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Schools Guidance Consultation closes 12 of March - can we collate ideas for responding?

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ValancyRedfern · 17/02/2024 11:01

Hi All,

I'm concerned people (including myself!) may lost track of time and forget to respond to the schools guidance. I thought it would be useful to create a thread collating and discussing ideas for responding. I know there are still some response guides to come from SSA and Sex Matters. I'm posting in a rush right now but I will be back with any links I can find. This is so important as all the Usual Suspects will be responding, and many Unions, charities, MATs and individual schools are currently saying this is only draft guidance so can and should be ignored. We need to ensure our voices are heard.

Link to consultation:

https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance/

Link to draft guidance:

https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance/supporting_documents/Gender%20Questioning%20Children%20%20nonstatutory%20guidance.pdf

Guidance for Schools and Colleges: Gender Questioning Children - Department for Education - Citizen Space

Find and participate in consultations run by the Department for Education

https://consult.education.gov.uk/equalities-political-impartiality-anti-bullying-team/gender-questioning-children-proposed-guidance

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WarriorN · 23/02/2024 07:54

Isn't there a glaring omission in the guidance in the form of lying to a child about their teacher's sex?

The only issue there is if the teacher has transitioned, has a grc and so is covered by the EA2010. However, I don't believe there is a specific law about pronouns?

Leafstamp · 23/02/2024 07:59

WarriorN · 23/02/2024 07:54

Isn't there a glaring omission in the guidance in the form of lying to a child about their teacher's sex?

The only issue there is if the teacher has transitioned, has a grc and so is covered by the EA2010. However, I don't believe there is a specific law about pronouns?

Even then, I think a child needs to know whether a teacher is a man (born male) or a woman (born female). Regardless of any special certificate that individual may hold.

As Safe School Alliance have said, if there are laws in place that prevent the proper safeguarding of children then those laws need to change.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2024 08:15

Completely agree. None of this should have happened in schools and it's good to see this being openly acknowledged:
"we will make sure that our statutory safeguarding guidance is completely aligned with this non-statutory guidance"
Good to see they're aware of how many aspects of guidance has been affected - I was a bit concerned that they'd continue avoiding the issue but it seems not.

ResisterRex · 23/02/2024 08:26

It seems they're aware of the efforts gone on, to say "oh it's not statutory so you can ignore it". Utter rubbish.

This isn't statutory, would the unions lobby for it to be ignored? I think we should be told.

www.gov.uk/government/publications/keeping-children-safe-in-out-of-school-settings-code-of-practice

"This guidance covers advice on what policies and procedures providers should have in place for:
• health and safety
• safeguarding and child protection
• staff suitability
• governance
It covers out-of-school settings such as:
• community activities - for example, youth clubs
• before- and after-school clubs
• holiday clubs
• supplementary schools - for example, language, cultural and religious
• private tuition
• music lessons
• sports training"

worrieddragon · 23/02/2024 18:03

Slightly off topic, but bear with me... Insurance.

One for people who work in schools or are involved in school governance (or know anything about insurance!).

If a school were to ignore the (non-statutory) guidance and something bad happened as a result, eg a female child was injured in the rugby game she'd been allowed to play with the boys, or an underage girl became pregnant following a school trip with mixed sex bedrooms, how does that affect the school's insurance?

Presumably insurance is conditional on the school having policies, following them, conducting risk assessments etc. How would insurers respond to a situation like this? Surely ignoring the official guidance (as well as all common sense) would give them a good reason to say 'Not covering that'

ResisterRex · 23/02/2024 18:12

I don't think it is off topic. It's worth raising. Another aspect would be taking a female child on a school trip but the school has that child down under another name at school. Is the permission from the parents null and void?

Presumably you cannot claim on insurance, or claim to be insured, if your records are wrong. That's what insurance companies do: crawl all over records and the audit trail, looking for reasons not to pay out.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2024 18:33

worrieddragon · 23/02/2024 18:03

Slightly off topic, but bear with me... Insurance.

One for people who work in schools or are involved in school governance (or know anything about insurance!).

If a school were to ignore the (non-statutory) guidance and something bad happened as a result, eg a female child was injured in the rugby game she'd been allowed to play with the boys, or an underage girl became pregnant following a school trip with mixed sex bedrooms, how does that affect the school's insurance?

