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Hey Rutherford, Goldacre, Humanists and Skeptics

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binaryfinery · 18/04/2024 16:25

I know you like to think that you are Galileo - that you are one of the heroes who would stand up to anti-rationalism and anti-science and would bravely take a stand, and put your selves on the line to hold to your principles of reason and science and objectivity.

But you are not that person are you? You are actually the people who, in a society of religious orthodoxy, would be siding with the orthodoxy to condemn the minority speaking for rationality. At best, you would stay silent as others persecuted those calling for science and rationality, but, more likely given your actions over the past decade, and yes I am looking hard at you humanists now, you would be joining in the jeering and persecution.

Because you see, those who speak out, its a personality type. Its those who have the clarity of thought and morality to be able to think for themselves. To be able to discern for themselves, and then have the courage and integrity to hold firm to what they have evidenced and to speak out. Its about valuing integrity over tribalism. Its about valuing integrity over being popular.

And you self-identified empiricists and rationalists have failed that test, so badly failed. Your moment came, your moment came in gender ideology, your moment came especially in Tavistock. And you failed. The people who actually are walking in the footsteps of Galileo are people like Graham Lineham, Maya Forstater, Hannah Barnes, Alf up a tree, Jo Phoenix, Helen Joyce, KJK, Julie Bindel, and all the many, many other women, and some men, - most whose names will never be in newspapers, who have been patiently gathering the evidence, gathering the data, analysing the facts, speaking out.

We are the rationalists, the empiricists, the ones who follow the evidence, the data and draw our conclusions from that, not you. We are the ones who speak out, who put our necks on the line and pay the price for what is true and can be evidenced. Not you.

All you are, are people who have enjoyed mocking and laughing at the religious, the followers of supernatural beliefs, the homeopaths, because, in the time you are fortunate to live, that was easy and no cost to you. But when you were actually called to stand up for the principles you claimed to have, by God you failed to do so. How you failed.

How you can have the brass neck to publicly stand up for science and reason and rationality after that, how you can lack that self-reflection I will never know. And Rutherford,. saying we are mistaking caution for incuriosity is such bullshit. This debate has been raging for over a decade. It doesn't take that long to see though gender ideology. You are simply trying to hide your cowardice under a cloak of incuriosity.

( And yes, not all humanists and skeptics but an awful lot of them, especially that none of that should have fallen for this unevidenced, counter reality belief system. Not that liberal humanist on a recent episode of Anti-social, she was good, I liked her)

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binaryfinery · 22/04/2024 09:35

TempestTost · 21/04/2024 21:42

There are some pretty selfish people.

In some cases though, even when it's extreme, I think it can be a differernt view of pragmatic elements that is the real differernce.

There is a tendency for many people on the right to think that better economic performance will ultimately better things for everyone. Sometimes that's justified in certain instances, others it's a sort of magical thinking (imo), but certainly it's true that without economic productivity there isn't any money for social programs of any kind.

There is also, I think, a stronger tendency for conservatives to think that helping the poor with social programs can have negative outcomes, even for those people. I've recently watched a film from a few years ago about black conservatives in the US, and it's fresh in my mind, so I'll give an example from that. Many of the people interviewed felt that the increased social supports in the 1970s had really screwed up the economic progress that the black community there was making. Because of the nature of the supports, the number of single mothers increased hugely, and coming from a one parent household is itself one of the biggest risks for poor outcomes and poverty.

One of the common themes that comes out for me is that Tories in general seem less concerned about whether their policy ideas are "nice," or whether people think they are kind.

I watched a really interesting discussion between Candace Owen ( black republican) and a black professor from the left. They were debating the black community, the problems it faces and the solutions. They both obviously had very different analyses of both the problems and the solutions facing black Americans, but what came across strongly to me was that they both cared deeply about the black community in America and wanted solutions to help them progress.

I wish we lived in a society where these sort of debates of opposing views, intelligent and rigorous yet respectful debate with no name calling or insults, were the norm. I think there would be less division if there were.

