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Do you count GC feminists as LGBT?

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AdamRyan · 21/02/2024 14:20

Apparently Kemi Badenoch is a bit confused about the difference, claiming wide consultation with LGBT groups but actually only meeting GC feminist groups.

https://twitter.com/PickardJE/status/1760281735990738972?s=20

It reminds me a bit of when Maria Miller did the consultation on trans rights and didn't consult any feminists.

I would expect MPs to be consulting both sides, but more than that I'm kind of offended to be described as LGBT for my GC stance Confused. Seems unfair to both gay people and feminists and like the old anti-feminist "you are all hairy lesbians" trope

https://twitter.com/PickardJE/status/1760281735990738972?s=20

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BackCats · 22/02/2024 18:39

Also the reason for both meetings seems to relate to schools. Quite narrow.

OldCrone · 22/02/2024 18:39

Perhaps a different FOI, not linked to in the thread, was narrow enough to be agreed to and was more along the lines of “which groups did KB meet with between this date and this date”. It would make sense in that case.

This is possible. Bradshaw said that it had been published this week. Where is it? The whole point of FOIs is that the information is released to the public. Why hasn't anyone (except Bradshaw) seen it?

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 18:42

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 18:37

Actually I think it might be the FOI crone linked to and Bradshaw has seen the answer before its on the site. The original requester was quite insistent on a response. 2 ticks and I'll post it

Dear Government Equalities Office,
I am writing to firstly request a formal complaint into the handling of my request. You stated you needed extra time to consider the public sector duty but you have subsequently stated that you are exempting the information under section 12. Determining a section 12 denial should not have required additional time.
Further in your rejection, you have stated that there are too many departments the work stream would involve. To be clear, as is clear in my original request, I requested information relating to the GEO only. It was only this department that the request was made. Inflating the nature of my request in order to reject it is not in keeping with the FOIA and I am concerned if this is your normal practice, and would be grateful for your response prior to me raising this with the ICO.
To be clear, I have requested information that is clearly time bound- as I have stated I am requesting information that the minister referred to, but if the minister is not clear what she meant by that, I would suggest a maximum of 24 months prior to my request.
You will note that I made clear where my request may be limited should the financial limit not allow, and this response is entirely unacceptable.
I therefore request your urgent and senior review of my request, and I will expect a full response within 20 working days.
Should you continue to not fulfil your legal responsibilities, this will obviously need to be raised externally.

Then their holding reply says they are looking into it and will respond so maybe they have done.

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BackCats · 22/02/2024 18:43

I mention that they relate to schools because the office for Women and Equalities would have had meetings around the conversion therapy ban and other live topics, not just schools.

BackCats · 22/02/2024 18:48

I would suggest a maximum of 24 months prior to my request.

This person doesn’t seem to understand that the information requested needs to be time-bound, not how long they expect it to be before they get a response.

They need to say “what meetings were held between such and such date and the other” - this can’t be too broad a time period or too broad a subject for information.

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 18:51

TempestTost · 22/02/2024 17:57

The limits of identarianism for lobbying is becoming evident.

Not that it isn't effective. It is great for the people who control the agenda in these groups.

But it's been very clear to me for many years that the majority of gay men and lesbians I know differ from their so-called representatives in these groups about various matters. Some only somewhat, but quite a few on many issues, and often very strongly.

So in what sense do these groups actually represent the people they are saying they do? And, I would add, whose political power they are claiming as their own?

And it's not much different with other identity groups, although I would say the LGB "community" is by far the most divided in opinions on politics, in my experience. But I see much the same thing here in the black community, you can break it down somewhat by where the individuals come from, but it's still all over the place even within those sub-groups.

I really think that when the government, or workplaces, consult with LGB or other lobbying representatives, they often aren't getting a very accurate idea of what people who share that identity grouping actually think.

This is a good case in point.
Gay people still get beaten up. There are still terrorist attacks on gay venues. In some parts of the world you can be imprisoned or killed for being gay. That doesn't affect me as a straight woman in the UK.
What does affect me is being sexually assaulted by men, being paid less and discriminated against at work, and having to hide the annoying impacts my biology has on my day (morning sickness, leaky breasts, period flooding and hot flushes have all been features affecting my performance at various times). Straight men know nothing about this.

