My son, with his various burdens and baggage, presents as a white male from a middle class home with two uni educated parents.
He’s actually doing incredibly well, despite some ACE.
I’m not sure he should be overlooked in favour of my friend’s daughter, or another friend’s son.
If we don’t address this correctly, we’ll promulgate the generation of angry white working class boys and their fathers. We’ll also be trapped in a situation where if there is a continuing unaddressed reason for their over representation, they will be forever discriminated against. It’s been a while since we’ve noticed that working class white boys are doing worst of all the groups in education. We don’t seem to have sorted that out yet.
We’ve known girls do better at school than boys since my teacher training 40years ago.
There are two issues there that we’ve failed to address- boys doing badly, AND girls still not succeeding despite their performance in education.
Discrimination is not the way to address it.