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ISaySteadyOn · 22/04/2024 09:36

Could you post a link to that? Sounds fascinating.

TempestTost · 23/04/2024 02:20

ISaySteadyOn · 22/04/2024 09:36

Could you post a link to that? Sounds fascinating.

I wonder if it might have been Cornell West she was talking to? I think they've had discussions in the media a few times so I'm not sure which one binary was thinking of.

I find Candace Owens quite frustrating, she is so intent on proving her opponent wrong she often doesn't really listen, and will use thes set-pieces that sometimes aren't really addressing what the other person is talking about. Even when I think her conclusion is reasonable, she won't admit that anyone else could have any legitimate reason for their view if it is differernt than hers.

That being said, she has the courage to stand up for her views.

I like Glen Loury and John McWhorter's podcasts on American race politics a lot though, they are well worth watching.

DramaLlamaBangBang · 23/04/2024 08:11

There was an interesting episode of the Jon Ronson podcast in Radio 4 where he spoke to a Chinese American journalist who merely recorded and broadcast the opinions of a Black man during the BLM protests saying it would be good if people also addressed why Black people were being killed every day by other Black people ( in other words, addressing poverty, drug use, educational inequality etc). He was shamed by a White colleague and forced to apologise. He said he then realised what was happening was that he had apologised for giving a Black man a voice by a privileged White woman.

TheColourOutOfSpace · 23/04/2024 09:04

binaryfinery · 18/04/2024 16:25

I know you like to think that you are Galileo - that you are one of the heroes who would stand up to anti-rationalism and anti-science and would bravely take a stand, and put your selves on the line to hold to your principles of reason and science and objectivity.

But you are not that person are you? You are actually the people who, in a society of religious orthodoxy, would be siding with the orthodoxy to condemn the minority speaking for rationality. At best, you would stay silent as others persecuted those calling for science and rationality, but, more likely given your actions over the past decade, and yes I am looking hard at you humanists now, you would be joining in the jeering and persecution.

Because you see, those who speak out, its a personality type. Its those who have the clarity of thought and morality to be able to think for themselves. To be able to discern for themselves, and then have the courage and integrity to hold firm to what they have evidenced and to speak out. Its about valuing integrity over tribalism. Its about valuing integrity over being popular.

And you self-identified empiricists and rationalists have failed that test, so badly failed. Your moment came, your moment came in gender ideology, your moment came especially in Tavistock. And you failed. The people who actually are walking in the footsteps of Galileo are people like Graham Lineham, Maya Forstater, Hannah Barnes, Alf up a tree, Jo Phoenix, Helen Joyce, KJK, Julie Bindel, and all the many, many other women, and some men, - most whose names will never be in newspapers, who have been patiently gathering the evidence, gathering the data, analysing the facts, speaking out.

We are the rationalists, the empiricists, the ones who follow the evidence, the data and draw our conclusions from that, not you. We are the ones who speak out, who put our necks on the line and pay the price for what is true and can be evidenced. Not you.

All you are, are people who have enjoyed mocking and laughing at the religious, the followers of supernatural beliefs, the homeopaths, because, in the time you are fortunate to live, that was easy and no cost to you. But when you were actually called to stand up for the principles you claimed to have, by God you failed to do so. How you failed.

How you can have the brass neck to publicly stand up for science and reason and rationality after that, how you can lack that self-reflection I will never know. And Rutherford,. saying we are mistaking caution for incuriosity is such bullshit. This debate has been raging for over a decade. It doesn't take that long to see though gender ideology. You are simply trying to hide your cowardice under a cloak of incuriosity.

( And yes, not all humanists and skeptics but an awful lot of them, especially that none of that should have fallen for this unevidenced, counter reality belief system. Not that liberal humanist on a recent episode of Anti-social, she was good, I liked her)

I agree that so many secular and 'rationalist' organisations and high-profile individuals have been exceptionally weak and cowardly when it comes to challenging quasi-religious beliefs like gender ideology.

