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Keir Starmer unable to define a woman AGAIN

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IwantToRetire · 22/03/2024 01:16

Suspect that the Sun doesn't care that much about women's rights, and are only trying to score points against Starmer. But his reply (if accurately reported is so avoiding in any way accepting women as biological females. And this will be our next PM.

Reading out questions of Sun readers, Political Editor Harry Cole asked the Labour chief if he still believed men can have cervixes and women can have testicles.

Asked again about his position on trans women and whether they can be defined as women, Sir Keir said: "We set out our position very clearly..."

He added: "Everybody knows there is a difference between sex and gender. I absolutely understand that and respect that. We will not be going down the road of self identification."

He went on:"As you well know the overwhelming majority of women, it's a biological issue...

"There's a small number of people in this country who are born into a gender they don't identify with and they often go through pretty hellish abuse.

"I think most people would say if we can find a way to be respectful to all the women we must properly respect and we have defended their rights and advanced their rights as a party, as a movement for many, many years and we will continue to do so, then fine.

"But we won't and I don't think we should simply abuse ignore, make fun or mock..."

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/26845883/keir-starmer-transgender-women-define-is/

Starmer unable to define a woman AGAIN as he fumbles over trans debate

SIR Keir Starmer was once again unable to define what a woman is as he insisted the whole issue has to be “treated with respect”. The Labour boss has been trying to clarify his views on…

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/26845883/keir-starmer-transgender-women-define-is

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Underthinker · 24/03/2024 22:21

Go on then. How are you planning to do that?

How do people stop XL Bully breeding, fox hunting, driving without seat belts, workplace sex discrimination. upskirting or drink driving?

Imperfectly at first, but in a democracy we can change the rules when something is no longer deemed safe or acceptable. We don't make ridiculous demands about the rule being enforced perfectly and the practice never happening again as a precondition of banning it.

ATerrorofLeftovers · 24/03/2024 22:21

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:15

I mean that when people say that trans is a choice made by entitled men, that said men should never be treated as anything other than men, then to all intents and purposes you are saying trans = birth sex and therefore trans as an identity doesn't exist. It's a delusion that people believe in, not an actual thing.

If that isn't what you think, just say. That's how it reads to me.

I think some people genuinely have gender dysphoria that is relieved by transition. I think some men have the acronym that must not be mentioned. Because of this I think "reasonable adjustment on the basis of disability" is a good approach. You disagree. That's fine. Doesn't make either of us wrong or right.

This is very muddled. Of course trans ‘can’t be a thing’ if it involves changing sex, as this is an impossibility, as you know.

If being trans involves a gender, then you can have a male sex and a female gender. In which case you go in the space for your sex, not your gender. It’s very simple.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 22:21

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:15

I mean that when people say that trans is a choice made by entitled men, that said men should never be treated as anything other than men, then to all intents and purposes you are saying trans = birth sex and therefore trans as an identity doesn't exist. It's a delusion that people believe in, not an actual thing.

If that isn't what you think, just say. That's how it reads to me.

I think some people genuinely have gender dysphoria that is relieved by transition. I think some men have the acronym that must not be mentioned. Because of this I think "reasonable adjustment on the basis of disability" is a good approach. You disagree. That's fine. Doesn't make either of us wrong or right.

Yeah but no one said trans is a choice made by entitled men did they? The rest of what you say is muddled and hard to follow. People don't change sex. Sp pf course trana equals birth sex. You're confusing biology with identity. It's not just two people disagreeing. One proposal damages women. A lot. Consistently.Men have the power. We shouldn't give them more.

In terms of how I have compassion for ttans people, I believe they need psychological help and should get it. Challenging gender stereotypes is good for everyone but especially I think for trans people who seem highly constrained by them. I do not believe trans people should be discriminated against for being trans ( e.g. not allowed to stay in a hotel, as an example from real life homophobic actions) but that doesn't mean that TW should be in female spaces because that demonstrates a massive lack of compassion for women.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 22:22

Adam can I ask how you show compassion for women?

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:22

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 22:12

We didn’t agree. You brought up CCTV I didn’t.

And I’m fine with the policing.

