I hate to in any way nourish the under-bridge dweller but I am fascinated by the role Mumsnet plays on the rest of the internet. How did he find out about this thread?? (And what tempts him to post? Slow day at Pornhub??!!)
@DarkDayforMN "You don't get many AGPs in societies where women's roles are heavily restricted."
I think the display of AGP-looking behaviour among a small number of Roman emperors and European monarchs and aristocrats suggests nascent AGP is always around but men will only indulge the fetish if they're secure in not losing priviledges by doing so.
@FlirtsWithRhinos "I didn't realise the degree of difference until I saw the elite sportswomen vs high school boys stats on here."
I might be a similar age to you, because I was very influenced by similar media. I remember telling a (male) friend in high school (mid 90s) how cool I thought a scene from a movie was in which a woman nocks out a bloke with one punch. He tried to explain to me how long and hard blokes train to deliver blows like that, and, even then, a punch strong enough to knock another person out will break the striker's hand. So the scene we watched was in no way realistic. I thought it was nothing but sexism talking. What broke the spell for me was when I was studying nursing, I saw a table of average grip strength divided by ages and sex. The highest for females was in our 30s, it wasn't matched by males until their 70's. For some reason, that fact cut through so much bs and I felt the relief of, I don't have to pretend men aren't stronger than women any more. Actually, writing this now, I wonder if the Hollywood-fuelled fantasy wasn't a defence mechanism, an attempt to make the world feel safer?
@PorcelinaV "But the average conservative would just think that such a thing is unnatural and isn't going to work. If you're gender noncomforming that's just how it is, and you aren't going to be able to successfully fulfil the role of the opposite sex."
When you say conservatives will think, "That's just how it is," do you mean that they will (reluctantly?) accept the gender nonconformer as she or he is? And not exert pressure to change, or social rejection?
"It is the social and psychological dimension for why single sex spaces here are a good thing I think."
I think you're onto something, but I haven't come to any conclusion about what those social and psychological goods are yet.
@Rudderneck "People who take this approach tend to think the goal is to see equal numbers of men and women in all employment sectors, social groups, and so on."
The way I would describe the feminist position would be to say, for example, it's not sexism that results in there being many more female teachers and nurses than male, but it would be sexism for a careers advisor to only highlight teaching and nursing degrees for a female high schooler. Because at an individual level the population-wide patterns don't necessarily apply. What you've described above I'm beginning to think maybe that comes from the DEI grift.