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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Ramblingnamechanger · 15/07/2023 14:10

I don’t mind if they have one. However this all needs to be tackled at a grass roots level. But at least they don’t have to waste time by using ridiculous language and can identify exactly the type of people that will need and use services.

ManuelBensonsLeftBoot · 15/07/2023 14:11

I don't, in theory, see anything wrong with addressing men issues. If it was a man saying well there is a minister for women so we should get one for men it would be a different story. Ignoring toxic masculinity hasn't made it go away so perhaps it time it was addressed and a minister for men is one possibly. How often do we say something isn't women's problem to solve?

NumberTheory · 15/07/2023 14:19

I think there are male specific areas of policy that need addressing and a specific person high up in government tasked with ensuring they don’t get brushed under the carpet might be one way to tackle that. But setting up a Minister of Men makes it seem like men are just as hard done by in government as women and undermines the efforts to address women’s lack of power in the public sphere (and yes, despite several female PMs, there is definitely still a lack of power for women in the public sphere).

AutumnCrow · 15/07/2023 14:21

Dennis Noel Kavanagh might do it.

SerendipityJane · 15/07/2023 14:21

Personally I was hoping for a Harry Hill fight to settle it all ...

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ResisterRex · 15/07/2023 14:34

Great. They can "expand the bandwidth" of what it means to be male and make space for all the AGPs

Boiledbeetle · 15/07/2023 14:38

ResisterRex · 15/07/2023 14:34

Great. They can "expand the bandwidth" of what it means to be male and make space for all the AGPs

Yep! Obviously men need a Minster for men for different reasons than women need a minister for women, but I think it's a position that could be used for good.

Why are transwomen so scared to go in male spaces? That can be their first task to teach those men who don't understand, that a man who dresses and thinks differently to them is to be embraced and welcomed despite any discomfort the men may feel.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 15/07/2023 15:00

I'm all for it. Feminists may have been the first to start questioning sex stereotypes and gender roles, but we understood pretty quickly these things harm both sexes. Elevating women out of sexism isn't a zero-sum game where what we gain, men lose, it's a win/win where both sexes work together to replace sexist structures, escape harmful gender roles and fulfill their real potential.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 15/07/2023 15:06

Potentially good as long as it is someone who can work well with the minister for women and not a Dominic Raab type who thinks feminism has gone too far.

LlynTegid · 15/07/2023 15:12

Men's health issues do need someone to champion them (levels of male suicide, men often not seeking medical attention until too late, for example). Those who suffer the impact of these issues are often women (the bereaved widow or partner) and any children.

Not sure a minister may be the best way to do this.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 15/07/2023 15:15

I thought every minister was a minister for men.

WallaceinAnderland · 15/07/2023 15:47

I think it's a great idea. I was shocked to read that 13 men a day commit suicide.

I would love to see toxic masculinity tackled in schools, for boys to learn that they need to be respectful to women and to people more vulnerable that them. They do need great role models.

Privileged men need to understand what it is that makes them privileged. That they hold all the power so they need to have empathy and support each other rather than competing against each other to make the country a better place for everyone.

Toxic masculinity is currently in all our political parties. Self serving politicians are causing havoc to our society. Aside from this article, I have long thought that both boys and girls should be taught politics as a career choice and what they could do for our country. That way, we might get a better standard of human in future governments instead of all these current entitled men.

Also I loved the clarity of language in that article and that when they say sex, they mean sex.

Froodwithatowel · 15/07/2023 16:03

Go for it. Men's health is a good focus.

GinJarRogers · 06/09/2023 21:12

Has anyone listened to the Woman’s Hour debates on this issue this week?
While I have sympathy with the argument that all ministers are ministers for men, I also think there are big issues facing men that I would like to see them deal with, rather than leave it to women - like levels of male violence.

Abhannmor · 06/09/2023 21:49

Male anger / violence. Suicide. Men's Health. Sexual Health and education. Why not?

ArabeIIaScott · 06/09/2023 22:19

Good idea.

LoobiJee · 06/09/2023 22:40

YetAnotherSpartacus · 15/07/2023 15:15

I thought every minister was a minister for men.

Indeed, perhaps the Minister for Men could look at all the government policies that have been designed around “the default male” and ensure that the same proportion of men are disadvantaged by them as the proportion of women they disadvantage?

Nick Fletcher said “It’s fantastic that women have got the opportunity that men have got nowadays,” he said. “But I think there’s an awful lot of men out there who do feel undervalued, they don’t feel as though they’ve got a place in society anymore… whether that’s at work or at home.”

Do these men feel undervalued by the gender pay gap perhaps? Or do they feel undervalued by being over-represented in the House of Commons, in the judiciary, in senior management roles, in televised sporting events, on TV comedy panel shows, on TV and radio discussions of women’s rights? Or do they feel undervalued by being prevented from doing less than their fair share of domestic chores?

youkiddingme · 06/09/2023 23:07

I like this in the same way I like men's football and women's football, as opposed to football and women's football. Let's kick the whole idea of the default into touch. Time they stopped yelling, what about us at every issue raised by women and looked to putting their own spade work in.

LoobiJee · 06/09/2023 23:32

youkiddingme · 06/09/2023 23:07

I like this in the same way I like men's football and women's football, as opposed to football and women's football. Let's kick the whole idea of the default into touch. Time they stopped yelling, what about us at every issue raised by women and looked to putting their own spade work in.