I’m with @GailBlancheViola

You said you would enforce in the same way as harassment on the tube. I assumed you knew that meant CCTV and that before CCTV harassment on the tube was a huge huge problem. That was obviously an assumption too far.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 22:24

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:19

I'm just C&Ping JKR because she's far more eloquent than me and I agree with her 100%

I want to be very clear here: I know transition will be a solution for some gender dysphoric people, although I’m also aware through extensive research that studies have consistently shown that between 60-90% of gender dysphoric teens will grow out of their dysphoria. Again and again I’ve been told to ‘just meet some trans people.’ I have: in addition to a few younger people, who were all adorable, I happen to know a self-described transsexual woman who’s older than I am and wonderful. Although she’s open about her past as a gay man, I’ve always found it hard to think of her as anything other than a woman, and I believe (and certainly hope) she’s completely happy to have transitioned.

I believe the majority of trans-identified people not only pose zero threat to others, but are vulnerable for all the reasons I’ve outlined. Trans people need and deserve protection. Like women, they’re most likely to be killed by sexual partners. Trans women who work in the sex industry, particularly trans women of colour, are at particular risk. Like every other domestic abuse and sexual assault survivor I know, I feel nothing but empathy and solidarity with trans women who’ve been abused by men.
So I want trans women to be safe. At the same time, I do not want to make natal girls and women less safe. When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman – and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones – then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside. That is the simple truth.^

Yeah no one is disagreeing with that (other tha I won't call a male she) and she seems to disagree with you about males in female bathrooms.

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 22:25

Underthinker · 24/03/2024 22:21

Go on then. How are you planning to do that?

How do people stop XL Bully breeding, fox hunting, driving without seat belts, workplace sex discrimination. upskirting or drink driving?

Imperfectly at first, but in a democracy we can change the rules when something is no longer deemed safe or acceptable. We don't make ridiculous demands about the rule being enforced perfectly and the practice never happening again as a precondition of banning it.

This

None of these have the requirement of CCTV to work yet we still have the laws

It’s not hard. The amount of cycling around various avenues on this thread is mad. At one point a pp said photographing men and share price plummeting was the answer

We have a legal system. Just use that.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:26

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:39

It's not 'part of their condition', it's a decision taken by an entitled male. It is not evidence that we should now let any old male in fgs.

Hmm. Oh look it was you. Maybe I misunderstood what you meant by "decision taken by an entitled male"?

Can you explain what you meant then?

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 22:28

Boiledbeetle · 24/03/2024 22:15

Of course it's practical and possible. Go back to all men not welcome in the women's toilets, no matter how the man sees himself, And give women and girls back the ability to ask any man they see in the women's toilets what the fuck he thinks he's playing at.

We were able to do that until the GRA created a special group that could ignore the no men allowed rule based on their internal feelings.

At the moment because some men can come in a lot of women and girls are too scared to kick up a fuss if they see what is obviously a man in the women's toilets.

Apparently not Beetle. Because some of us have already mentioned this would be a good starting place and were ignored. And told over and over that it was too hard, too many resources were needed, it infringed civil liberties and then that wanting all males to be excluded (other than children) was parallel to homophobia and now that wanting it seems to be declaring those people don't exist.

It is remarkable.

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 22:28

ATerrorofLeftovers · 24/03/2024 22:18

I’m truly baffled as to why you’re so fixated on this notion of your own that CCTV is the only possible way this could be enforced. It isn’t. A law stating only biological females can be in certain spaces, regardless of how anybody identities, would mean it could become self-policing again.

There are still some women who will police the spaces if they’re violated. I have done so. At 50, I am out of fucks to give about what people might think about me. If I’m identified as a ‘terf’ and despised, so be it. I’m only interested in doing the right thing.

A woman challenged DH when he tried to take our 8 year old DD into some women’s loos in a shopping centre recently (the eejit - he thought it was the right thing to do for her, not realising it wasn’t right for the other female users of the space). A woman quite rightly challenged him and he left and found a single cubicle loo elsewhere. I’m very thankful to that woman and so is he, now he understands the full picture. Like me, she was an older woman. We need to make things clear again so all women feel confident doing this.

Clarity, legal basis and most are law abiding. It would shift the situation for women so their dignity and privacy mattered.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 22:28

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:26

Hmm. Oh look it was you. Maybe I misunderstood what you meant by "decision taken by an entitled male"?

Can you explain what you meant then?

I already did in a later post you don't seem to have read or understood. We were discussing their using female loos. That's the choice. I really don't think anyone else misunderstood that.

