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Keir Starmer unable to define a woman AGAIN

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IwantToRetire · 22/03/2024 01:16

Suspect that the Sun doesn't care that much about women's rights, and are only trying to score points against Starmer. But his reply (if accurately reported is so avoiding in any way accepting women as biological females. And this will be our next PM.

Reading out questions of Sun readers, Political Editor Harry Cole asked the Labour chief if he still believed men can have cervixes and women can have testicles.

Asked again about his position on trans women and whether they can be defined as women, Sir Keir said: "We set out our position very clearly..."

He added: "Everybody knows there is a difference between sex and gender. I absolutely understand that and respect that. We will not be going down the road of self identification."

He went on:"As you well know the overwhelming majority of women, it's a biological issue...

"There's a small number of people in this country who are born into a gender they don't identify with and they often go through pretty hellish abuse.

"I think most people would say if we can find a way to be respectful to all the women we must properly respect and we have defended their rights and advanced their rights as a party, as a movement for many, many years and we will continue to do so, then fine.

"But we won't and I don't think we should simply abuse ignore, make fun or mock..."

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/26845883/keir-starmer-transgender-women-define-is/

Starmer unable to define a woman AGAIN as he fumbles over trans debate

SIR Keir Starmer was once again unable to define what a woman is as he insisted the whole issue has to be “treated with respect”. The Labour boss has been trying to clarify his views on…

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/26845883/keir-starmer-transgender-women-define-is

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DameMaud · 24/03/2024 17:05

FlirtsWithRhinos · 24/03/2024 16:12

You can disagree with various GC positions without having to label them with value judgements like hardline or ultra simply by stating what they are, with the added bonus that it's very clear what specifically you disagree with.

"No males in female spaces" is not hardline. It's the default, the baseline. The clue is in the name. Single sex resources and spaces were envisioned as single sex, that's why they have the names of the sexes then the word "only".

Moving away from that means accepting a definition of "woman" and "fenale" that is basically "some men are more like women than they are other men in a meaningful material way because of how they think." THAT is a massively extreme position.

A reasonable, moderate solution starts with an honest conversation about why some men feel they are more like women than they are other men and/or deserve access to female-only spaces and then, assuming there is a reasonable need there (NOT a reasonable expectation to be treated as if their sex were not what it is, or as if sex was not significant to women's physical and social outcomes, but a reasonable need to be treated as different to OTHER MEN), looks for a way to support these men without redefining the basis on which all women - all humans - understand themselves and without destroying the single sex resources and protections that exist to mitigate sex-specific challenges.

I'm sorry @AdamRyan , I get that you self identify as a reasonable moderate person and that your default is to assume whenever two parties disagree the reasonable place must be somewhere between them, but in this case you are wrong. The reasonable place is not "trans people are somewhere between men and women", it's "trans people have a disordered narrative around sex so may need services and supports that are not sex based"

Thank you for putting this so very clearly. This clarity is what I come to FWR for. To help me get to the nub of my own thoughts when they are known but a bit jumbled!

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 17:09

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 16:48

There has never been a time when "all male people were kept out". You are harking back to a golden time that never existed.

The current messaging hasn't broken the status quo, in fact women (rightly) are far more empowered to speak up than they were 5 years ago. Men are more aware of the trans debate. So I'd argue the social contract is stronger than it was. Kinda fruitless though as impossible to prove either way.

I'm not saying "it cannot be policed", I'm saying that policing it will take a large amount of resources and infringe on civil liberties so I don't believe there would be an appetite for it. And that's an opinion not a barrier. If a party wanted to campaign on that basis and won a majority I'd happily admit my opinion was wrong.

to tell other women about to enter there is a male in there, wait out and all the things we used to do which are now considered transphobic. Noone is stopping anyone doing what they always did, this is a complete red herring. Under selfID this could have been a possibility, but not now, today. This is scaremongering and I don't know why you are spreading it.

Women ARE speaking up now. And when they do so, they are declared transphobic.

You really seem to have a disconnect here.

Are you saying that current messaging is encouraging women to speak up in public about not wanting male people above about 8 in the toilet ? Please, do show us this current messaging so we can assess just who is releasing this message that then counters the signage that has been appearing.

