Transmaxxers?

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I've heard this term before but wasn't sure what it was. Interesting article:

www.nationalreview.com/corner/transmaxxing/amp/

Quite blunt wording there. No interest in relationships or contact with women. Just in getting sex. 'Learn to cope' and think of Stonewall, girls.

Who is having sex with them? How does being a man identifying as a woman increase your luck with women?

Who do they think is more likely to sleep with them?

Well, it means that suddenly they're probably getting at least a hand job from a "woman" daily. Unfortunately for them, that woman is themselves.

I don't understand. How does it increase their dating pool?! Is it because they are planning 'as a woman' to have sex with men? Surely if they were attracted to men, they would have been happily sleeping with gay men (who wouldn't reject them, obviously, because men don't withhold sex and comtrol the dating pool ). Or are they thinking they will find lits of lesbians queuing up to have sex with an intact male masquerading as a woman while not really even wanting to identify as one? Baffling.

This group is getting alot of sunlight these days....

They're up for sex with men from what I understand. I guess some sort of cognitive dissonance that the behaviour isn't homosexual because they're doing it "as a woman".

So these are men who hate ‘females’ because no one will have sex with them, so they lie about being trans and then…..?

The recent Channel 4 documentary on this is discussed here:

I'm confused cos I initially thought they were
male lesbians (obviously that's an oxymoron) who couldn't get women to have sex with them when they were men, so trying their luck dressing up as a woman and targeting women?

And then you see why men and their enablers are so very tetchy about lesbians setting up female only lesbian clubs.

In their view, it's more bloody minded bitches gatekeeping their vaginas from men who are entitled to sex from them.

the ultimate fantasy for many men

Actually... I can see it. Incels are of a very low quality type of man. I hate to say it but I was surrounded by them in my youth, before that was a thing and they were just nerds. They were extremely aggressively unhappy about not getting girls. It never occurred to them to work on their personality and stop whining.

Anyway I am kind of squinting back across the years and thinking of some of those guys and the late night drunken conversations in uni halls and I think I can see some looking at the kind of attention, camaraderie, automatic acceptance, membership of a crowd of misfits who are seen to be 'cool' aka the lgbtqs and going, that will be a way to end my loneliness.

The sex part if probably second to the loneliness, but they probably think there are going to be all these trans men there who are looking for women (who arent allowed to say no to trans women) and that these communities will be more open to sex with anyone so will increase the odds of getting some themselves. Being lonely leads to acute madness and I think more and more that this is where all these new trans indentities are coming from. When the fad passes, or the community fractures (as it already somewhat has) when the ones who are normal realise they keep getting complete sociopaths, nutters and just awful humans trying to join, the nutter crowd will have to go find another new fad.

Not totally sure that will happen. It's not like other nerdy outcast stuff like... rock music, larping, gaming, ultimate frisbee etc. The LGB and legit T people will still be there, wanting their community. I feel sorry for them that their part of the world has become a stupid fashion trend for social outcasts. Now THAT is homophobic and transphobic.

@CheeseChamp The sad thing is a lot of the nerdy types of yesteryears did eventually get girlfriends, families, end up fairly successful and happy. The worst thing that people that are lonely can do is find an online "community" of other lonely people telling each other that they are doomed to be lonely forever (and basing membership of said community and their whole identity on that loneliness.) Its self defeating for fairly obvious reasons. Plus the fact that many of the young men getting sucked into it are teenage boys - being crushingly awkward and insecure is a fairly normal part of teenage development. Getting frozen in that state is awful. And harbouring an aggressive resentment of women is not going to make them more attractive.
The self defeating/illogical nature of "become the girl to get the girl" is just a continuation of that really.

I actually also think maybe there is an explanation in evolutionary biology for why so many (especially older) men are invested in telling younger men not to bother with women/giving them terrible advice for getting women. Its a competition thing. Encouraging them to essentially castrate themselves is an extreme continuation of that.

My partners freind in his 60s now seems to be an example of this. When I say freind, this was from years back and they only kept in touch from time to time as freind lived overseas & they lost contact for a while. My partner always suspected him as being bisexual & very misogynistic. She identifies & dresses as a woman now but didn't have any surgeries. Told my dp she wasn't getting any sex as a male but once transitioned was having 'sex on tap'. From what we can gather this with other trans women, admirers or bisexual males she met within the community, clubs or via old.

I wonder if Scarlett Blake fits into this group? That was the first thought I had about him when heard about the case

Incels are of a very low quality type of man.

Yes. Beta males are right at the front of all this.

And the cross over between incel and many male people with TQ+ identities, particularly those posting on social media with all the violent sexual rhetoric is obvious.

There were discussions of this around the time of Madigan I believe. That teenaged to young adult males who were of a type that girls would tell without hesitation to get lost, found that transitioning gained female attention, sympathy, support, ego stroking and the female people finding nice feelz in being nice. There was however a lot of grumping, as displayed by some male people with TQ+ identities and lesbians, that a woman being nice in a way she previously wouldn't have been still didn't mean she'd get her knickers off and give him sex.

It's been very clear from multiple comments on SM and in articles: men with these issues see any positive interaction from women as foreplay. Which is interpreted as cockteasing when he wishes her to follow through and she doesn't want to. Much frustrated rage. The women merely thought they were #beingkind.