Here's the Not a Phase founder. Yes a transwoman:
https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/gender-neutral-toilets-school-supportive-20850183
With her Catholic school offering a unisex uniform and gender neutral toilets, Dani was lucky enough to have a school experience free of bullying.
“I mean to have gender neutral toilet and a unisex uniform in a Catholic school in South Wales in 2002, what a privilege,” she explained.
“That probably prevented me from having a bullying experience. I didn't, I'd never felt threatened. I felt celebrated, if anything.
“I didn't live in fear. I heard of people that had gone to different secondary schools that lived in fear and got beaten up. And I remember being horrified at that because it was so unlike my own experience.”
This seems like a fair bit of retconning, given it's from pre-transition days. We're supposed to believe that gay teenagers will feel safer with unisex school uniforms and unisex toilets. Erm.
But yes, it would appear that there are Female people who are terrified and male people who aren’t.
I’m not having an “are we the baddies?” moment, as such, but it is incredibly uncomfortable to conscientiously believe Trump is doing the right things and the BBC is not remotely trustworthy. I know my parents would not be able to believe that version of events, however many facts were laid before them. My family is split down the middle over this stupid issue and I really, really want it to stop.
I fully empathise as I'm in a similar situation with my own wider family. I openly agree with them that Trump is hideous and that I wouldn't normally find myself agreeing with things that he says. That he is the person leading the charge in the US on removing gender identity belief from federal institutions does make the conversation difficult, especially so when the BBC is seen as our national, trusted broadcaster and holder of truth by so many. However, it is widely known that they have form on failing in the safeguarding of children. Jimmy Savile and others that were investigated under Operation Yew Tree were hiding in plain sight on the BBC's watch. Worse, we now know that the BBC was one of the institutions that facilitated them having access to vulnerable children in some cases.
Child safeguarding at its most basic level means protecting children from harm, so as a start point, I would invite any Trump sceptic on this subject to read the wording of the "Protecting children from chemical and surgical mutilation" EO and point out which bits they disagree with (with thoughts of the BBC's previous failures in child safeguarding helping them to keep an open mind on the subject).