How it is countering the social media messaging of 'being kind and inclusive'. I would like to see all that messaging that you think is creating an environment or women and girls to state clearly 'I don't want you in my toilet space because you are male' and where those women and girls feel empowered to call the police, security or just to tell others there is a male inside the toilet.

Ok. so you are not saying it cannot be policed. You are saying it will now infringe on civil liberties and take too much in resources.

So, we now should not do it because it will infringe on civil liberties? Is that what you have stated? Can you now be very clear what civil liberties you are referring to?

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 17:16

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:01

I’d like to know too

Does Eddie Izzard have a GRC?

Who knows but if he doesn’t it doesn’t stop access

How would it? No one can check

To me 'no self ID' seems like a weak defence that actually means nothing.

Because currently GRC's most certainly do not seem to be able to provide any additional layer of safeguarding. Can't sex offenders keep their GRC?

And if it is never to be disclosed for the purpose of going to the toilet, the current process is logically no different to Self ID. But 'no self ID' seems to be repeated over and over. Yet, I cannot genuinely understand what the fuck difference it will make in who will access a female toilet or not.

For the purposes of women and girls being able to identify who is in their toilets, it doesn't matter a jot whether a male has self Id'd into that toilet or not. The reasoning doesn't stand up to basic scrutiny.

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:17

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 17:09

Women ARE speaking up now. And when they do so, they are declared transphobic.

You really seem to have a disconnect here.

Are you saying that current messaging is encouraging women to speak up in public about not wanting male people above about 8 in the toilet ? Please, do show us this current messaging so we can assess just who is releasing this message that then counters the signage that has been appearing.

How it is countering the social media messaging of 'being kind and inclusive'. I would like to see all that messaging that you think is creating an environment or women and girls to state clearly 'I don't want you in my toilet space because you are male' and where those women and girls feel empowered to call the police, security or just to tell others there is a male inside the toilet.

Ok. so you are not saying it cannot be policed. You are saying it will now infringe on civil liberties and take too much in resources.

So, we now should not do it because it will infringe on civil liberties? Is that what you have stated? Can you now be very clear what civil liberties you are referring to?

Edited

Can you now be very clear what civil liberties you are referring to?

Yes that would be good

Changing rooms - no impact on ‘civil liberties’

Toilets - impact

Why?

How about the freedom for women to enter single sex spaces knowing the law endorses that position? Why is that consideration lost to some?

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:18

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 17:16

To me 'no self ID' seems like a weak defence that actually means nothing.

Because currently GRC's most certainly do not seem to be able to provide any additional layer of safeguarding. Can't sex offenders keep their GRC?

And if it is never to be disclosed for the purpose of going to the toilet, the current process is logically no different to Self ID. But 'no self ID' seems to be repeated over and over. Yet, I cannot genuinely understand what the fuck difference it will make in who will access a female toilet or not.

For the purposes of women and girls being able to identify who is in their toilets, it doesn't matter a jot whether a male has self Id'd into that toilet or not. The reasoning doesn't stand up to basic scrutiny.

The arguments are odd. They don’t stack up

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:29

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 16:53

Really. It never existed? You really need to tell us exactly why this is so?

Or are you saying that just because some males came in for whatever reason, to attack, to clean, to just go in or a mistake, that this meant 'not all males were kept out'?

or are you saying that just because Jan Morris went in, that 'the golden time never existed'.

Please explain this?

or are you saying that just because Jan Morris went in, that 'the golden time never existed'.

This is closest to what I mean.
Trans women, for example Jan Morris, have always used womens spaces. It is part of their condition.

There has never been a golden time where womens single sex spaces were 100% female only.

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 17:35

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:29

or are you saying that just because Jan Morris went in, that 'the golden time never existed'.

This is closest to what I mean.
Trans women, for example Jan Morris, have always used womens spaces. It is part of their condition.

There has never been a golden time where womens single sex spaces were 100% female only.

OK. So you are saying because Morris's doctors told Morris to use the female toilets, that this means the 'golden time' never existed. Even before there was any Jan Morris type male people in the UK. Because you believe that this then negated the concept that these spaces were only ever for female people.

I would think that is quite another over reach on your behalf.