ATerrorofLeftovers · 24/03/2024 22:29

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:19

I'm just C&Ping JKR because she's far more eloquent than me and I agree with her 100%

I want to be very clear here: I know transition will be a solution for some gender dysphoric people, although I’m also aware through extensive research that studies have consistently shown that between 60-90% of gender dysphoric teens will grow out of their dysphoria. Again and again I’ve been told to ‘just meet some trans people.’ I have: in addition to a few younger people, who were all adorable, I happen to know a self-described transsexual woman who’s older than I am and wonderful. Although she’s open about her past as a gay man, I’ve always found it hard to think of her as anything other than a woman, and I believe (and certainly hope) she’s completely happy to have transitioned.

I believe the majority of trans-identified people not only pose zero threat to others, but are vulnerable for all the reasons I’ve outlined. Trans people need and deserve protection. Like women, they’re most likely to be killed by sexual partners. Trans women who work in the sex industry, particularly trans women of colour, are at particular risk. Like every other domestic abuse and sexual assault survivor I know, I feel nothing but empathy and solidarity with trans women who’ve been abused by men.
So I want trans women to be safe. At the same time, I do not want to make natal girls and women less safe. When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman – and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones – then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside. That is the simple truth.^

She’s not saying biological men should be allowed in women’s single sex spaces.

You can have compassion for trans people without agreeing to let them use the spaces of the opposite sex.

ATerrorofLeftovers · 24/03/2024 22:30

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 22:28

Clarity, legal basis and most are law abiding. It would shift the situation for women so their dignity and privacy mattered.

Agreed.

TheCatOnMorrisseysHead · 24/03/2024 22:30

Peetra · 22/03/2024 04:45

Labour are thankfully handing the Conservatives the GE on a plate if they continue like this, as election day gets nearer this issue will dominate above all else with the public and certainly decide who will be in power for the next four years.

Do you really believe that? Labour are 30 points up in the polls.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 22:31

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:43

Oh good god. You are behaving in a ridiculous manner. Of course they bloody well exist. Of course that doesn't mean a male HAS to use the ladies loos which is the actual argument you made.

Here's where I had to break it down for you Adam

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:31

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 22:25

This

None of these have the requirement of CCTV to work yet we still have the laws

It’s not hard. The amount of cycling around various avenues on this thread is mad. At one point a pp said photographing men and share price plummeting was the answer

We have a legal system. Just use that.

Stopping any crime requires detection, prevention and enforcement. Making it a crime might contribute to prevention but its going to do diddly squat for detection and enforcement. Enforcement will cost money. And detection means some form of surveillance to prove that it happened.

Those are facts and apply to all the examples listed above.

I'm saying I don't believe this is enough of a problem for people to want to 1) give up privacy to enable detection and 2) pay for the extra policing to enforce it.

I might be wrong. But as I said upthread, I suspect I'm right and our politicians know this which is why no party wants to commit to criminalising males in womens spaces. (Apart from ones who stand no chance of having to run the country).

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 22:33

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:31

Stopping any crime requires detection, prevention and enforcement. Making it a crime might contribute to prevention but its going to do diddly squat for detection and enforcement. Enforcement will cost money. And detection means some form of surveillance to prove that it happened.

Those are facts and apply to all the examples listed above.

I'm saying I don't believe this is enough of a problem for people to want to 1) give up privacy to enable detection and 2) pay for the extra policing to enforce it.

I might be wrong. But as I said upthread, I suspect I'm right and our politicians know this which is why no party wants to commit to criminalising males in womens spaces. (Apart from ones who stand no chance of having to run the country).

Rape is hard to detect, prevent and enforce. Should that be legal? if not why? what's the difference?

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 22:34

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:19

I'm just C&Ping JKR because she's far more eloquent than me and I agree with her 100%

I want to be very clear here: I know transition will be a solution for some gender dysphoric people, although I’m also aware through extensive research that studies have consistently shown that between 60-90% of gender dysphoric teens will grow out of their dysphoria. Again and again I’ve been told to ‘just meet some trans people.’ I have: in addition to a few younger people, who were all adorable, I happen to know a self-described transsexual woman who’s older than I am and wonderful. Although she’s open about her past as a gay man, I’ve always found it hard to think of her as anything other than a woman, and I believe (and certainly hope) she’s completely happy to have transitioned.