I think a lot of the rot set in with the shift from the Atheism movement, to what was termed as Atheism+
It is what we might recognise today as identity politics / woke-ism / social justice. There was an expectation that atheism or any kind of activism around it shouldn't be just about criticism of religious beliefs (predominantly Christianity) or supporting secular values, but should include championing social issues, defending minority groups and so on. The inevitable result is that any group that positions itself as 'oppressed' will start to escape criticism, and the assumption is that they must be loyally defended against the oppressor (Christianity).

I encountered this phenomenon about 16 years ago as a fresh faced atheist. I was so thrilled to be living in the UK - I never had the luxury of living in a country where people could speak their mind, criticise and oppose the iron fist of religion and even have the freedom to offend. It wasn't just freedom of belief that was protected, but freedom from belief.

I was very critical of Christianity, but also very critical of other religions I was familiar with such as Hinduism and Islam. I was (and still am) extremely supportive of Ex-Muslims because they faced very serious repercussions compared to other types of apostates. Many experienced intense harassment and even death threats.

I thought the UK atheist 'community', secular organisations and even politicians would rally around and support Ex-Muslims in the same way they vocally defended people who were affected by various Christian denominations. As they found out about the experiences of Ex-Muslims, surely there would be outrage.

Instead there was silence. Tumbleweeds.

The Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain had such an uphill struggle. Ignored by so many politicians and organisations that I thought were supportive of apostates. (But as we now know it's only Christianity they are interested in opposing.)
Mainstream media just ignored press releases, media statements, invitation to events etc. Many Ex-Muslim activists faced a dilemma - the only type of media / blogs that seemed interested in publicising the plight of Muslim apostates were far-right or Christian types of groups. So they turned down the offers as it made them feel uncomfortable.
If any relatively mainstream media or journalists took any interest, it was probably still the more conservative, right-wing leaning ones - which of course would be snobbishly dismissed by any lefty / progressive types (sounding familiar?)....

Ex-Muslim campaigners would be de-platformed or refused venues at universities and other institutions at the behest of various Muslim groups. Even feminist groups and orgs turned their backs and instead held events hosting Islamic speakers to show off their 'progressive' credentials.

A (white) bloke making a sexist joke or comment would be 'news' for weeks by various feminist commentators and feminist orgs issuing statements of how 'outraged' they were.
But, for example, if a young (brown) Ex-Muslim woman was forced by her family to go to Pakistan to 'help' her get rid of any 'blasphemous' ideas around leaving Islam... And forced to marry a Muslim man and have children with him... And if she managed to escape back to the UK after several years, but is unable to bring her children with her, because in islamic law the father has custody.... And she knows she will never be able to see her young children again and it breaks her heart and crushes her spirit that they will be told she hated them and abandoned them, and she cannot go back to even visit them because she might be imprisoned or killed by the in-laws... And she still has to watch her back in the UK and keep a low profile because there might be extended family members here that can find out where she lives etc.
Yeah you won't see feminist outrage and media statements or any organisation championing her cause.

I was so angry and disillusioned by all the left wing, atheist and feminist groups and people that I assumed would be supportive of actually oppressed minorities ... But nah.... This shit has been going on for a LONG time. Gender ideology is just the latest iteration.

2Rebecca · 23/04/2024 09:10

In about 2014 my son was at university and went to a couple of skeptics talks. I presumed they would tackle gender ideology as to me it seemed an obvious target for a group looking at things "sceptically". I was amazed to realise that gender ideology was accepted like a religious belief by these groups and was considered above analysis and critical thinking. That was the start of me realising how captured and fearful many institutions were including those who were supposed to be good at scientific analysis and debate.

RoyalCorgi · 23/04/2024 09:22

One thing I wonder about all these sceptics, though, is whether they ever think ahead. It's been obvious to me for a long time that the tide would eventually turn because you cannot simply force a nonsensical ideology on the entire population for any length of time. You can fool some of the people all of the time, or all of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time.

