above, the intention isn't for "crossdressers" to be excluded from the definition of "trans", it's to make sure this group of people is still there but rebranded as something else because otherwise it's too revealing about what's going on.

Well quite.

They’ve just cottoned onto the fact that when women like me are chatting to our ‘be kind, TWAW’ friends who still, bless them, think it’s all about poor transsexuals, and explain cross dressers are under the Stonewall trans definition, that it lands badly with our ‘be kind’ friends who exclaim ‘ but they aren’t trans!’ and then start to ask questions.

This is marketing.

misscockerspaniel · 02/07/2024 11:09

Too much of a coincidence for it not to be linked to Labour coming into power.

They are probably labelled the same as those males who flip flop according to the side of the bed they get out of in the morning and, if that is the case, AGPs are now to be called gender-fluid, in which case, according to the gospel of stonewall 🙄they still fall under the trans banner.

It is just a tidying up exercise.

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LonginesPrime · 02/07/2024 16:13

misscockerspaniel · 02/07/2024 11:09

Too much of a coincidence for it not to be linked to Labour coming into power.

They are probably labelled the same as those males who flip flop according to the side of the bed they get out of in the morning and, if that is the case, AGPs are now to be called gender-fluid, in which case, according to the gospel of stonewall 🙄they still fall under the trans banner.

It is just a tidying up exercise.

I wonder if it might be the opposite, actually. I know that obviously no-one thinks the tories will win, but for the sake of argument, if they did and the EA 2010 is updated to reflect that sex = biological sex, it would make sense to remove cross-dressers from the list.

One argument I've heard in recent times from psychology students is that they are being taught in uni that "biology" can include psychology and that therefore, a transwoman can technically be "biologically" female if their psychology is characteristically female (I suspect this comes from queer theory and deconstructing everything).

Another argument I've heard for transwomen being defined as biologically female is that hormones are biological and so if someone has an endocrine profile that matches a female, then they could technically be classed as biologically female (I know that doesn't work scientifically, but it's an argument some transactivists fervently stand by).

I think I've also heard IW and/or similar activists refer to themself as biologically female (or as 'cis' women) along the same lines too.

Cross-dressing is the only term on the Stonewall list that doesn't relate to some sort of inner or psychological conception of gender, so I wonder if that has been removed to make it easier for transactivists to claim that actually, transwomen are biologically female (as they have simply redefined the word "biology" to mean something else). If "biology" is redefined in common usage to class transwomen as "biologically female", then any amendment to the EA 2010 would need to go back to the drawing board to reflect the new linguistic usage of "biology".

The more language shifts, the harder it is for the law to keep pace with how words in legislation should be interpreted in everyday situations (such as deciding access to single-sex spaces in practical terms).

Also, regardless of whether Stonewall is worried about the unlikely event occurrence of a Tory win, it makes sense that distinctions in accordance with biology would be pushed for by any GC activists, groups or parties.

So since the focus of the GC movement is so squarely on "biology" (which has become more prevalent in recent months with the end of the "no debate" era), it makes perfect sense that this would be the next word to be redefined by Stonewall. And removing "cross-dressers" from their list makes this much more achievable.

IwantToRetire · 02/07/2024 17:44

Shortshriftandlethal · 02/07/2024 08:28

A transsexual persepective:

"The term transsexual was defined as a medical one and was what appeared in all my early medical files when I was sent from doctor to doctor, hospital to hospital and into psychiatric units.

By the time I got to the point of surgery - always the end of the process and after several years of other therapy first back then - something had shifted. As you were asked to sign a waiver before they consented to do the surgery that you understood that it was not changing sex but reassigning gender.

I was told by the psychiatrist about to pass me onto the surgeon that this was a legal requirement because the law would not recognise any change of sex and he was sure never would as he had just gone to court to give evidence to help annul a transsexual's marriage to a man as illegal on those grounds.

So gender was introduced into the nomenclature not for any reason other than to give a separation from sex.

This is probably why transsexuals have always been realistic about this concept of changing sex. We had to get that before we passed that point. If we didn't then you were not taken further.

I would guess based on how many people today seem not to get this biological reality within the transgender community that it is not part of the treatment path nowadays.

After I was signed off by Charring Cross in the early 80s (they only did two or three years follow up after my final surgery) I was basically left alone and never really asked about the subject again, even by GPs, though, of course, I told them all every time I moved to a new area. I did not even see my notes until 2004 when my GP wanted to check them with me during the application for a GRC and I discovered that they wrongly claimed I had had breast enhancement. I had been offered it on the NHS in 1980 but had turned it down.

All the records still used the term transsexual. I never even heard the term transgender until all the stories started appearing on Digital Spy where I had posted regularly on media matters and the subject had suddenly become something everyone was talking about. But calling it transgender.

That's when I first started searching the net to find out what was going on, joined the only non fanatical forum I could find (Angels) and started catching up on what had been going on over the past decades whilst I was getting on with living.

Whenever I used the word transsexual I was reminded not to, just as I was told to use terms like Cis and Terf. I looked into what these meant as I had no idea and quickly decided they were needless or provocative so I was not going to follow that pattern. But transgender or trans for short seemed a harmless enough word and I thought, as transsexual emphasised the misconception of 'sex change' perhaps it was a sensible modification.

The reclamation independently seeming to happen now appears to be happening partly out of distancing to some degree, but also I think because it emphasises that in our case - whilst the biological reality is understood - it always was about changing as far as possible the sex characteristics of the body. And not about expressing a girly gender identity, or indeed any kind of lifestyle preference or interest in clothes or hobbies.

For some gender expression very much seems to be what it is about. I think for transsexuals it is about the body. Probably why there is very little interest in physical transition by those transgender and it is really more about expressing personality in a way they find more comfortable.

So without presuming different causes or origins as we are still guessing on those with any of us - I think there are two very different focal points of what we seem to be doing about it.

Reclaiming transsexual just seems to have occurred to a few people at the same time as a way to point that out"

By the time I got to the point of surgery - always the end of the process and after several years of other therapy first back then - something had shifted. As you were asked to sign a waiver before they consented to do the surgery that you understood that it was not changing sex but reassigning gender.

I was told by the psychiatrist about to pass me onto the surgeon that this was a legal requirement because the law would not recognise any change of sex and he was sure never would as he had just gone to court to give evidence to help annul a transsexual's marriage to a man as illegal on those grounds.

So gender was introduced into the nomenclature not for any reason other than to give a separation from sex.

This is really interesting as a way of showing how attitudes, policies have changed.

At that time, was the point of the process about identifying someone as having genuine dysphoria, and if accepted, then surgery was offered?

Because the big change in terms of the law and medical practice seems to be (put crudely) those who experience actual physical discomfort, as opposed to those who choose or would prefer to have a different physical body.

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