So, because a few male people deceptively used the female toilets, that now means that female people should not be able to say that in the past no male people used female toilets and that we should have no expectation that they should be female only.

Again, please correct me. But is this what you are saying?

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:39

Helleofabore · 24/03/2024 16:58

I would also genuinely want to know, since we cannot ask for a GRC , just how this supposed 'status quo' is working somehow better in comparison to a self ID model.

What is the difference?

Because under self ID any sex offender can on a whim decide to go into a woman's toilet. If challenged he can say he's a woman because he feels like a woman. Under self ID there would be nothing anyone can do because legally he'd be entitled to be there.

Today, if he was hanging around being pervy women could call the police. They could come and remove him for breach of the peace or whatever. He could not claim to be a woman "because he feels like it".

He could claim to have a GRC but he'd have to produce that for the police.

Exactly the same would apply to a man who'd put on a dress to support his perving.

Sex offenders know this, because they are good at exploiting loopholes. So in todays world they might think twice or they'd GTFO when challenged. In a self ID world they wouldn't, because they wouldn't have to.

Now as I've answered your genuine question, I'd appreciate you spending some time considering the answer rather than trying to pick holes in it.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:39

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:29

or are you saying that just because Jan Morris went in, that 'the golden time never existed'.

This is closest to what I mean.
Trans women, for example Jan Morris, have always used womens spaces. It is part of their condition.

There has never been a golden time where womens single sex spaces were 100% female only.

It's not 'part of their condition', it's a decision taken by an entitled male. It is not evidence that we should now let any old male in fgs.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:40

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:39

It's not 'part of their condition', it's a decision taken by an entitled male. It is not evidence that we should now let any old male in fgs.

You don't think AGP or gender dysphoria exist? That's a new one on me! I didn't realise they were controversial!

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:41

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:39

Because under self ID any sex offender can on a whim decide to go into a woman's toilet. If challenged he can say he's a woman because he feels like a woman. Under self ID there would be nothing anyone can do because legally he'd be entitled to be there.

Today, if he was hanging around being pervy women could call the police. They could come and remove him for breach of the peace or whatever. He could not claim to be a woman "because he feels like it".

He could claim to have a GRC but he'd have to produce that for the police.

Exactly the same would apply to a man who'd put on a dress to support his perving.

Sex offenders know this, because they are good at exploiting loopholes. So in todays world they might think twice or they'd GTFO when challenged. In a self ID world they wouldn't, because they wouldn't have to.

Now as I've answered your genuine question, I'd appreciate you spending some time considering the answer rather than trying to pick holes in it.

It's very patronising to accuse people pf picking holes in your argument when in reality they just see the glaring inconsistencies and muddled thinking. These conversations will be more fruitful if you treat others with more respect.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:42

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:17

Can you now be very clear what civil liberties you are referring to?

Yes that would be good

Changing rooms - no impact on ‘civil liberties’

Toilets - impact

Why?

How about the freedom for women to enter single sex spaces knowing the law endorses that position? Why is that consideration lost to some?

A lot of people feel that any surveillance infringes their civil liberties. They are anti CCTV/ANPR/ID cards etc.

I can imagine many people would be deeply uncomfortable with the idea of CCTV coverage on the entrances of public toilets.

OvaHere · 24/03/2024 17:42

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:40

You don't think AGP or gender dysphoria exist? That's a new one on me! I didn't realise they were controversial!

She means that women and girls are not a prescribed treatment for whatever ails men.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:43

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:40

You don't think AGP or gender dysphoria exist? That's a new one on me! I didn't realise they were controversial!

Oh good god. You are behaving in a ridiculous manner. Of course they bloody well exist. Of course that doesn't mean a male HAS to use the ladies loos which is the actual argument you made.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:43

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:42

A lot of people feel that any surveillance infringes their civil liberties. They are anti CCTV/ANPR/ID cards etc.

I can imagine many people would be deeply uncomfortable with the idea of CCTV coverage on the entrances of public toilets.

E.g.
https://bigbrotherwatch.org.uk/

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:46

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:42

A lot of people feel that any surveillance infringes their civil liberties. They are anti CCTV/ANPR/ID cards etc.