Knowing that I would eventually be vindicated is one of the things that has kept me going through all the madness. I am fairly sure it must have kept people like Graham going too, because otherwise how would he cope? But people like Rutherford, Pullman, Dara O'Briain etc have sacrificed long-term glory for the sake of short-term comfort.

What I mean is that at the moment they can go along with the crowd, shake their heads sadly at the angry feminists, bask in the warmth of the praise they receive for their progressive values...but eventually they're going to look like the people who didn't speak out against McCarthyism, or the people who toadied up to the Eastern European communist regimes, or (I hate to say it) collaborated with the Nazis. Do they realise that?

MrsWhattery · 23/04/2024 09:53

It's been obvious to me for a long time that the tide would eventually turn because you cannot simply force a nonsensical ideology on the entire population for any length of time.

Totally agree, and another thing that will always eventually collapse is puritanism and trying to control people's thoughts and behaviour to a ridiculous extent.

I think a lot of these skeptic types don't have a very strong sense of history and the parallels with this happening before in various guises. These types of movements depend on the gullible and the power-hungry to latch onto them. It always falls through and there's always a backlash.

MrsWhattery · 23/04/2024 09:58

I also wonder what it must be like to call yourself a skeptic and go about debunking or interrogating homeopathy or religion or whatever, and then suddenly deciding, or pretending, you're going to go along with the idea that humans can change sex, or there are gendered brains in the wrong body, or that experimental use of known dangerous drugs on children is "lifesaving" - without wanting to look into it or get to the bottom of it and see if it's really true. Either they are real skeptics who are keeping their doubts to themselves, which is not really fulfilling their remit, or they were never genuine skeptics.

RoyalCorgi · 23/04/2024 10:12

MrsWhattery · 23/04/2024 09:58

I also wonder what it must be like to call yourself a skeptic and go about debunking or interrogating homeopathy or religion or whatever, and then suddenly deciding, or pretending, you're going to go along with the idea that humans can change sex, or there are gendered brains in the wrong body, or that experimental use of known dangerous drugs on children is "lifesaving" - without wanting to look into it or get to the bottom of it and see if it's really true. Either they are real skeptics who are keeping their doubts to themselves, which is not really fulfilling their remit, or they were never genuine skeptics.

In a sense skepticism is another kind of religion - it pretends to be about questioning received wisdom, using critical thinking skills and so on but as far as I can see it has its own dogma that you're not allowed to challenge.

And I think this is why the skeptics have gone along with gender ideology. Even though it's clearly nonsensical, the important part of skeptic identity is being members of the skeptic club, not being a person who employs skeptical thinking skills.

SapphireSeptember · 23/04/2024 11:28

TheColourOutOfSpace · 23/04/2024 09:04

I agree that so many secular and 'rationalist' organisations and high-profile individuals have been exceptionally weak and cowardly when it comes to challenging quasi-religious beliefs like gender ideology.

I think a lot of the rot set in with the shift from the Atheism movement, to what was termed as Atheism+
It is what we might recognise today as identity politics / woke-ism / social justice. There was an expectation that atheism or any kind of activism around it shouldn't be just about criticism of religious beliefs (predominantly Christianity) or supporting secular values, but should include championing social issues, defending minority groups and so on. The inevitable result is that any group that positions itself as 'oppressed' will start to escape criticism, and the assumption is that they must be loyally defended against the oppressor (Christianity).

I encountered this phenomenon about 16 years ago as a fresh faced atheist. I was so thrilled to be living in the UK - I never had the luxury of living in a country where people could speak their mind, criticise and oppose the iron fist of religion and even have the freedom to offend. It wasn't just freedom of belief that was protected, but freedom from belief.

I was very critical of Christianity, but also very critical of other religions I was familiar with such as Hinduism and Islam. I was (and still am) extremely supportive of Ex-Muslims because they faced very serious repercussions compared to other types of apostates. Many experienced intense harassment and even death threats.

I thought the UK atheist 'community', secular organisations and even politicians would rally around and support Ex-Muslims in the same way they vocally defended people who were affected by various Christian denominations. As they found out about the experiences of Ex-Muslims, surely there would be outrage.

