This is the way I see it.
If this was the US, with the binary choice being Trump Stolen Vote/QAnon/Ban all abortions/handguns for teens/pull all support for Ukraine candidate versus Biden opposite of all this but extending trans rights, I would absolutely be mentally tortured.
Vote to ban all abortions incl rape/incest/mother at risk versus vote to normalise teen medicalisation...what a toxic Hobson's Choice.
We don't have this dilemma.
If this was a rerun of 1997, you knew Starmer was going to transform UK public services as Blair did versus a clapped out faux
"Family Values" John Major-led Tory party who presided over millions of repossessions, absolutely make every family significantly better off, but was going to also "streamline" trans policy, again it would kill me to vote against Starmer.
But 2024 in UK is not 2016/2020/2024 US, nor is it going to be similar to 1997 UK.
Starmer is promising to be just a bit more competent than the Tories, just a bit less corrupt, just a bit better at managing, just a little less chaotic.
There's no boldness in policies to re-nationalise water or give total protection to whistleblowers in the NHS. Or create a really progessive National Care Service. Or properly skew the tax system to reward families. Or get to grips with significant housebuilding.
There's nothing. Indeed I know someone who has a policy adviser daughter who has some deep knowledge on internal Labour Party dialog.
They are shit scared of winning the election, they know within moments the scale of the issues will overwhelm, and the left schisms will open up, whether public service unions looking to screw the govt, a la 1970s strikes and pay demands, or leviathan expectations of NHS, or Corbynista wing opening up old scabs and sores.
This is not 1997, when there was cash awash in the economy, and the best possible circumstances for Labour to transform public services, and Blair's iron grip on the Left (rolling over Clause Four totally castrated his internal critics).
If Starmer thinks that his push to drive out Corbyn and anti semitism in the party gives him Blair levels of omnipotence against the Momentum wing, he's in for a big suprise.
Just watch Starmer on Laura Kuensberg's show last Sunday. This is not a man showing any confidence or relish for the job ahead.
And I'm going to vote for him, knowing that despite all those issues, he will still find time and motivation to enact social change hobbling women and girls in perpetuity?
I don't think so.