"Identarianism" is being used to shut people up from talking about how they are discriminated against. Badenoch is a proponent of that, which is one reason I don't like her.

It's not "lobbying" to expect to expect equal treatment for humans at work. It should be a basic right. Human rights. You know that boring thing that gets portrayed as bureaucracy but is pretty helpful to anyone finding themselves in dire straits for a variety of reasons.

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TathingScinsel · 22/02/2024 18:52

BackCats · 22/02/2024 18:39

Also the reason for both meetings seems to relate to schools. Quite narrow.

She probably met with them specifically to talk about the schools guidance on how to deal with gender distressed/gender questioning teens?

Obvs that was a department of education project so the DoE would’ve spoken to the big LGBT orgs and Kemi would’ve then been looking at how the equalities office balances competing ‘rights’?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2024 18:55

It's not "lobbying" to expect to expect equal treatment for humans at work. It should be a basic right. Human rights.

No, of course that's not "lobbying", and no one said it was. Lobbying is lobbying. It's a political campaign tactic that may or may not influence whether such rights are gained/maintained. It can also be used to make sure your particular special interests are treated as more important than other important groups'.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2024 18:57

She probably met with them specifically to talk about the schools guidance on how to deal with gender distressed/gender questioning teens?

Yes, that definitely sounds plausible. She's mentioned before that most of things she is across are managed by other departments and people don't seem to know what her role is.

Oneofthesurvivors · 22/02/2024 18:57

What does affect me is being sexually assaulted by men, being paid less and discriminated against at work, and having to hide the annoying impacts my biology has on my day (morning sickness, leaky breasts, period flooding and hot flushes have all been features affecting my performance at various times)

Are you not aware this also happens to same sex attracted women? plus the homophobia they experience.

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 18:57

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/02/2024 18:36

Such a good point - as the batshit "representatives" of the LGBT community working at John Lewis demonstrated. Centring fetish, bondage gear, men who abuse women, evidently mentally unwell individuals and openly promoting physical harm to girls. As soon as that was in the open the public protested vehemently at what was being implied about the nature of lesbians, gay men etc.

So much of this has been behind closed doors with all the deals / policy change with government happening via the trans captured civil service with their favoured and financially well - rewarded lobby groups. Involving additional groups with a specific perspective on women's rights and child safeguarding that's to date been relentlessly compromised by these groups, is a good thing.

Still surprised that anyone is so opposed to organisations advocating for women's rights and child safeguarding being heard by government? But as we've seen, the determination to silence women's views is pretty rampant at the moment.

As soon as that was in the open the public protested vehemently at what was being implied about the nature of lesbians, gay men etc.
What do you mean by this? Do you mean the LGBT groups are misrepresenting gay people or do you mean the public are outraged by the nature of gay people?
It sounds like we are straying out of this being about the T and more into LGB culture which I'm quite uncomfortable with. I don't know enough about broader LGB culture to have an informed opinion.

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AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 19:01

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2024 18:55

It's not "lobbying" to expect to expect equal treatment for humans at work. It should be a basic right. Human rights.

No, of course that's not "lobbying", and no one said it was. Lobbying is lobbying. It's a political campaign tactic that may or may not influence whether such rights are gained/maintained. It can also be used to make sure your particular special interests are treated as more important than other important groups'.

I really think that when the government, or workplaces, consult with LGB or other lobbying representatives, they often aren't getting a very accurate idea of what people who share that identity grouping actually think Hmm

do you think Transgender Trend are lobbying? Or Sex Matters? Fair Play for Women?
What is the difference?

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AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 19:06

Oneofthesurvivors · 22/02/2024 18:57

What does affect me is being sexually assaulted by men, being paid less and discriminated against at work, and having to hide the annoying impacts my biology has on my day (morning sickness, leaky breasts, period flooding and hot flushes have all been features affecting my performance at various times)

Are you not aware this also happens to same sex attracted women? plus the homophobia they experience.

