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Top aide claims women lost lives in pandemic as macho No10 focused on shooting and hunting

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IwantToRetire · 01/11/2023 17:45

Helen MacNamara, who was Britain’s most senior female civil servant, said Boris Johnson let the country down by not tackling the "toxic" culture he presided over.

The Inquiry has been shown WhatsApp messages from Dominic Cummings to Boris Johnson in which he said he wanted Ms MacNamara "out of our hair" as he no longer wanted to dodge “stilettos from that c**t". As she appeared today, the former official said the messages were "horrible to read", but she was not surprised because of the culture in No10.

In an email to civil service colleagues in April 2020, Ms MacNamara raised concerns that the failure to include women in decision making had led to problems, including the lack of provision for domestic abuse victims during the first lockdown. "It is very difficult to draw any conclusion other than women have died as a result of this," she wrote. Ms MacNamara highlighted how most PPE was not designed for female bodies even though 77% of NHS are women.

In a written statement, Ms MacNamara said: “The exclusion of a female perspective led to significant negative consequences, including the lack of thought given to childcare in the context of school closures. There was a serious lack of thinking about domestic abuse and the vulnerable, about carers and informal networks of how people look after each other in families and communities. There was not enough thinking about the impact on single parents of some of the restrictions.”

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/politics/top-aide-claims-women-lost-31337867

Top aide claims women lost lives in pandemic as macho No10 focused on hunting

Helen MacNamara, who was Britain’s most senior female civil servant, said Boris Johnson let the country down by not tackling the 'toxic' culture in Downing Street

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/politics/top-aide-claims-women-lost-31337867

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marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 02/11/2023 08:30

Yes the sexism was world beating, and from a very right wing Tory government. People can anonymously pop up on here to defend it, presumably Tories, but it hasn't been reported this week all over the planet for no reason. Your lot did it.

Abhannmor · 02/11/2023 08:32

CliantheLang · 01/11/2023 18:09

How anyone could vote for this bunch of heartless incompetents again is beyond me.

Probably because Labour wanted even more lockdown even longer.

There was widespread public support for lockdowns and many people were dismayed at the ' Eat Out to Spread it About ' idiocy and all the stop /go nonsense.

But it is now fashionable to pretend the lockdowns were some conspiracy or moral panic. Clearly Johnson wasn't a fan but I doubt his opposition came from concern for public health. Rather his attitude to science is the same as his comment about business during Brexit : fuck it.

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 08:32

There were so many posters arguing this was not an issue on this site

Bloody hell. Absolutely part of the problem for women and children quite frankly.

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 08:35

What was that line all those posters kept trotting out

‘School is not childcare’

And the rest, the DV

The need for networks and support

Everyone more focussed on Covid not the damage done. So freaking annoying to see it finally stated.

KitchenSinkLlama · 02/11/2023 08:47

If the Roman Empire considered it vital to have an Auriga whisper to a general, perhaps we need an equivalent? Perhaps with a cattle prod. 🤷‍♀️😉

bombastix · 02/11/2023 08:51

KitchenSinkLlama · 02/11/2023 08:47

If the Roman Empire considered it vital to have an Auriga whisper to a general, perhaps we need an equivalent? Perhaps with a cattle prod. 🤷‍♀️😉

Regrettable this was never implemented.

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:02

Even on this female dominated site so many posters didn’t give a shit

In fact they spent the pandemic hurling abuse at anyone that did

Politicians go with the public, all those demanding the harm listed in that quote can include themselves in that

Fizbosshoes · 02/11/2023 09:05

I feel really embarrassed and pissed off with myself that although I didn't and definitely wouldn't vote Tory, at the beginning of the Pandemic, I actually defended the Govt thinking they were dealing with a new once in a generation problem that couldn't have been predicted. Although I also thought there should be a cross-party allegiance to deal with the Pandemic collectively.
The more that comes out the more stupid I feel. The missed cobra meetings, the unpreparedness, the parties, and now the thought that someone was trying to advocate for women, children and those more adversly impacted by the lockdowns....and they were shouted down. Although At this point it isn't really a surprise.

TempestTost · 02/11/2023 09:13

bombastix · 02/11/2023 08:20

Let's just say that the sexism was "world beating". I don't think anyone who has encountered men en masse who went to public school would have been the least bit surprised.

Anyway, Johnson had a lot of time for some women. Just not any that represented any kind of challenge.

Cummings I think was married to one of the editorial board of the Spectator, which explains in part his access to the top tier of government. You have to remember how he was lauded in certain parts of the press for attacking the "Establishment".

It's fair to observe that even if sexism exists elsewhere, this was qualitatively different.

I have no doubt it was very toxic. I think there is something wrong with Cummings, although he clearly has a brain, it's often used for evil.

I tend to see Johnston's main failing as personal weakness, which doesn't do the hard thing when required.

bombastix · 02/11/2023 09:15

It was a national emergency; in such situations the Government holds unique power over the ordinary citizen. I would not feel guilty. The Government had near total control of communications, resources, and allocation of money to resolve this crisis. It was not the responsibility of ordinary citizens to hold them to account. That is the prerogative of real leadership by a Prime Minister who is given huge power to disregard usual democratic protocol; perhaps people should give themselves a break.

