So women and girls shouldn't expect a right to be safe, just a hope that any blokes in their vicinity don't just suddenly lose control and attack them?
Fgs. The massive majority of us have many men in our lives who would never 'lose control' and sexually assault someone regardless of how they felt at the time. As Lundy Bancroft often tells the offenders he works with, (to paraphrase) you do not sexually assault or batter your boss when you're upset. You do not randomly batter anyone who annoys you. You choose your victims, and you choose when you do this behaviour. You are in control of it, and you do it when you choose and to whom you feel entitled.