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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

School Stress

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ArenaDavina · 04/10/2023 14:21

I'm not very well versed in all this, <waves hands> not v brave and work in a large public sector employment context so generally keep my head down but did start reading here when the prison stuff became news.

DC came home from school and was talking with friends about a pshe lesson they'd had in which they'd had to learn about the "gender unicorn" and how it was all really contradictory and also based on stereotypes. I googled it and found a page run by TSER that had things on it like, "it's important we don't use the term sex because of the vagueness of the definition of sex and it's place in transphobia." Wtf?

The gender unicorn diagram is problematic in so many ways and seems completely bamboozling for kids.

I emailed school and asked to see the lesson plans and copy of what DC were shown and asked to do.

It's all been sent to me along with a message to say it's endorsed by Metro and PSHE Association and is compliant with Dept for Education guidance. Also included was a lesson plan about the Stonewall riots and his they were led by TW (I thought that was contested?) and a glossary that is all based on adherence to belief in gender and erases same sex attraction entirely.

The TSER page is full of campaign materials on how to fight single sex colleges in the US (it is mind blowing, truly).

I don't really know what to do now. School clearly feel this is entirely above board and presumably would defend against any complaints. It all makes me so uncomfortable.

DC is fine. Thinks it's all bonkers and has moved on quickly. I've fallen down a rabbit hole ..

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ArenaDavina · 04/10/2023 16:57

Thank you @HagoftheNorth . I've spoken to several other mums who are all of the same mind as me but no one wants to speak up.

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Kilopascal · 04/10/2023 17:07

I'd try saying to them that this Unicorn seems old-fashioned and out of step with modern terminology and methods, e.g.

'As parents, we know that sex can be detected much earlier than birth, through scans or antenatal testing. Shouldn't your resources explain that, so that the children are up to date on these things?'

'Intersex people/people with DSDs (as that is often the preferred term) are all either male or female, not some other sex. I do think your resources need to be more accurate on that as it could be very distressing for any children affected.'

ArenaDavina · 04/10/2023 18:51

Good tack, tha KS @Kilopascal

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