You can dress how you like, have whatever hairstyle you like and call yourself whatever you like - you can even have surgery and take hormones - your biological sex will still be blindingly obvious in almost every case
I agree. But we ordinary folk are so polite we wouldn't say so. Which leads TW to think that they're passing. Which is pretty unfair to them tbh because it's misleading them into a false sense of security. But what can you do? Ignore the fact that it's obvious? and just play the game for the sake of politeness? So in day to day life they 'pass' (because we're all being polite)?
but when push comes to shove and it's a matter of fairness, then you have to call it?
I work alongside a TW. And I know it. But it's never been said.
Does s/he know I know? I don't know. hard to say. Either s/he knows I'm playing along with it, or thinks s/he's passing!!? I don't know which it is. I'm late 60s. I don't care a jot because it makes no difference to me.
If I was an elite woman cyclist I'd be shouting from the rooftops.
No need to try to 'out' my work colleague because that doesn't matter at all. We are both doing the same job. Retail staff is all we are and we can do our job just as well with a vagina or a penis. All our customers can see he's a man in a frock and a wig and that makes him happy. But it really doesn't matter. Not to anybody. Although it's obvious to everybody.
But if your life ambition is to be an Olympian, then it really, really does matter so very very much. Physical prowess in men has always exceeded that of women. They are stronger and faster. It's biological fact. Perhaps because women are winning the fight to be more equal in today's world, this is the pushback?
Perhaps these people have been indulged too much as children. Who knows?
Whatever it is, they're on a loser.