On a different note, I increasingly find that the striking thing about gender ideology is the way it will not accept any dissent. No agreeing to disagree or understanding why someone else might come to a different conclusion.
This has long been its core feature - hence "no debate" and so on. And the endless attempts, often successful, to hound dissenters by removing them from their jobs, reporting them to the police, removing them from speaking engagements, sending them death threats etc.
When you think about it, it's easy to see why. The whole ideology rests upon other people's willingness to accede to it. If you're gay, or black or whatever, it doesn't really matter whether other people accept gayness or blackness (in fact the very idea is absurd). But if you're a man who thinks he's a woman, your identity depends entirely on other people's willingness to go along with it. As soon as someone says, well, actually, you're a man, the whole thing goes up in a puff of smoke. A bit like the way, in Peter Pan, a fairy dies every time a child says "I don't believe in fairies."