This is what I actually said:
What does affect me is being sexually assaulted by men, being paid less and discriminated against at work, and having to hide the annoying impacts my biology has on my day (morning sickness, leaky breasts, period flooding and hot flushes have all been features affecting my performance at various times).Straight men know nothing about this
Talking about my experience as a woman, that I share with other women. And how that experience is not shared with straight men.

I'm not sure how you've managed to interpret that as me excluding lesbians Confused

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2024 19:09

do you think Transgender Trend are lobbying? Or Sex Matters? Fair Play for Women?
What is the difference?

I didn't say there was one. Please stop projecting.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/02/2024 19:09

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 18:57

As soon as that was in the open the public protested vehemently at what was being implied about the nature of lesbians, gay men etc.
What do you mean by this? Do you mean the LGBT groups are misrepresenting gay people or do you mean the public are outraged by the nature of gay people?
It sounds like we are straying out of this being about the T and more into LGB culture which I'm quite uncomfortable with. I don't know enough about broader LGB culture to have an informed opinion.

Meh. If you think lesbians and gay men are happy when representations of us revolve around kink, fetish, mental illness and abuse of women then I can't help you.

OldCrone · 22/02/2024 19:12

Then their holding reply says they are looking into it and will respond so maybe they have done.

That seems unlikely. The person who made the request is notified at the same time as the reply is published on the site. You're not sent the information separately, you just get an email with a link to the reply.

Also, from my experience of dealing with government bodies, they tend to leave their response as late as possible. So it's unlikely to be there much before 6th March which is 20 working days after the request for the internal review.

Edit: This was a response to AdamRyan's post at 18:42

BackToLurk · 22/02/2024 20:13

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 18:35

You don't get to tell me what's good faith.
If I turned up and said all your (plural -posters on this board, not you specifically) various posts about labour/lib dems/capturing were "bad faith" you'd all collectively be outraged.

It's no secret I'm not a fan of Badenoch but in this case I genuinely want to see what people think about the fact Kemi has claimed extensive engagement with LGB groups but only met two GC groups. That's a contradictory claim.

What people appear to think on this board is Saint Kemi Can Do No Wrong. The two main explanations appear to be Bradshaw is lying and has falsified the FOI response. Or there are plenty of lesbians in GC groups so she has consulted LGB groups.

Those explanations are kinda weird in the face of the evidence and quite far from the "logical, measured debate" FWR is famed for. We didn't stand for that kind of rubbish as an argument for why GC feminists weren't consulted by Miller so I'm not sure why Badenoch is getting a free pass. I can only think there is a political motivation. But tell me if its not that. Just dismissing me as "bad faith" is lazy.

I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think KB can do no wrong. What we have here though are some massive assumptions being made based on a, at best, partial response to an apparent FOI request. I'd query any 'evidence' like this didn't appear to be complete. Why just publish annex 1 and not the entire response?

BackCats · 22/02/2024 20:21

Why just publish annex 1 and not the entire response?

Or at least link to it.

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 20:29

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/02/2024 19:09

Meh. If you think lesbians and gay men are happy when representations of us revolve around kink, fetish, mental illness and abuse of women then I can't help you.

I don't think that and I'm not sure why you are implying I do.
Would you like to answer the question rather than build straw men of what you imagine I mean? Or you know, we can leave it. I would have thought your response rather Implies why it is important for Badenoch to engage with a wide range of people.

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AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 20:33

BackToLurk · 22/02/2024 20:13

I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't think KB can do no wrong. What we have here though are some massive assumptions being made based on a, at best, partial response to an apparent FOI request. I'd query any 'evidence' like this didn't appear to be complete. Why just publish annex 1 and not the entire response?

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Yeah it's a good question. If Bradshaw hadn't specifically said the same thing in parliament I'd think it was a smear. But because he raised it in PMQs and referenced the answer I feel it must be true.
I also get the sense from Jardine's original question in December, the FOI request and Bradshaw's question that everyone in parliament knows she hasn't met any other groups and are showing her up. That's how politics works, isn't it.
That's why I'm surprised so many people are just so adamant it isn't true.

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AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 20:39

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/02/2024 18:55

It's not "lobbying" to expect to expect equal treatment for humans at work. It should be a basic right. Human rights.