TempestTost · 02/11/2023 09:20

Abhannmor · 02/11/2023 08:32

There was widespread public support for lockdowns and many people were dismayed at the ' Eat Out to Spread it About ' idiocy and all the stop /go nonsense.

But it is now fashionable to pretend the lockdowns were some conspiracy or moral panic. Clearly Johnson wasn't a fan but I doubt his opposition came from concern for public health. Rather his attitude to science is the same as his comment about business during Brexit : fuck it.

His original stance was based on the pandemic planning that was in place, which was the whole point of having such a plan. And it wasn't developed by politicians, it was developed by experts, including public health experts who pre-pandemic seemed to be aware that such plans had to be approached holistically, and that there were all kinds of human considerations, and limits to shaping behaviour.

Public pressure did play a huge part in causing him, and others, to abandon such plans, and people have speculated about whay that happened, but I don't think there's any doubt at this point that what happened is that political leaders and the media did panic and completely forget about the effects these policies would have on people apart from (maybe) limiting covid.

SeaPool · 02/11/2023 09:22

Is this a public school thing?

Yes. Public schooling was pretty much designed to produce a class of boys (and girls) who would rule the empire and have no qualms about treading rough shod over (or cutting the hands off) the little people who stood in their way.

Those same schools are now producing the exact same brand of boys and girls with the same sense of superiority, of entitlement and an ability to see themselves as a thing apart, above and outside of the normal rules that apply to others. What is it that Jacob Rees Mogg calls people 'below' his class? Ah yes, Pot Plants.

Nick names, bullying, a way of dressing you'd never see on a plumber, a duchess for a mother in law - all straight outta Harrow.

Eton and Oxford and a thousand acres of Somerset and BINGO, you're in the Tory cabinet. No greater proof of the 'huddle' of these boys can be found in the disdain they show for 'others'. The Matt Hancocks who aren't quite 'top drawer and the Allegra Strattens (no penis) are those who take the fall when things go wrong whilst the huddle bunches tighter and probably hand around a few knighthoods.

These people float to the top of government and the armed forces like scum on the rivers the Tory party is polluting. That culture of status, breeding, bullying and ownership of women (I'm talking to you Red Arrows) runs through society because of these people and their style of education.

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:25

Ignoring the impact on women and children wasn’t a public school thing it was public demand

Including this site, predominantly women.

All documented showing why those in that list suffered as they did and nearly everyone demanded more restrictions

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:29

And I recall Scotland going further. My friends and I so glad we had private nurseries open where working women in Scotland did not. Anyone who had to work without childcare knows that impact.

Any idea Sturgeon as a female helped out women there is for the birds.

TempestTost · 02/11/2023 09:30

bombastix · 02/11/2023 09:15

It was a national emergency; in such situations the Government holds unique power over the ordinary citizen. I would not feel guilty. The Government had near total control of communications, resources, and allocation of money to resolve this crisis. It was not the responsibility of ordinary citizens to hold them to account. That is the prerogative of real leadership by a Prime Minister who is given huge power to disregard usual democratic protocol; perhaps people should give themselves a break.

I think that's totally fair, but I also think people need to ask why things went the way they did.

It is important to note that BJ's initial instinct was to follow the pandemic planning. The media, and the public, and I think to some extent the political opposition, were characterizing that as "let it rip" and not caring that people died. Which is completely untrue really, the reason pandemic planning took that approach was because it understood that there are consequences to taking extreme measures, and only limited benefits.

It's also the case that the accepted wisdom in public health was that you could really only get people to obey restrictions and such, in a useful way, for a very limited time. And these timelines were short, like three weeks or a month. That it was possible, with the support of the media, to scare people into changing behaviour longer was a big change in thinking, but not many seemed to stop and think what the long term consequences of that would be on the population.

And the UK, and England in particular, was a lot more conservative about going down that road than many other countries. They seemed to try and mitigate it before a lot of others did, Scotland, Canada, Wales, NZ, Australia, all were under similar pressures and were more draconian in their restrictions and requirements. NZ actually prevented citizens from entering the country.

I don't think the answer will be found entirely in national politics.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 02/11/2023 09:33

@SeaPool 👏👏👏

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:36

SeaPool · 02/11/2023 09:22

Is this a public school thing?

Yes. Public schooling was pretty much designed to produce a class of boys (and girls) who would rule the empire and have no qualms about treading rough shod over (or cutting the hands off) the little people who stood in their way.

Those same schools are now producing the exact same brand of boys and girls with the same sense of superiority, of entitlement and an ability to see themselves as a thing apart, above and outside of the normal rules that apply to others. What is it that Jacob Rees Mogg calls people 'below' his class? Ah yes, Pot Plants.

Nick names, bullying, a way of dressing you'd never see on a plumber, a duchess for a mother in law - all straight outta Harrow.

