Probably about to get kicked out of a FB group.

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But if I was the parent of a daughter that had requested single sex accommodation and I ended up with mixed sex through a great big lie, I'd be fuming. These kids are being sold a lie and the sooner we stop pandering to this bollocks the better. Plus I can't believe the woman who sees no difference between religious needs and a boy needing his feelz stroking.

DD1 is off to uni on Sept, the uni she wants is rather stonewalled but she is GC and I hope she remains so. She's experienced a fair bit of trauma via her alcoholic fuckwit of a dad.

To be fair, Sussex Uni Student Accommodation is usually mixed sex anyway.

You can request 'single gender' (their words) but it is subject to availability.

And they all have their own bedrooms and en-suite bathrooms, so not sharing sleeping or toileting/bathing anyway.

Well, quite. Sussex is a rainbow bedecked uni. Sadly DD1 wants to go to Wales which is in quite a state.

I have been told to educate myself: Anonymous member Let me support by saying to other parents 1) A trans woman IS a woman, even if she is early in transition. 2) Asking to live in a dorm where she is SAFE from harassment is NOT asking biologically born females to give up their dignity. 3) Putting a trans woman in a male dorm is a recipe for disaster for her because see Item 1. Anonymous - please check in with the Student Union’s LGBT support group and talk to accommodations about your YP’s issue. They can assist best and u will find out really about what kind of community the uni is. I also suggest to others to watch the documentary “FOR THEY KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO” 🏳️‍🌈🦄

I've suggested watching Adult Human Female for balance.

This is very wrong. DD studied medicine. She had lived in mixed University housing but there was provision for those who wanted single sex - mainly for religious reasons. Accommodation during hospital placements tended to be single sex, but even then there were issues as some of the more religious girls were unhappy about boys entering the flat, let alone staying overnight.

Trans kids like others can live in mixed accommodation. Why are they imposing their preferences on a group who will suffer extreme discomfort if forced to share with someone of the opposite sex.

The use of the word “school” suggests the Fb parent is American. You should welcome them to Terf Island.

I've suggested that given this is about Sussex, they request trans female only accommodation, creating a much needed 3rd space.

Makes me worried for when DD1 goes though. There's so far to go to get this crap out of our education system.

Interesting that someone else has piped up about the conflict between religious needs and male bodied delusional beliefs.

I have 2 likes on my post. Don't think that would have happened 6 months ago.

So putting a trans woman in a male down wouldn’t be safe, because she’s a woman? So which dorm does this nitwit thing a trans boy should be allocated, I wonder?

I’m in that group but can’t see the OP, I spotted it earlier and gave it a swerve but now looks like it has gone

It's still there... and I've not been kicked out so far!

And reported. The ratio was Interesting though. I think it's sad so many are still encouraging their youngsters to buy into this and not saying, wait, war what you want, but you can never be something you're physically unable to become.

Bit transphobic of the YP parent in the post to go on about their child's appearance, as if their gender has anything to do with their body?

Also, where they write about not wanting to be in make accommodation as it would raise questions, implying that no females would (dare/risk/feel safe) to ask questions about a make in their accomodation: it's so obvious! How can they not join the dots!!

This.

I'd like to see that parent confirm that yes, of course a trans boy should be in the boys' dorm, even early in their transition, and even though it would be unsafe for a woman to be in there.

Let the batshit roam free.

I am in that group and have just looked back at your post. You now have 21 likes, two loves, three shocked faces and only one angry face. Very telling.

How many more likes would your comment have if people could like it anonymously?

If this YP was assigned a flat shared with other trans identifying males, would YP be happy or not? If not why not?

Specifically requesting accommodation with people who wanted single sex accommodation when you are of the opposite sex seems very self centred, especially as there is mixed sex accommodation available that would allow them to share with young women who don't mind mixed sex accommodation.

I did suggest that given its Sussex, a flat of trans identifying young people would provide a much needed 3rd space. I don't think that was a popular suggestion.

It's all about maintaining the fantasy, bugger what the other young people think or feel. And those poor students when they come out the other end and start job hunting. There's just no resilience.

Simple answer to this. Get all the males to declare themselves TW - whereupon the risk from them will magically disappear 🙄

Then this TW and all the (actual) female people can confidently share with all the males and nothing bad will ever happen and they’ll all live happily ever after 🙄

There shouldn’t be any risk - I thought all young people were trans inclusive these days - or is that just the women?

The complete lack of self-awareness in wanting to not be with males, while making everyone else be with a male. Lmfao.