I was shocked to read that 13 men a day commit suicide.
More women attempt suicide compared to men (McManus et al., 2016). More men complete their suicide attempts due to the violent methods they use.
After listening to it, I hoped there’d be more on this thread given the minister for men idea being discussed on Woman’s Hour over the last two days to see what others thought about this private member’s bill.
The MP is right in that seemingly there’s a crisis amongst boys and young men. He would see that up north more. However there’s also a taint of whataboutery* in his arguments that is, IMO, wrong and unhelpful because it’s predicated on a binary and possibly zero sum game. Going down that path could see services for boys/men being diverted from services for girls/women.
But… there is definitely something going badly wrong for boys and young men.
However, Isn’t the crisis for men more due to our late modernity form of capitalism? It’s all about the money (or lack of it). Widening inequalities along with offshoring of jobs, closing of manufacturing, increasing automation in the last 40 years has meant fewer jobs that were dominated by men. Plus, less funding for extracurricular spaces for boys to be active. Austerity has seen school’s playing fields sold off, community centres and youth services shut down, sports and arts are the first to be cut in schools. The price of a sporting event (premier football!) has skyrocketed.
That boys turn to the internet and watch violent porn and are influenced by the likes of Andrew Tate is no surprise. That’s also all about the money, specifically for our tech firms whose algorithms promote misogynistic violent content to get more clicks and keep boys on the webpage for longer whatever it takes and the owners of the likes of Only Fans who’ve found a way to get filthy rich by being the platform middle men.
I can’t see how a minister for men would convince the whole of the government/parliament to do its job and stop creating tax policies and subsidies that serve the narrow, vested interests of the financial elite and look to do a proper job of levelling up? Or convince the curriculum specialists and the minister for education that the educational reforms and relentless test culture are failing young boys?
IF such a minister took on those challenges, great. But I’m not holding my breath.
*Dr Jessica Taylor wrote a brilliant article on whataboutery that is no longer available without permission because of the misogynistic threats of violence against her for writing a book about victim blaming.