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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
drspouse · 02/06/2023 15:22

Did anyone watch Rain Dogs, with Costello and her friend doing OnlyFans for men with a battered-woman fetish?

Backstreets · 02/06/2023 15:35

That blithe disregard for vulnerable women. The fact I'm nostalgic for the days when ZW was just thick and boring.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 02/06/2023 15:36

She's not a nice person. I remember seeing her lolling about "terfs" with abusive Twitter troll CursedE.

Heliotroper · 02/06/2023 16:37

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2023 12:51

The blithe, dumb privilege of women like Zoe seriously gets on my tits.

I have always thought she comes across as a snob, the sort of guardianista who believes themselves inherently benevolent but loses patience with anyone who dares disagree.

viques · 02/06/2023 17:01

Theladyinluna · 01/06/2023 20:17

Quite.

I think her reasoning is

a) but they want to be there

b) but they want to be there

c)but they want to be there

The reasons why someone accused of a sexual offence would claim that they are a woman and demand to be accommodated in the womens estate seem to have passed her by.

Catiette · 02/06/2023 17:20

More holes than a Swiss cheese in her reasoning, as others point out above.

I've read and reread, trying to approach it as objectively as possible... and each time finish wondering how it got published. Content aside, there's the ambiguous language, chaotic structure, and such blatantly problematic use of statistics that it feels pretty generous to attribute this to the usual selective misrepresentation, but does rather come across as if she's just a bit confused. It adds up to being a very weak piece indeed, to the extent that, for any thinking reader still on the fence, I honestly think it may be more likely to convert them to our way of thinking than her own...

Greyandwhitecat · 02/06/2023 17:20

I have found it extraordinary how naive so many women have turned out to be in this debate.

TheBiologyStupid · 03/06/2023 20:46

megletthesecond · 01/06/2023 18:39

I used to think she was smart and a feminist. How wrong I was.

Yes, she's such a bloody disappointment these days.

FrancescaContini · 03/06/2023 20:54

Stopped reading as soon as I read the “c” word in the article.

NatashaDancing · 10/06/2023 23:27

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 01/06/2023 18:32

I had my eye roll ready, as soon as I saw her name 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Life's too short to spare any time on the "thoughts" of Zoe Williams.

NatashaDancing · 10/06/2023 23:34

MorrisZapp · 01/06/2023 21:18

I've followed this absolute roaster's career from her days writing 'columns' for Now magazine. She. Cannot. Write.

She cannot persuade. She rambles. She refers to her husband and kid as R and P, so the nefarious reader can't crack the code.

Her Guardian meanderings about having a baby were eye stabbingly embarrassing. No first time mother should be given the nations ear, it's cruel to them and to us.

And now she's a trans pally fanny. Of course she is. Her continued employment is an affront to anyone required to work for a living.

My sister hates her too.

Great post.

AutumnCrow · 10/06/2023 23:44

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2023 12:51

The blithe, dumb privilege of women like Zoe seriously gets on my tits.

'Of all the preposterous assumptions of humanity over humanity, nothing exceeds most of the criticisms made on the habits of the poor by the well-housed, well- warmed, and well-fed.'

I heard this this Herman Melville quote earlier on, on the telly, and it reminded me of Owen Jones and Zoe Williams opining about female prisoners.

I'd rather have Elizabeth Fry's views, thank you. In fact surely the espousal of the work of Elizabeth Fry on sex segregation in prisons is due a revival?

IcakethereforeIam · 11/06/2023 00:13

I managed 7 minutes, then Williams started again. Was she drunk? I had to bail.

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Redshoeblueshoe · 11/06/2023 00:34

Drunk ?
Has anyone seen her sober ?

bluebeardswife7 · 11/06/2023 01:15

PonyPatter44 · 01/06/2023 19:40

Transwomen offenders don't belong in womens prisons. Firstly because such a high proportion of TW offenders are convicted sex offenders. Secondly, because a thumping majority of women in prison have been victims of male violence, and their right to live in a safe and decent environment has to trump the feelings of one or two male prisoners, no matter how strong those feelings may be.

Transwomen prisoners are kept safe in the male estate. The vast majority of them live on Vulnerable Prisoner wings, or in designated sex offender prisons. This concentration of TW prisoners can cause its own set of problems, but they don't affect or concern women prisoners.

Transmen are suitably kept in the female estate, and I can't ever see that changing. Noone would want to sign off the board that put a transman into the male estate and they turn up brutally raped. You may well ask why the same reasoning that won't put transmen into the male estate can't be applied to prevent transwomen even being considered for the female estate...

That is what I would have said if I was quicker and more articulate.

