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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ulster Rugby banned from Belfast Pride

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AfingeroffudgeisNOTenough · 07/07/2023 15:51

BBC News Article here

Ulster Rugby have been banned from taking part in Belfast Pride because of the IRUF policy on not allowing male born players in the women’s teams.

I so hope Ulster Rugby stand proud in this exclusion - they are 100% in the right here. SUFTUW

Rainbow and trans flags

Ulster Rugby excluded from Pride over trans ban - BBC News

The move is due to an IRFU ban on transgender women in female contact rugby.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-northern-ireland-66133519.amp

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QueenHippolyta · 07/07/2023 17:40

Ulster Rugby can march separately with the old-fashioned Lesbians, the ones without the cocks.
I am quite unsporty but I've been to an all women rugby match. Cheers to fit sporty lesbians!

Pudmyboy · 07/07/2023 17:47

For what it's worth I can see how someone might think it's homophobic to suggest a gay person hasn't seen sport before. I think "sobbing into the pillow" is also borderline homophobic too, given the proximity to "biting the pillow".
'Sobbing into the pillow' is a well known phrase, especially in Mills and Boon, 'biting the pillow': much more niche.
Sounds like looking really hard to find something to flag up

Pudmyboy · 07/07/2023 17:49

Oops accidentally posted instead of editing!
Meant to say: seems like really looking hard for something to flag up when there isn't actually anything to flag up

fdgdfgdfgdfg · 07/07/2023 18:06
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PuttingDownRoots · 07/07/2023 18:45

Rugby rules are increasing strict for safety. My 10yo is no longer able to play for her mixed team for example... if 10yos, who have yet to enter puberty, can't play mixed Rugby, I'm not sure how they could justify adult transitioners playing with women.

elgreco · 07/07/2023 19:41

Anyway it was suggested thatUlster Rugby was crying into their pillow rather than Pride....

OvaHere · 07/07/2023 19:53

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WTF?

It's a well known sarcastic phrase. It's a stretch to take it to where you did.

Can I still say 'It's a stretch' or is there some double meaning to that too?

INeedAnotherName · 07/07/2023 20:03

I think "sobbing into the pillow" is also borderline homophobic too, given the proximity to "biting the pillow".

Where have you been for the past fifty years? The first is a very very common phrase. The second, not so much.

NitroNine · 30/07/2023 02:10

BelTel’s coverage of the event thoughtfully included a reminder of the ban; & of PSNI having been refused permission to attend in uniform.

”We’re going to ban all the sporting groups that follow rule changes to keep women safe.” is a fairly astonishing thing to say, let alone turn into a mission statement, but once again 🤷‍♀️

Really hoping the GAA - well, LGFA - cop on soon: they’ve an absolute nonsense of a policy that pretty much amounts to testosterone reduction & positive thinking. Obviously you’re not meant to belt the opposition (nor indeed your teammates) with your hurley in camoghie but accidents happen - & even a permitted contact tackle (you’re allowed to sort of bump sides with an opponent if they’ve the sliotar & it’s an attempt to gain possession; but you mustn’t be “aggressive or cynical”) would be very different coming from someone of the opposite sex.

Responses on Twitter to the BelTel article I posted suggested the organisers might be overestimating level of support.

Belfast Pride in pictures: Organisers say Stand By Your Trans theme ‘really resonated’

One of the organisers of the Belfast Pride parade has said this year’s message of Stand by Your Trans “really resonated with people” as thousands took to the streets for the city’s largest ever parade.

https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/belfast-pride-in-pictures-organisers-say-stand-by-your-trans-theme-really-resonated/a1894815923.html

Rudderneck · 30/07/2023 05:42

I wonder how difficult Pride organizations are going to find it to turn away from these kinds of decisions, when it becomes clear how inappropriate they are?

In my town, the Pride group repudiated the local library, because they would not get rid of Shrier's book. Which of course shows a basic misunderstanding of the mission of libraries. The library itself bent over backwards to accommodate, even going so far as to include a bookmark with suggestions for other more :balanced" books with Shrier's book. (Which is totally inappropriate actually.)

IamSTARVING · 30/07/2023 05:49

LiOLeary · 07/07/2023 16:53

You said "I really can't believe that anyone in Belfast Pride has ever watched a rugby match"

That has nothing to do with your previous statement about their exclusion from Pride for whatever reason.

Oh stop it @ LioLeary

It is perfectly clear what the poster is saying.

nettie434 · 30/07/2023 20:18

Thanks IamSTARVING. I appreciate that!