Presumably insurance is conditional on the school having policies, following them, conducting risk assessments etc. How would insurers respond to a situation like this? Surely ignoring the official guidance (as well as all common sense) would give them a good reason to say 'Not covering that'

Think you're right.
A school that deliberately ignores guidance is putting themselves legally in a very dodgy position. Government non statutory guidance is meant to be followed. If a school fails to do this, then when challenged, they must demonstrate that whatever they're doing is equally "good" and legally sound The draft guidance is based on education law, (safeguarding, statutory guidance, statutory requirements etc).
Although the trans activists claim that it's all illegal, I wouldn't want to be a Head who ignores it and socially transitions a child in secret from their parents - that's against the law of the land. A Head who ignores the guidance that the children must not not undress, shower, sleep in front of the opposite sex would be unlikely to survive challenge if a child was sexually assaulted as a result. And so on.
My guess is that no insurance company would financially bail out a school who ignored guidance. And you wouldn't want to be a governor in that school, ending up responsible for a massive financial claim by a sexually assaulted child, a girl injured by a boy in a sporting event etc.

onlytherain · 23/02/2024 18:35

Chariothorses · 18/02/2024 15:33

The guidance is an improvement on current situation.
1- Stonewall's draft response (linked on sex matters website) recommends any girl who doesn't consent to get undressed with the opposite sex should be excluded from the girls changing room- not the boy who wants to be there without female consent! Punishing girls for sexual / bodily boundaries from males , whatever their religious belief. (3rd spaces...)

2- Stonewall also want to enforce the mis sexing of males whatever the human rights breaches (privacy, dignity, safety for girls and free speech and belief of all) and safeguarding impact. Some school policies currently actively target children who recognise sex is real for punishment- eg Church of England schools follow the Church's 'VAGC' policy (says anyone who won't pretend/ use wrong sex pronouns is a bully).

It's especially cruel to Child victims of male abuse who recognise reality/ children of transpeople (who have legal rights to correctly refer to their parents). .. and increases risk to other children-remember that little girl in Scotland who got into her abuser's car as she'd been taught if a man says he's a woman he's safe? (The Amy/ Andrew Miller case). And the other girl bullied for challenging Stonewall stuff https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10839993/Girl-18-forced-private-school-transphobia-row-thanks-JK-Rowling-supporting-her.html

So the government need to produce a draft EIA (equality impact assessment) to protect all these children, not just those who are gender distressed, otherwise schools will ignore them.

Several trans lobby groups and teachers have said online schools should ignore the guidance as it's non statutory. So needs to have legal impact and punishment too.

I very much agree about the cruelty to victims of male child abuse. Another group on whom pronoun use has a disproportionate impact are children with SEN. Children who have learning difficulties, such as difficulties with memory, processing, brain fog etc. can struggle to remember the "correct" pronouns. Some autistic children might struggle too. This can cause anxiety for these children. So there is another conflict of rights. Why should chilldren who are gender questioning be prioritised over children with SEN?

ResisterRex · 23/02/2024 18:40

Another aspect to insurance is: when (not if) an ex-pupil sues where that person was a minor and was funnelled through to GIDS from the school, the school may well be liable to pay compensation. Will they be able to?

One day there will be an inquiry into all this. If the government is now doing the right thing, my guess is that schools will be on their own, whichever political party is in Westminster.

If schools, like the government, take steps to recognise the best evidence we now have and to adapt, I'm sure that'll help stem a flow of compensation applications.

Sounds harsh but the only things that all these kinds of organisations understand is financial risk.

BonfireLady · 24/02/2024 17:08

Placemarking for a proper read through and contribution when I get time.

I saw the Transgender Trend response on email the other day. Wow. I sent it on to my daughters' school so that they could see it, in the context of the discussions that I've been having with them about all of this.

I had covered many of the points in my own response (which I've already sent) but suffice to say, the TT version was another level. The clarity with which it's written is just as valuable as the content. Stephanie Davies-Arai has a background in communications and this really shines through in the response.

Woman2023 · 27/02/2024 07:38

Three videos by Isla Mac with some interesting thoughts on the guidance. I watched them comfortably at 1.25 speed. She makes good points of things to keep in mind when replying.

Vebrithien · 28/02/2024 20:04

Have completed. As a parent, teacher and pastoral lead

Leafstamp · 28/02/2024 20:38

Bayswater Support Group have done a useful thread on X too:

Bayswater Support on X: "There is much to be welcomed in the @educationgov guidance, particularly the clarity around existing legal duties. However, there are key areas that require strengthening. This thread offers a summary & we urge people to respond to the consultation t.co/iRpS1Jvvuy" / X (twitter.com)

There is much to be welcomed in the @educationgov guidance, particularly the clarity around existing legal duties. However, there are key areas that require strengthening. This thread offers a summary & we urge people to respond to the consultation.

Firstly, the guidance must explicitly reference the very serious psychological & physical risks associated with a trans-identity. Otherwise schools will continue to respond simply to the superficial identity rather than considering underlying causes & consequences.

A safeguarding assessment must be mandated for any student who requests social transition or who exhibits signs of distress relating to questions about gender. This assessment should consider the following (with appropriate action being taken accordingly):

1. Potential background factors: (undiagnosed) autism/ADHD, trauma, CSA, online sexual grooming, bullying, homophobia, social isolation, gender non-conformity, normal physical changes during puberty, gender identity content in PSHE curriculum/LGBT+ school clubs.

2. Risks to trans-identified students: breast binding, genital tucking, sourcing black market drugs, exposure to inappropriate online content, family relationship breakdown (often encouraged by peers/online), unaddressed MH conditions such as psychosis, cutting and anorexia.