Great in theory. But what issues do you imagine they’ll be “putting the spadework” into? Who’s going to be first in the queue hammering at the Minister for Men’s door, and what euphemisms will they be using in order to market their male entitlement goals to the public in a more palatable way?
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First up will be “reproductive justice” - ensuring that males without a female partner can benefit from IVF services without experiencing any disadvantage compared to females without a male partner - aka enabling males in the UK to access ‘gestational carrier services’ without suffering the inconvenience and cost of travelling abroad to purchase access to an overseas woman’s body.

Then there’s Tatchell who would no doubt resurrect his long-standing campaign for adults who have sex with adolescents under 16years to not be considered child rapists if they persuade the child to regard the adult as their boyfriend.

The fathers for a kick about in the park and a MaccyD when it’s convenient F4J crowd would be right in there as well, of course.

There’ll be (even more) demands for women’s refuges etc to be made available to males, of course.

BarelyLiterate · 06/09/2023 23:40

I agree with her. If women have a minister in government to (in theory) represent their interests, so should men.
Health issues should be a particular focus, because conditions which affect men (eg prostate cancer) generally get less attention than those which affect women (eg beast cancer).

Tukmgru · 06/09/2023 23:45

This would be 99% Fathers For Justice talking points and 1% actual male issues.

Tukmgru · 06/09/2023 23:49

BarelyLiterate · 06/09/2023 23:40

I agree with her. If women have a minister in government to (in theory) represent their interests, so should men.
Health issues should be a particular focus, because conditions which affect men (eg prostate cancer) generally get less attention than those which affect women (eg beast cancer).

@BarelyLiterate i can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not? You’re certainly not a health professional of any stripe. Prostate screening is a routine part of healthcare, as is breast screening. We can all argue that there should be more of these things, and earlier, but you’re either shitstirring, pisstaking, or a genuine moron for what you’ve said.

Maddy70 · 06/09/2023 23:51

Great idea. What's wrong with that? Someone who represents half of the voters should be represented as should women

DrBlackbird · 07/09/2023 08:33

I was shocked to read that 13 men a day commit suicide.

More women attempt suicide compared to men (McManus et al., 2016). More men complete their suicide attempts due to the violent methods they use.

After listening to it, I hoped there’d be more on this thread given the minister for men idea being discussed on Woman’s Hour over the last two days to see what others thought about this private member’s bill.

The MP is right in that seemingly there’s a crisis amongst boys and young men. He would see that up north more. However there’s also a taint of whataboutery* in his arguments that is, IMO, wrong and unhelpful because it’s predicated on a binary and possibly zero sum game. Going down that path could see services for boys/men being diverted from services for girls/women.

But… there is definitely something going badly wrong for boys and young men.

However, Isn’t the crisis for men more due to our late modernity form of capitalism? It’s all about the money (or lack of it). Widening inequalities along with offshoring of jobs, closing of manufacturing, increasing automation in the last 40 years has meant fewer jobs that were dominated by men. Plus, less funding for extracurricular spaces for boys to be active. Austerity has seen school’s playing fields sold off, community centres and youth services shut down, sports and arts are the first to be cut in schools. The price of a sporting event (premier football!) has skyrocketed.

That boys turn to the internet and watch violent porn and are influenced by the likes of Andrew Tate is no surprise. That’s also all about the money, specifically for our tech firms whose algorithms promote misogynistic violent content to get more clicks and keep boys on the webpage for longer whatever it takes and the owners of the likes of Only Fans who’ve found a way to get filthy rich by being the platform middle men.

I can’t see how a minister for men would convince the whole of the government/parliament to do its job and stop creating tax policies and subsidies that serve the narrow, vested interests of the financial elite and look to do a proper job of levelling up? Or convince the curriculum specialists and the minister for education that the educational reforms and relentless test culture are failing young boys?

IF such a minister took on those challenges, great. But I’m not holding my breath.

*Dr Jessica Taylor wrote a brilliant article on whataboutery that is no longer available without permission because of the misogynistic threats of violence against her for writing a book about victim blaming.

Author of book about victim blaming bombarded with misogynist abuse

Dr Jessica Taylor has been speaking about her book Why Women are Blamed for Everything, but has received thousands of abusive messages and had her computer hacked

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/apr/24/author-book-victim-blaming-misogynist-abuse-jessica-taylor

stealtheatingtunnocks · 07/09/2023 09:46

Maybe they could look at the impact of telling millions of white boys that they and their privilege are the problem in society? Even if those boys come from deprived, chaotic, or difficult backgrounds they are to “check their privilege” and atone for inequalities others suffer. Class affects men, of course it does.

and, FFS, do something about porn. It’s breaking men, sending them totally mad ans making billions of pounds. It’s as much of a problem as alcohol and gambling for men, and it messes up their erections and that messes up their minds.

men have specific sex based issues which are not given attention and ruins lives.

id probably get a woman to be the minister though. A nice matronly type who takes none of their nonsense. Hattie Jaques, she’d sort the likes of pornhub out in a jiffy. “Now, now, we both know that you must prevent children from finding this material and do you mean to tell me you exist in order to make profit from sexual assaults?”