I can imagine many people would be deeply uncomfortable with the idea of CCTV coverage on the entrances of public toilets.

I don’t care either way.

I still want the law in place.

As you already confirmed we don’t exist in some lawless land if there’s no CCTV

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:47

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:43

Oh good god. You are behaving in a ridiculous manner. Of course they bloody well exist. Of course that doesn't mean a male HAS to use the ladies loos which is the actual argument you made.

Honestly it’s bizarre.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:48

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:43

Oh good god. You are behaving in a ridiculous manner. Of course they bloody well exist. Of course that doesn't mean a male HAS to use the ladies loos which is the actual argument you made.

The "actual argument" I made is that they always have done because their condition compels them to, in the same way it compels them to have surgery, wear womens clothes. Not that they "have to" as such. Just that they do and there has never been a time where they didn't, contrary to what hell says.

I don't think AGP and gender dysphoria are "decisions taken by entitled males". If that were the case there would be no trans men.

I think they are psychological conditions and people with psychological conditions don't behave rationally.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:48

EasternStandard · 24/03/2024 17:46

I don’t care either way.

I still want the law in place.

As you already confirmed we don’t exist in some lawless land if there’s no CCTV

OK. Who are you going to vote for then?

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:49

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:41

It's very patronising to accuse people pf picking holes in your argument when in reality they just see the glaring inconsistencies and muddled thinking. These conversations will be more fruitful if you treat others with more respect.

Same to you. I'm not calling people ridiculous.

OvaHere · 24/03/2024 17:50

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:48

The "actual argument" I made is that they always have done because their condition compels them to, in the same way it compels them to have surgery, wear womens clothes. Not that they "have to" as such. Just that they do and there has never been a time where they didn't, contrary to what hell says.

I don't think AGP and gender dysphoria are "decisions taken by entitled males". If that were the case there would be no trans men.

I think they are psychological conditions and people with psychological conditions don't behave rationally.

So male compulsions should be accommodated then no questions asked if it can be framed as a psychological issue?

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:52

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:48

The "actual argument" I made is that they always have done because their condition compels them to, in the same way it compels them to have surgery, wear womens clothes. Not that they "have to" as such. Just that they do and there has never been a time where they didn't, contrary to what hell says.

I don't think AGP and gender dysphoria are "decisions taken by entitled males". If that were the case there would be no trans men.

I think they are psychological conditions and people with psychological conditions don't behave rationally.

Their condition makes them want to. It does not compel them. They chose to. The decision taken by entitled males is to use women's spaces, not to be have a trans identity or to have AGP. As was very clear in my statement.

In the same way that a traumatised man chooses to hit his parter, or take drugs, an AGP male (sometimes) chooses to invade women's spaces. They can do otherwise, better, if they want. Many do. Pretending they have no choice but to hurt others is rhetoric not reality.

But the main point is that a few entitled males in the past doesn't mean we have to accept a whole wadge of them now.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:54

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:49

Same to you. I'm not calling people ridiculous.

I apologise if you genuinely had failed to understand what I'd written. It read like you were playing silly games. If you just hadn't processed it properly and your rather irrelevant response was an error, then sorry.

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:54

OvaHere · 24/03/2024 17:50

So male compulsions should be accommodated then no questions asked if it can be framed as a psychological issue?

No that's not what I said at all.

This thread of conversation started because a couple of posters referred to a time where there were single sex spaces for women only. I disagree such a time existed. Men with AGP and dysphoria are compelled to access womens spaces, men with AGP and dysphoria have existed for a very long time, so therefore I think this "golden age" of single sex spaces is a mirage.

That is all I'm talking about in this context.

literalviolence · 24/03/2024 17:56

AdamRyan · 24/03/2024 17:54

No that's not what I said at all.

This thread of conversation started because a couple of posters referred to a time where there were single sex spaces for women only. I disagree such a time existed. Men with AGP and dysphoria are compelled to access womens spaces, men with AGP and dysphoria have existed for a very long time, so therefore I think this "golden age" of single sex spaces is a mirage.

That is all I'm talking about in this context.

You said tw using female spaces was part of their condition. So that wasn't all you were saying. People are right to pick you up on this. It's a powerful but completely unevidenced statement.

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