A version of this toolkit was used to justify secretly transing my stepdaughter by her Hertfordshire school back in 2019.
I really should write to the governors/senior leadership team of that school re Cass (she’s not there now).
Unsuprisingly the school wasn’t actually equipped to keep such a big secret as a child having a completely different identity in school to that at home, IME schools always seem to fuck up their own secrecy policy, parents find out when they log into dinner money accounts to find strange names listed or when a teacher uses the wrong name on parents evening, or when the parent of a classmate asks you about your child’s new pronouns in a WhatsApp group.
Surely if the school truly believes your child would be ‘unsafe’ if they were to disclose the trans identity to you, schools wouldn’t be so careless? A nice, stage managed meeting with a couple of staff members and a plate of cheapo biscuits would be a much better way to tell a ‘transphobic parent’ than letting it randomly come up via playground gossip. After all, you can’t actually force 1500 kids to secrecy, even if you are silly enough to think secret-keeping is a good idea.
Up here in MCR there seems to be a lot less secret transing going on than down south and elsewhere, instead of the Allsorts Toolkit the battle here is against totally age-inappropriate sex ed material courtesy of The Proud Trust (of the Anal Sex Dice Game fame).
Sending my very best to those legally challenging the toolkit, it’s a terrible bit of policy that should never have been allowed anywhere near a school.