Eton and Oxford and a thousand acres of Somerset and BINGO, you're in the Tory cabinet. No greater proof of the 'huddle' of these boys can be found in the disdain they show for 'others'. The Matt Hancocks who aren't quite 'top drawer and the Allegra Strattens (no penis) are those who take the fall when things go wrong whilst the huddle bunches tighter and probably hand around a few knighthoods.

These people float to the top of government and the armed forces like scum on the rivers the Tory party is polluting. That culture of status, breeding, bullying and ownership of women (I'm talking to you Red Arrows) runs through society because of these people and their style of education.

How do you explain Sturgeon bringing in policies that harmed women more?

SeaPool · 02/11/2023 09:39

@EasternStandard I'm not talking about policies. I'm talking about culture.
But whilst we're on the subject it could be argued that in the past 13 years the Tories have systematically eroded women's rights, opportunities and quality of life through their policies and austerity generally.

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:41

SeaPool · 02/11/2023 09:39

@EasternStandard I'm not talking about policies. I'm talking about culture.
But whilst we're on the subject it could be argued that in the past 13 years the Tories have systematically eroded women's rights, opportunities and quality of life through their policies and austerity generally.

Policies matter obviously

Whether a private nursery takes dc in a pandemic is entirely relevant to working women

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:42

TempestTost · 02/11/2023 09:30

I think that's totally fair, but I also think people need to ask why things went the way they did.

It is important to note that BJ's initial instinct was to follow the pandemic planning. The media, and the public, and I think to some extent the political opposition, were characterizing that as "let it rip" and not caring that people died. Which is completely untrue really, the reason pandemic planning took that approach was because it understood that there are consequences to taking extreme measures, and only limited benefits.

It's also the case that the accepted wisdom in public health was that you could really only get people to obey restrictions and such, in a useful way, for a very limited time. And these timelines were short, like three weeks or a month. That it was possible, with the support of the media, to scare people into changing behaviour longer was a big change in thinking, but not many seemed to stop and think what the long term consequences of that would be on the population.

And the UK, and England in particular, was a lot more conservative about going down that road than many other countries. They seemed to try and mitigate it before a lot of others did, Scotland, Canada, Wales, NZ, Australia, all were under similar pressures and were more draconian in their restrictions and requirements. NZ actually prevented citizens from entering the country.

I don't think the answer will be found entirely in national politics.

@TempestTost entirely agree particularly with this

It's also the case that the accepted wisdom in public health was that you could really only get people to obey restrictions and such, in a useful way, for a very limited time. And these timelines were short, like three weeks or a month. That it was possible, with the support of the media, to scare people into changing behaviour longer was a big change in thinking, but not many seemed to stop and think what the long term consequences of that would be on the population.

bombastix · 02/11/2023 09:45

@TempestTost - now why things were done is the right question.

The evidence we are getting is not encouraging. The decision making seems superficial and press reactive. Why that was exactly is hard to know.

I do think that COVID was akin to a war in terms of impact, and perhaps worse because of the social isolation that was enabled, the academic destruction for children, and the mass of society being locked up. We all know from this week that the rules (which were in most cases not law but guidance) were for the general public and not the top of society. Was that in part because of the man at the top? Yes. He did not lead. He followed. And we all paid the price on that.

MagpiePi · 02/11/2023 09:46

Abhannmor · 02/11/2023 08:32

There was widespread public support for lockdowns and many people were dismayed at the ' Eat Out to Spread it About ' idiocy and all the stop /go nonsense.

But it is now fashionable to pretend the lockdowns were some conspiracy or moral panic. Clearly Johnson wasn't a fan but I doubt his opposition came from concern for public health. Rather his attitude to science is the same as his comment about business during Brexit : fuck it.

I agree with this that people are now saying lockdowns were unnecessary and that they didn't follow the rules anyway.
I can still remember the feeling of personal and mass anxiety when the pandemic first hit as it wasn't clear how it was spread, there were no widespread testing procedures, there was no cure or vaccines and lots and lots of people were very ill and dying and hospitals were overwhelmed.
How do these people think the NHS would have coped without lockdowns? Or do they think that it wouldn't have mattered because it would be 'other people' who would suffer?

SeaPool · 02/11/2023 09:47

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:41

Policies matter obviously

Whether a private nursery takes dc in a pandemic is entirely relevant to working women

Tory policy permanently closed around 3,600 Sure Start Childrens Centres. Of course policy matters.

EasternStandard · 02/11/2023 09:54

SeaPool · 02/11/2023 09:47

Tory policy permanently closed around 3,600 Sure Start Childrens Centres. Of course policy matters.

Really?

You go on about sure start centres from years ago but can’t see how private nurseries closing in a pandemic when women are driven to near break down from the stress of it?

Why so blinkered here. It’s too much.

BubziOwl · 02/11/2023 10:00

Aside from all the other points and situations mentioned, I really think that the things that pregnant women and new mothers had to experience during the pandemic betrays a total lack of thought let alone concern.