3. ‘Watchful waiting’ is a therapeutic concept and, as such, an inappropriate term for this guidance as this is beyond the remit of education professionals. Children who are questioning their gender require ACTIVE safeguarding to explore serious comorbidities & associated risks.

Similarly, the guidance is insufficiently clear on the difference between a request for a nickname / other name change and a request for a new name associated with a trans identity. The latter comes with all the safeguarding risks & co-morbidities already highlighted.

Teachers need an understanding of the Cass Review findings to empower them to respond appropriately to students raising questions about gender. The NHS MindEd training for education professionals should be referenced directly in the guidance.

An explicit warning is required about ideological materials from lobby groups. DfE should work with the Department for Health to make resources available to schools to ensure they take evidence-led decisions & do not undermine the NHS's guidance for paediatric gender services.

More broadly on social transition, it is thought that concerns over unmanageable pressure on the NHS prevented inclusion of a requirement for prior clinical approval. However, a lack of resources in the health service does not justify transferring this responsibility to schools. Yet that is precisely what is done by means of a loophole in the guidance permitting social transition in 'exceptional cases', with no explanation as to how a school could ever be qualified to facilitate a decision with "significant effects on […] psychological functioning".

At the very least, a reminder is required in the guidance of the statutory duty in Keeping Children Safe in Education that: “only appropriately trained professionals should attempt to make a diagnosis of a mental health problem”.

Moreover, since schools often fail to appreciate that social transition is a clinically consequential decision, they need a much stronger reminder about psychological impacts and the fact that this is the first step on a pathway to hormonal and surgical interventions.

https://twitter.com/BayswaterSG/status/1762480839579799840

ValancyRedfern · 03/03/2024 10:05

Please don't forget to do this. Deadline in 9 days. I'm taking a break from mock exam marking to do my response now.

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MsGoodenough · 03/03/2024 11:17

Seen on twitter

Schools Guidance Consultation closes 12 of March - can we collate ideas for responding?
Leafstamp · 03/03/2024 15:05

If you only have 5 mins, then Sex Matters have made this suggestion:

If you can only spare five minutes, we recommend simply responding “Yes” to all the Yes/No questions except 15, 17, 23 and 30. For those, we think the guidance risks leading schools to make wrong choices, and we suggest answering “No” and making a brief comment.

Comment on the schools guidance – even if you only have five minutes - Sex Matters (sex-matters.org)

Comment on the schools guidance – even if you only have five minutes - Sex Matters

Show your support, flag areas that need improvement and share your experience as a teacher or parent.

https://sex-matters.org/take-action/comment-on-the-schools-guidance/?mc_cid=fa49ef1416&mc_eid=3d67cf631c

Leafstamp · 04/03/2024 16:50

Bump. I've submitted mine now.

There are webinars and campaigns like @MsGoodenough has posted above from the other side so it's really important we get our voices heard.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 04/03/2024 18:54

MsGoodenough · 04/03/2024 18:46

Check out this website to see the scale of the opposition to the guidance:
https://tnb.org.uk/?fbclid=IwAR3CTATABG3dBnyX4VNg1-nllGgXw5vgtdzjKoOUnF8lpsi-8BKXR_aPbNw

Thank you for sharing that but meh - look at what the NSPCC, the NAS UWT etc are saying. All carefully crafted with no wailing. Measured and careful (they know what the problems are).
However, all the lobby groups are incandescent as school are a massive source of ££££ for them, along with the potential to influence children below the age of consent with some beliefs that fail to measure up to critical scrutiny.

This is the NAS UWT's say nothing response:

“It is right that there should be a thorough period for consultation to ensure that the guidance provides schools with the support they need as they navigate these important and sensitive issues. Ministers need to demonstrate that they are willing to engage in discussing these matters openly and sensitively.
“We will be considering carefully the draft guidance and hearing from teachers and headteachers on whether this guidance will provide the clarity that schools and colleges need.
“We would caution against schools seeking to pre-empt the conclusion of the Government’s consultation. It is clear that Ministers have found it difficult to issue this guidance which has been beset by countless delays.
“It is essential that this guidance contributes to ensuring that schools and colleges provide safe and inclusive learning and teaching environments for all pupils and staff.”

Leafstamp · 04/03/2024 21:36

I’m sure the majority of teachers just want some guidance that’s easy to follow.

Easy to follow guidance would be either letting any child transition who wants to or letting no child transition. Anything in between means hard work for teachers as they need to assess, negotiate, explain.

There’s no way that the govt are going to go with the ‘let any child transition’ option. Therefore we need to have no option to transition*

*whatever transition even means given that people can’t change sex.

EasternStandard · 04/03/2024 21:37

I’ve submitted, thanks op

Leafstamp · 05/03/2024 14:11

Great @EasternStandard

Does anyone have a feel for how long it will take them to get the final guidance out once the consultation closes? I heard someone way it could still be 9-12 months away.

MsGoodenough · 06/03/2024 22:21

Bump. Deadline in 6 days. I'm halfway through my response planning to finish over the weekend.

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