I believe the majority of trans-identified people not only pose zero threat to others, but are vulnerable for all the reasons I’ve outlined. Trans people need and deserve protection. Like women, they’re most likely to be killed by sexual partners. Trans women who work in the sex industry, particularly trans women of colour, are at particular risk. Like every other domestic abuse and sexual assault survivor I know, I feel nothing but empathy and solidarity with trans women who’ve been abused by men.
So I want trans women to be safe. At the same time, I do not want to make natal girls and women less safe. When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman – and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones – then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside. That is the simple truth.^

At the same time, I do not want to make natal girls and women less safe. When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman – and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones – then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside. That is the simple truth.^

How do you agree with her 100%? Confused

She is stating you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside

Something that is not wanted as it makes natal girls and women less safe

OldCrone · 24/03/2024 22:40

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:31

Stopping any crime requires detection, prevention and enforcement. Making it a crime might contribute to prevention but its going to do diddly squat for detection and enforcement. Enforcement will cost money. And detection means some form of surveillance to prove that it happened.

Those are facts and apply to all the examples listed above.

I'm saying I don't believe this is enough of a problem for people to want to 1) give up privacy to enable detection and 2) pay for the extra policing to enforce it.

I might be wrong. But as I said upthread, I suspect I'm right and our politicians know this which is why no party wants to commit to criminalising males in womens spaces. (Apart from ones who stand no chance of having to run the country).

It doesn't need to be a crime to be socially unacceptable. Why are women's toilets not full of men? According to you it's impossible to stop men using women's spaces, and yet most men stay out.

If it's also socially unacceptable for men with special gender identities to use women's spaces, why can't they be kept out in the same way as all other men are kept out?

OvaHere · 24/03/2024 22:41

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:31

Stopping any crime requires detection, prevention and enforcement. Making it a crime might contribute to prevention but its going to do diddly squat for detection and enforcement. Enforcement will cost money. And detection means some form of surveillance to prove that it happened.

Those are facts and apply to all the examples listed above.

I'm saying I don't believe this is enough of a problem for people to want to 1) give up privacy to enable detection and 2) pay for the extra policing to enforce it.

I might be wrong. But as I said upthread, I suspect I'm right and our politicians know this which is why no party wants to commit to criminalising males in womens spaces. (Apart from ones who stand no chance of having to run the country).

I dunno they all seem gung ho for spending a boat load of resources policing wrongthink. Perhaps they could redirect some of those funds.

Underthinker · 24/03/2024 22:46

I could be wrong but I'm not certain you necessarily need to "criminalise" males in women's spaces, at least initially.

I would guess the easier first step would be to clarify the EA so that services described as single sex are actually that. It should give service providers the authority and legal clarity to properly exclude men, and require them to label mixed sex spaces as such.

Then if that didn't change behaviours would I think about more drastic measures.

illinivich · 24/03/2024 23:05

Theres are loads of posts on reddit of men with gender being excluded from womens toilets.

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 23:13

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 22:19

I'm just C&Ping JKR because she's far more eloquent than me and I agree with her 100%

I want to be very clear here: I know transition will be a solution for some gender dysphoric people, although I’m also aware through extensive research that studies have consistently shown that between 60-90% of gender dysphoric teens will grow out of their dysphoria. Again and again I’ve been told to ‘just meet some trans people.’ I have: in addition to a few younger people, who were all adorable, I happen to know a self-described transsexual woman who’s older than I am and wonderful. Although she’s open about her past as a gay man, I’ve always found it hard to think of her as anything other than a woman, and I believe (and certainly hope) she’s completely happy to have transitioned.

I believe the majority of trans-identified people not only pose zero threat to others, but are vulnerable for all the reasons I’ve outlined. Trans people need and deserve protection. Like women, they’re most likely to be killed by sexual partners. Trans women who work in the sex industry, particularly trans women of colour, are at particular risk. Like every other domestic abuse and sexual assault survivor I know, I feel nothing but empathy and solidarity with trans women who’ve been abused by men.
So I want trans women to be safe. At the same time, I do not want to make natal girls and women less safe. When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman – and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones – then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside. That is the simple truth.^

How is this different from what many of us are saying?

Please point out where she has stated that a sub group of male people should have access to any female single sex space?

Please point out where she has stated that was also the only option open to society?

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 23:15

So, have we found out why a sign on the door of a toilet or any single sex space that states that this is a single sex space, using the exception under the EA as we have been assured is already available to us is too hard and too difficult to implement?

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 24/03/2024 23:49

ATerrorofLeftovers · 24/03/2024 22:21

This is very muddled. Of course trans ‘can’t be a thing’ if it involves changing sex, as this is an impossibility, as you know.

If being trans involves a gender, then you can have a male sex and a female gender. In which case you go in the space for your sex, not your gender. It’s very simple.

“In which case you go in the space for your sex, not your gender.”

unless you’re a trans man who passes, in which case you use the toilets according to your gender?

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