‘Queering’ things isn’t about representation for lesbian, gay and bi people (so it’s nothing like making sure racial minority kids can see real-life role models, fictional characters and play with toys who look like they do) it’s about normalising fringe sexual interests, moving the taboo from the margins to the mainstream. Queer Theory constantly moves the goal posts and chips away at societal and individual boundaries.
Homosexual people were historically marginalised (and still are in some parts of the world) but by all the usual metrics (education, work, property ownership, family & partnerships) homosexual people in the U.K. are no longer marginalised*, being LGor B is mainstream, which is why proponents of Queer Theory have moved on from ‘Recognise same sex partnerships in law’ to ‘There is no such thing as biological sex so who even cares about same-sex marriage? That’s for Tory Boomers!’
Queer Theory is why we’ve gone from telling little kids ‘some families have two mummies’ (entirely reasonable and age appropriate) to giving kids picture books featuring bondage grandads and having adult males dressed in women’s clothes teach toddlers to twerk in libraries.
Most LGB people think Bondage Grandad is as inappropriate for little kids as most straights do (and not all Bondage Grandads are Gay anyway, the ‘Spicy Straights’ are just as keen on using Queer Theory to normalise their kinks as the Blue Hairs are)
If Kew want to run some late night events for Bondage Grandads (straight, gay or bi) and their Allies, that’s fine, just keep it to it’s own ticketed event and stop trying to Queer the perfectly sensible boundaries society needs to keep children and vulnerable adults safe.
(*Obvs there are still day to day challenges for gay people including religious objections and prejudiced individuals but LGB people are recognised in criminal and civil law as equal to heterosexual people, as they should be)