Instead there was silence. Tumbleweeds.

The Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain had such an uphill struggle. Ignored by so many politicians and organisations that I thought were supportive of apostates. (But as we now know it's only Christianity they are interested in opposing.)
Mainstream media just ignored press releases, media statements, invitation to events etc. Many Ex-Muslim activists faced a dilemma - the only type of media / blogs that seemed interested in publicising the plight of Muslim apostates were far-right or Christian types of groups. So they turned down the offers as it made them feel uncomfortable.
If any relatively mainstream media or journalists took any interest, it was probably still the more conservative, right-wing leaning ones - which of course would be snobbishly dismissed by any lefty / progressive types (sounding familiar?)....

Ex-Muslim campaigners would be de-platformed or refused venues at universities and other institutions at the behest of various Muslim groups. Even feminist groups and orgs turned their backs and instead held events hosting Islamic speakers to show off their 'progressive' credentials.

A (white) bloke making a sexist joke or comment would be 'news' for weeks by various feminist commentators and feminist orgs issuing statements of how 'outraged' they were.
But, for example, if a young (brown) Ex-Muslim woman was forced by her family to go to Pakistan to 'help' her get rid of any 'blasphemous' ideas around leaving Islam... And forced to marry a Muslim man and have children with him... And if she managed to escape back to the UK after several years, but is unable to bring her children with her, because in islamic law the father has custody.... And she knows she will never be able to see her young children again and it breaks her heart and crushes her spirit that they will be told she hated them and abandoned them, and she cannot go back to even visit them because she might be imprisoned or killed by the in-laws... And she still has to watch her back in the UK and keep a low profile because there might be extended family members here that can find out where she lives etc.
Yeah you won't see feminist outrage and media statements or any organisation championing her cause.

I was so angry and disillusioned by all the left wing, atheist and feminist groups and people that I assumed would be supportive of actually oppressed minorities ... But nah.... This shit has been going on for a LONG time. Gender ideology is just the latest iteration.

Just going to highlight this. I'm not an atheist, but I'm very interested in hearing how hard it is for people to leave religions that aren't Christian.

Are you speaking from personal experience? Either way it's insane that this sort of thing is being ignored. Anyone going through such an experience needs to be helped and listened to.

binaryfinery · 23/04/2024 11:29

ISaySteadyOn · 22/04/2024 09:36

Could you post a link to that? Sounds fascinating.

Sorry it was a while ago and I can’t remember the blokes name. She has her own show that you can see on you tube, so it will be somewhere there.

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ISaySteadyOn · 23/04/2024 11:35

Thanks 🙂

binaryfinery · 23/04/2024 11:42

@TheColourOutOfSpace

I completely agree with you. My long separation from the Left was for reasons you describe. Also annoyed with the way the brave atheists I know pillory Christianity but think Islam is womderful, despite Islam turning up to 11 all the things they deride Christianity for.

I love the Council of Ex Muslims. Did you hear the anti-Social episode on Radio 4 about the boy who scuffed a copy of the Koran. A rep from the council of Ex Muslims was on that and he was brilliant.

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duc748 · 23/04/2024 12:26

binaryfinery · 18/04/2024 16:25

I know you like to think that you are Galileo - that you are one of the heroes who would stand up to anti-rationalism and anti-science and would bravely take a stand, and put your selves on the line to hold to your principles of reason and science and objectivity.

But you are not that person are you? You are actually the people who, in a society of religious orthodoxy, would be siding with the orthodoxy to condemn the minority speaking for rationality. At best, you would stay silent as others persecuted those calling for science and rationality, but, more likely given your actions over the past decade, and yes I am looking hard at you humanists now, you would be joining in the jeering and persecution.

Because you see, those who speak out, its a personality type. Its those who have the clarity of thought and morality to be able to think for themselves. To be able to discern for themselves, and then have the courage and integrity to hold firm to what they have evidenced and to speak out. Its about valuing integrity over tribalism. Its about valuing integrity over being popular.

