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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I’ll ask this here too, on the other board things got weird fast: Is there like a (support) group or something I can donate to or help for single and childless women?

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OnedayTwodays · 31/08/2023 14:11

Maybe seems like a weird question, but I was wondering.
Partly because that is a group I’d like to help and partly to perhaps meet other women like me who are in a same situation and support each other.

OP posts:
BlessedKali · 01/09/2023 21:41

IwantToRetire · 01/09/2023 16:41

I'd also suggest you investigate the opportunities for improving your skills so that you have a chance of better-paid work. A charity might give you a handout once, but if you can find training and confidence-building opportunities you're set for life. Good luck.

AS said upthread and original OP. She is NOT asking for a handout. She is talking about making donations.

What a shame having posted on the "chat feminism" and got weird responses she posted on FWR and also get weird responses.

No wonder she's not been back.

I mis-understood the posts, I think the initial talk of charity and then the mention of low pay made me think this was the case. And some other users thought the same..... thank you for setting me straight on that.

BlessedKali · 01/09/2023 22:42

Op - good luck with finding a group to support or join- Filia is definitely a good place to start.... there is a conference in glasgow this year and Im sure you would definitely come across something or someone related to what you are looking for x

user9630721458 · 01/09/2023 22:58

Good idea OP. It's very hard paying all bills alone, and it's still true women earn less than men.

GarlicGrace · 02/09/2023 11:11

I read your earlier thread, too - but not all of it, as I was getting pretty irritated by the tenor of replies.

Coincidentally, I recently found this: Rent, groceries and household bills cost much more if you're alone, January 2023.

The article's about single "people" and, as others have highlighted, the situation's even worse for women due to lower earnings on average and poorer pension provision.

Text (abridged):

Single people are forced to spend £860 more a month on the cost of living than those in couples.

The cost of rent, groceries and household bills were much higher for single people living alone compared with couples, according to analysis from the broker Hargreaves Lansdown.

On average, a single person spends £1,851 per month on typical bills, but someone in a couple would spend just £991 on the same services, the broker said.

Single people were also less likely to have sufficient emergency savings, at 53pc compared with 79pc of those in relationships, a poll by Hargreaves Lansdown found. They were less likely to have enough cash left over at the end of the month to be considered financially resilient.

Sarah Coles, of Hargreaves Lansdown, said: “Single people have less in savings, and less cash left over at the end of the month. They pay the price over the long term too, because they’re less likely to be building equity in a property or saving enough to be on track for a moderate retirement income.”

“Even the tax system seems stacked against you,” she added. “There are specific tax breaks for people who are married or in civil partnerships, from the marriage allowance to the fact there is no inheritance tax on assets passed between spouses after death, or capital gains tax on assets passed while you’re alive."

Revealed: the true cost of being single

Rent, groceries and household bills cost much more if you're alone

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/money/consumer-affairs/revealed-true-cost-single

Signalbox · 02/09/2023 19:21

Hi OP. There’s Lighthouse Women (was Gateway Women). They have a forum and organise meet-ups (you do have to pay but if you are on a low income you can join for free). Sadly they do also allow men who ID as women to join so it’s not strictly women only.

There’s also an app called happyandchildless but not sure if it’s any good. It’s only been available for about a year.

https://www.happyandchildless.co.uk/happy-and-childless-app/

Happy & Childless App – Happy and Childless

https://www.happyandchildless.co.uk/happy-and-childless-app/

AlisonDonut · 02/09/2023 20:43

OP I am not single but am childless by choice and I wasn't sure what your other thread was getting at so I didn't respond.

But my main piece of advice would be to be clear about who you want to help and why, and don't give away more than you can afford [and I'm not talking about money here].

None of us know what is around the corner and giving away too much [and here I am talking about money] may well put yourself at risk so by all means get involved with different support groups if you can find what it is you are looking for.

GarlicGrace · 02/09/2023 21:14

Oh I love this, @Forwarder ! That whole kindly yet no-nonsense tone of let's get on with it, stop whining, it'll be fun! It so echoes my grandmothers & great-aunts (young adults in that era), many of whom did live alone. I've put them in my saved basket 😍

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