ArcticSkewer · 30/07/2023 20:21

NecessaryScene · 07/07/2023 17:12

Ok you're saying that of all the organizers of Pride (12 members with a wide variety of backgrounds), no one watches rugby - you have zero way to know that and it absolute plays into a stereotype of gay people.

There are two possibilities here.

  1. They have watched rugby and nevertheless, knowing what it looks like, think women should be forced to play against men.
  2. They haven't watched rugby so they don't understand that it's a full-contact sport. Someone will show it to them and they'll reconsider.

Nettie34 is very generously trying to think the best of the organisers, and saying she believes it must be 2.

You're insisting it must be 1, which is likely true, but Nettie doesn't want to think that badly of anyone.

Whereas you are very clear they're a bunch of utter misogynist shits who hate women. That's not very nice, you know. And plays into a stereotype of gay men, to boot. Naughty.

😂

duc748 · 30/07/2023 22:54

I realise many people take no interest in sport whatsoever, but nevertheless, isn't it vanishingly unlikely that any adult in the UK "doesn't know what rugby is like"? It's on the telly, not just sport programmes, the national news during World Cups and Six Nations. And they don't know anyone, friends, family, colleagues, who play the sports or take in interest in them?

Rudderneck · 30/07/2023 23:17

I took that comment to be a little tongue in cheek.

That being said, sometimes people who are very non-sporty don't really get the differernce between male and female performance. Like that woman talking about Serena Williams in the US.

RealityFan · 30/07/2023 23:25

Keep the stories coming. The froth expands as the lemmings run en masse to the cliff edge.

The public are being peaked. And the TRAs are peaking themselves.

Can any of them genuinely say that a decade ago they really we're happy to let hulking great men into women's sport to potentially seriously injure, and even kill?

I believe very very few. But the herd mentality and purity spirals are now so OTT and unhinged that it's now a badge of honour to accept nothing less than grinding girls and women into the ground.

duc748 · 30/07/2023 23:57

I watch rugby (league) most weekends. Last weekend I watched both men and women playing live. The very idea of men (and some of those guys are 120 kg plus) playing against women is so clearly unconscionable, it's hard to imagine anyone would countenance such an idea.

1dayatatime · 31/07/2023 00:08

duc748 · 30/07/2023 23:57

I watch rugby (league) most weekends. Last weekend I watched both men and women playing live. The very idea of men (and some of those guys are 120 kg plus) playing against women is so clearly unconscionable, it's hard to imagine anyone would countenance such an idea.

Ahh but the right and feelings of trans men identifying as women and therefore the right to be included by playing women's rugby trumps the right of women players not to face serious physical injury potentially permanent by playing 120kg biological males.

duc748 · 31/07/2023 00:20

Well as I understand it, the authorities in both rugby codes are clear that no men can play against women. And now, more girls are being encouraged to play, and the women's' game is taking off as it has in football. But who'd want their daughters playing against blokes?

IamSTARVING · 31/07/2023 03:33

nettie434 · 30/07/2023 20:18

Thanks IamSTARVING. I appreciate that!

😘

Codlingmoths · 31/07/2023 03:42

NecessaryScene · 07/07/2023 17:12

Ok you're saying that of all the organizers of Pride (12 members with a wide variety of backgrounds), no one watches rugby - you have zero way to know that and it absolute plays into a stereotype of gay people.

There are two possibilities here.

  1. They have watched rugby and nevertheless, knowing what it looks like, think women should be forced to play against men.
  2. They haven't watched rugby so they don't understand that it's a full-contact sport. Someone will show it to them and they'll reconsider.

Nettie34 is very generously trying to think the best of the organisers, and saying she believes it must be 2.

You're insisting it must be 1, which is likely true, but Nettie doesn't want to think that badly of anyone.

Whereas you are very clear they're a bunch of utter misogynist shits who hate women. That's not very nice, you know. And plays into a stereotype of gay men, to boot. Naughty.

Thanks for explaining this so clearly. Given the lack of comeback from a poster who simply couldn’t let go before, I guess they aren’t totally comfortable admitting that yes they do think the pride organisers are misogynist shits and they’d like to continue policing mumsnet boards to defend the rights of pride organisers everywhere to be misogynist shits.
if you come back to this thread @LiOLeary please start here. Don’t come back and just pick new fights because you don’t want to address this.

Grammarnut · 31/07/2023 08:49

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Grammarnut · 31/07/2023 08:50

Why is there no editing button on here?

BezMills · 31/07/2023 09:14

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