I expected my straight friends to always come to Pride - this year, just one is
Six years later, just one friend is coming with me to Pride in London today. I know that people make plans way ahead in advance and some might be on holiday, but I can’t help but wonder if people just don’t support the cause in the way they used to.
And I’m not the only person that feels this way. A gay man and trans woman I regularly see at Pride events will be travelling as a party of two this year, whereas they are usually also joined by straight and cis friends.
In the years since my starting party of eight has fluctuated as I’ve attended Pride events. But a strong three or four of my closest friends always jump at the chance to don their brightest apparel and celebrate love in the streets.
When I realised it was just one this year, I felt disappointed, my heart sunk. That’s because – now more than ever – I think we need our allies to show up for us.
I expected my straight friends to always come to Pride - this year, just one is (msn.com)
I'm only posting this because there seems to be a huge gap in the writer's expectations that other people's lives should centre round him, but he never indicates (as he might have done) that he has turned up for a women's demonstration, or one for disabled people. Intentionally or not, he conveys the prevelant notion that they are the cerntre of the universe and everyone else's lives are secondary.
(I did try and comment on line, but MSN just says the app that lets me sign up isn't working. There was so much I wanted to say to him!)