Abhannmor · 11/06/2023 06:41

Ikr @MorrisZapp . A whole article about her husband being younger and prettier than her. A carnival of cringe. Would have been OK in Cosmopolitan circa 1973. Maybe.

Perhaps if she stuck to such vacuous wittering she'd just be irrelevant rather than insufferable.

TheAntiGardener · 11/06/2023 06:58

NotBadConsidering · 01/06/2023 21:36

This seems pretty obviously prejudicial: no cis man would accept his essential nature being extrapolated from that of a male sexual offender.

What?! What the hell is she talking about? Men do exactly this. This is why men - the good, normal ones - don’t go into women’s spaces, like changing rooms or toilets because they accept that the bad men - the male sex offenders - are the ones that do that. Men accept that their essential nature as men as a class, not as an individual, is defined by all the bad things bad men do. And most men have absolutely no issue with it.

This struck me too. What she is describing as prejudicial (and theoretical only) is the basis on which until very recently it was an unremarkable and common sense position for feminists to support separate sex spaces for certain activities.

However, I imagine Zoe would come at that argument with a line about how separating the sexes is based on old-fashioned sexist notions as I have seen TRAs argue before. Because it’s so progressive to wish away the danger that males as a class pose. It’s infuriating.

PriOn1 · 11/06/2023 07:12

At 12:18 in the video, Zoe claims that the prison rules changed in 2019 and that people with penises are no longer allowed in the women’s estate.

That’s a lie, but nobody challenges her.

PriOn1 · 11/06/2023 07:18

She repeats her lie very clearly at 13:25 and remains unchallenged, yet there are obvious cases, Rapist Bryson being the most obvious, that fully intact men are still being shoved in the women’s estate.

No wonder she can defend her views - she is breathtakingly ignorant.

WhereAreWeNow · 11/06/2023 07:33

Oh god. I had to stop watching. ZW's heckling and aggressive tone was unbearable.
I used to like her years ago but I can't read any of the fluffy lifestyle articles she writes for the Guardian now.
She does come across as drunk in this clip.

PriOn1 · 11/06/2023 07:42

Zoe also repeats some garbled disinformation towards the end about women’s football being stopped because the women were better than the men and showing them up. The women’s game might have been popular enough to threaten the popularity of the men’s game, but the women, then as now, could not have beaten the men if they had played against them.

Unfortunately those defending women’s rights in the clip are not well enough informed to debate factually and clearly. I would love to see an informed journalist such as Helen Joyce on there. She would have taken Zoe’s misinformed stance apart.

Still at least, for once, it isn’t four men discussing the topic.

OldCrone · 11/06/2023 08:00

Unfortunately those defending women’s rights in the clip are not well enough informed to debate factually and clearly. I would love to see an informed journalist such as Helen Joyce on there. She would have taken Zoe’s misinformed stance apart.

Ella Whelan's quite well informed, but Zoe keeps interrupting her every time she speaks. Then near the end, when Ella tries to interrupt Zoe to correct her, Zoe tells her to 'pipe down for one second' so that she can continue her incoherent and nonsensical rant. Helen Joyce might have done better, but only if she'd been given the chance to speak without being constantly interrupted and shouted over.

Zoe understands nothing because she's never shut up for long enough to hear the other side.

FrancescaContini · 11/06/2023 08:02

Thanks for linking to this video. ZW’s body language shows she’s nervous, agitated, even angry at times. The other three women remain impressively composed in the face of her (self-involved, non) argument.

PriOn1 · 11/06/2023 08:42

OldCrone · 11/06/2023 08:00

Unfortunately those defending women’s rights in the clip are not well enough informed to debate factually and clearly. I would love to see an informed journalist such as Helen Joyce on there. She would have taken Zoe’s misinformed stance apart.

Ella Whelan's quite well informed, but Zoe keeps interrupting her every time she speaks. Then near the end, when Ella tries to interrupt Zoe to correct her, Zoe tells her to 'pipe down for one second' so that she can continue her incoherent and nonsensical rant. Helen Joyce might have done better, but only if she'd been given the chance to speak without being constantly interrupted and shouted over.

Zoe understands nothing because she's never shut up for long enough to hear the other side.

She did have time to dispute the twice-repeated lie, but to be fair to her, when confronted with a bare-faced lie, it takes huge confidence and presence of mind to challenge it. It would be easy to end up on the back foot, wondering if you had missed such a change, when Bryson was a very clear example that (in Scotland at least) no such amendment to the rules has occurred.

My previous comment was perhaps unfair. Outright lies, presented confidently, are very difficult to challenge. Those willing to lie can, unfortunately, sway entire debates and it is a pity this one was not pointed out as it might well make a difference to how people judge the situation.