No, of course that's not "lobbying", and no one said it was. Lobbying is lobbying. It's a political campaign tactic that may or may not influence whether such rights are gained/maintained. It can also be used to make sure your particular special interests are treated as more important than other important groups'.

I was copying a quote from a previous poster so you could see what I was replying to and why I said what I said, as you seemed to have missed the person claiming equal rights groups were lobbying 🙄
Do you think LGB groups are lobbying and if so whats the different between that and what Fair Play for Women are doing (just as a random example)? What is lobbying and what's representing a particular need or viewpoint from a particular group?

Personally, I think its about transparency and financial motivations. Most LGBT groups are open about their agenda and financial affairs. Lobbying groups try to hide their agenda behind a facade, and are simultaneously making political donations.

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AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 20:42

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 20:39

I was copying a quote from a previous poster so you could see what I was replying to and why I said what I said, as you seemed to have missed the person claiming equal rights groups were lobbying 🙄
Do you think LGB groups are lobbying and if so whats the different between that and what Fair Play for Women are doing (just as a random example)? What is lobbying and what's representing a particular need or viewpoint from a particular group?

Personally, I think its about transparency and financial motivations. Most LGBT groups are open about their agenda and financial affairs. Lobbying groups try to hide their agenda behind a facade, and are simultaneously making political donations.

Although I just googled it and that was wrong! Turns out anyone can do lobbying!

Not sure what that means about any of the previous posts mind 🤔

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/02/2024 20:57

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 20:29

I don't think that and I'm not sure why you are implying I do.
Would you like to answer the question rather than build straw men of what you imagine I mean? Or you know, we can leave it. I would have thought your response rather Implies why it is important for Badenoch to engage with a wide range of people.

The small extract of my comment that you have selected was one of 3 paragraphs in response to TempestTost who was pointing out that "when the government, or workplaces, consult with LGB or other lobbying representatives, they often aren't getting a very accurate idea of what people who share that identity grouping actually think"

Part of my response was "Such a good point - as the batshit "representatives" of the LGBT community working at John Lewis demonstrated. Centring fetish, bondage gear, men who abuse women, evidently mentally unwell individuals and openly promoting physical harm to girls. As soon as that was in the open the public protested vehemently at what was being implied about the nature of lesbians, gay men etc"

You have removed the context of my comment by focussing on the last section. I think my paragraph is perfectly self explanatory - as long as you're aware of this week's John Lewis debacle which I assumed you were given the regularity of your posting on this board. It's no wonder so many posters complain about your lack of good faith when you selectively quote like this.

As I said, if you don't understand the point that fetish, bondage gear, men who abuse women, mentally unwell individuals and promoting physical harm to girls does not represent the LGB or T communities then I can't help you.

AdamRyan · 22/02/2024 21:02

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/02/2024 20:57

The small extract of my comment that you have selected was one of 3 paragraphs in response to TempestTost who was pointing out that "when the government, or workplaces, consult with LGB or other lobbying representatives, they often aren't getting a very accurate idea of what people who share that identity grouping actually think"

Part of my response was "Such a good point - as the batshit "representatives" of the LGBT community working at John Lewis demonstrated. Centring fetish, bondage gear, men who abuse women, evidently mentally unwell individuals and openly promoting physical harm to girls. As soon as that was in the open the public protested vehemently at what was being implied about the nature of lesbians, gay men etc"

You have removed the context of my comment by focussing on the last section. I think my paragraph is perfectly self explanatory - as long as you're aware of this week's John Lewis debacle which I assumed you were given the regularity of your posting on this board. It's no wonder so many posters complain about your lack of good faith when you selectively quote like this.

As I said, if you don't understand the point that fetish, bondage gear, men who abuse women, mentally unwell individuals and promoting physical harm to girls does not represent the LGB or T communities then I can't help you.

OK whatever. I quoted your whole post and picked out one para I didn't understand to ask about specifically, which is not "removing context". I have lost interest now in trying to engage someone clearly more interested in telling me I'm disingenuous than actually engaging in the thread, so let's just leave it there.

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