And you self-identified empiricists and rationalists have failed that test, so badly failed. Your moment came, your moment came in gender ideology, your moment came especially in Tavistock. And you failed. The people who actually are walking in the footsteps of Galileo are people like Graham Lineham, Maya Forstater, Hannah Barnes, Alf up a tree, Jo Phoenix, Helen Joyce, KJK, Julie Bindel, and all the many, many other women, and some men, - most whose names will never be in newspapers, who have been patiently gathering the evidence, gathering the data, analysing the facts, speaking out.

We are the rationalists, the empiricists, the ones who follow the evidence, the data and draw our conclusions from that, not you. We are the ones who speak out, who put our necks on the line and pay the price for what is true and can be evidenced. Not you.

All you are, are people who have enjoyed mocking and laughing at the religious, the followers of supernatural beliefs, the homeopaths, because, in the time you are fortunate to live, that was easy and no cost to you. But when you were actually called to stand up for the principles you claimed to have, by God you failed to do so. How you failed.

How you can have the brass neck to publicly stand up for science and reason and rationality after that, how you can lack that self-reflection I will never know. And Rutherford,. saying we are mistaking caution for incuriosity is such bullshit. This debate has been raging for over a decade. It doesn't take that long to see though gender ideology. You are simply trying to hide your cowardice under a cloak of incuriosity.

( And yes, not all humanists and skeptics but an awful lot of them, especially that none of that should have fallen for this unevidenced, counter reality belief system. Not that liberal humanist on a recent episode of Anti-social, she was good, I liked her)

👏👏👏

I'd love to hear him respond to that!

TheColourOutOfSpace · 24/04/2024 08:42

SapphireSeptember · 23/04/2024 11:28

Just going to highlight this. I'm not an atheist, but I'm very interested in hearing how hard it is for people to leave religions that aren't Christian.

Are you speaking from personal experience? Either way it's insane that this sort of thing is being ignored. Anyone going through such an experience needs to be helped and listened to.

Hello @SapphireSeptember , I don't want to divert the conversation too much from the original message of the thread, but here are some videos of women sharing their experiences of leaving Islam.

This is a much longer video, and one of the women interviewed speaks about losing custody of her daughter after renouncing her faith and requesting a divorce. FYI My earlier comment wasn't based on her story.

My own personal experience is a bit different as I left a Christian cult. But I was raised in an Islamic country and was part of a forum for ex-muslims for a number of years so heard plenty of experiences in confidence from women and men around the world.

https://youtu.be/k1Ms4wtA6LE?feature=shared

TheColourOutOfSpace · 24/04/2024 08:59

binaryfinery · 23/04/2024 11:42

@TheColourOutOfSpace

I completely agree with you. My long separation from the Left was for reasons you describe. Also annoyed with the way the brave atheists I know pillory Christianity but think Islam is womderful, despite Islam turning up to 11 all the things they deride Christianity for.

I love the Council of Ex Muslims. Did you hear the anti-Social episode on Radio 4 about the boy who scuffed a copy of the Koran. A rep from the council of Ex Muslims was on that and he was brilliant.

I heard about the issue, but haven't listened to the Anti-Social episode. I shall check it out, thank you. Smile I'm very pleased that CEMB was invited to contribute! Seems like journalists and media are finally catching up.

MrsWhattery · 24/04/2024 09:11

I like Anti-Social and Adam Fleming. He seems to be trying to do his bit for a reasonable approach to free speech and rational discourse and investigation. Instead of "look at me I'm a pop skeptic" the approach is let's talk about this, let's hear from everyone.

SapphireSeptember · 24/04/2024 12:12

@TheColourOutOfSpace Thank you for those links. 😊 I'll watch them later when I have a bit more time. If you're interested there's a Facebook page called 'My Stealthy Freedom' run by Muslim women living in islamic countries where they're being oppressed. Some of the stories are heartbreaking. It's definitely a feminist issue.

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