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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

First ever housing only for women

109 replies

Theeyeballsinthesky · 28/04/2023 14:58

Will naturally include men

it will include TW (men) but not cross dressing men (love to see how they’ll tell the difference!) but not TM (women)

Linky

Plans approved for Britain’s first women’s-only tower block

Exclusive: 15-storey tower in west London will offer homes to women who face inequality and abuse

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/apr/28/plans-approved-for-britains-first-womens-only-tower-block

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Fenlandia · 28/04/2023 16:31

RoseslnTheHospital · 28/04/2023 16:24

I don't know how a journalist could write the following with a straight face:

"The only way a tenant could be male is if they are the adult child of a female tenant and inherit the tenancy. Transgender women, including people intending to undergo gender reassignment, will be allowed, but men who cross-dress, transgender men, and anyone with a known history of male violence against women or children will not."

So straight after saying that the only way a tenant could be male (not a man, but male) is to be an adult child of a woman tenant, they say that transgender women including people who are only intending to "undergo gender reassignment" can be tenants! So male then! And then they exclude transmen, who are female! Addled nonsense.

How are they going to differentiate between a 'transgender woman' who wears women's clothes every now and then (the Suzeddie Izzard kind of trans) and cross-dressing men who wear women's clothes every now and then?

Also, won't someone think of the enbys?

fruitbrewhaha · 28/04/2023 16:38

Lottapianos · 28/04/2023 15:36

'So basically men can inherit it and live in it, move into it with a female partner or put a pink frock on and live in it.'

Yep. Almost like it's a complete waste of time!

Yeah, I was thinking that. So it's not really a space for women without men, it's that women will be the tenancy agreement and can in theory be in charge of who lives there but well, you know.

SapatSea · 28/04/2023 16:38

Agree with everyone, not really for women then. I guess the only plus point is that hopefully most tenancy contracts will be held by women.

Many years ago Housing for Women built a lovely row of houses at the end of my road in London (after the tenants in the postwar prefabs were "persuaded" to move). Lots of meetings with residents to persuade us all not to oppose planning as the houses were only for vunerable women and their children. A chance to rebuild their lives and then move on when they had new relationships. Within days most houses had men living in them too.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 28/04/2023 16:46

IwantToRetire · 28/04/2023 16:22

Women's Pioneer is in west London.

Housing for Women is (as far as I know) the only other women's housing provider in London. They are in south London. https://www.hfw.org.uk/about-us/who-we-are/

There may well be what are legally defined as Alms Houses. These have usually been set up by someone or a society with enough money to provide a small amount of housing. (They aren't all those classic squares of very small cottages).

And depending of their founding principles may well have a clause such as "for the provision of housing for distressed spinsters in the (area). In fact my mother got a really rather nice flat in such a place, and we went to an interview to prove that she was "a distressed gentlewoman". I wore pearls which I had never done up until then and have never since. (We weren't quite sure what a gentlewoman was and somehow thought this would be part of being one!!) https://www.almshouses.org/resident-vacancies/finding-an-almshouse-charity/

Indeed - there have been women-only alms houses pretty much as long as there have been alms houses. Not far off a thousand years.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 28/04/2023 18:28

Nellodee · 28/04/2023 15:16

So long as tenants are aware of this, I think some women would still benefit from this environment. Just as the twaw crew need to realise they can’t give away our consent to share female spaces with males, I’m happy to accept that some people feel comfortable in spaces segregated by gender.

Yeah, I agree, as long as they are upfront about the barking mad rules.

Camdenish · 28/04/2023 18:31

FictionalCharacter · 28/04/2023 15:55

This might well be the first tower block for women, but I'm pretty sure there's already women-only housing somewhere in West London.

There are beautiful ( Edwardian?) Low rise women only blocks on Hampsted Heath

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 28/04/2023 18:31

Indeed - there have been women-only alms houses pretty much as long as there have been alms houses. Not far off a thousand years

Way longer than that because many monasteries/convents provided forms of housing on their sites for the elderly. Definitely around by the 8th century, maybe earlier.

JacquelinePot · 28/04/2023 18:34

What is the point? The kind of women who are happy to share with men who say they are women can just live in ordinary housing. If single sex housing is wanted and justified, it needs to be SINGLE SEX.

FFS, I'm really running out of patience, here.

Lottapianos · 28/04/2023 19:13

'If single sex housing is wanted and justified, it needs to be SINGLE SEX.'

Exactly. It's not rocket science

IwantToRetire · 28/04/2023 19:24

The kind of women who are happy to share with men who say they are women can just live in ordinary housing.

I suspect it is the other way round. The instance by trans women that they must be included in women only housing, whatever, is for them an end goal.

I suspect many women who accept this transing of women only do so because they fear losing their housing. It is about who have more power in a situation. And 99.9% of the time it isn't women.

ReadersD1gest · 28/04/2023 19:29

The allowing trans women is appalling, of course; but so is allowing male partners of women choosing to live in what they assume is an all women environment?
How exactly is it for women only? 🤯

IwantToRetire · 28/04/2023 19:34

If we are still talking about Women's Pioneer their housing is only for single women.

Eligibility

The application process aims to help women who need but do not have access to social housing through other routes. You must be:

  • not a home owner or have a share of a property anywhere else
  • a single woman
  • earning under £40,000 a year
  • willing to consider living in any area we have homes
  • reasonably mobile (most flats offered will be on higher floors)
  • not living in housing association or council accommodation, or be eligible for housing assistance from the local authority
  • able to prove your Right to Rent in the UK

You must also:

  • have a need for women’s housing.
  • have less than £16,000 in savings.

If you accept an offer, you need to move in two days after sign-up.

If you turn down an offer, we’ll remove your name from the list.

http://womenspioneer.co.uk/our-waiting-list/

NB anyone interested unfortunately the application process was only open during the early part of April.

ReadersD1gest · 28/04/2023 19:37

That Guardian article says only single women will be given a tenancy, but if they acquire a male partner he can move in, @IwantToRetire ?

That seems crazy.

MadeFrom100percentPears · 28/04/2023 19:53

I don't really get this place. What's the point of a female only space which can have male partners living there? Seems to completely undermine the ethos. It's not a female only space if there are already loads of men in it. It may well be a block of flats which gives priority to female applicants who fulfil certain criteria, but calling it female only is a stretch.

IwantToRetire · 28/04/2023 19:57

What??? but if they acquire a male partner he can move in

Silly me thinking their web site would be accurate.

Or worse still that because this will be a huge expansion of the number of flats they have they dont think there are enough women wanting women only accommodation.

As has been said upthread - why bother.

So the previous managment who said they wouldn't expand as they wanted to keep the ethos of the organisation have been proved right. Expand and just turn youself into an all purpose housing project.

Bet they dont also prioritise women on low incomes who have difficulty securing housing.

LangClegsInSpace · 28/04/2023 20:05

I don't think a tower block full of 102 vulnerable women is a safe idea in the first place, even before adding in some men who say they are women. It's not like a refuge, the address won't be secret. It'll be a huge magnet for abusive men.

IwantToRetire · 28/04/2023 20:30

Ther aren't "vulnerable" women. They are women on low incomes.

Or rather that was the original remit of Women's Pioneer.

Maybe in the 2023 update low income women will be seen as irrelevant, and flats will go to the highest bidder, more likely than not a woman with a man in tow.

LangClegsInSpace · 28/04/2023 20:45

Women on low incomes are vulnerable.

FictionalCharacter · 28/04/2023 21:03

Theeyeballsinthesky · 28/04/2023 16:18

Older women’s co housing

is it this one?

I checked their policies - the only one not available on line to d/l is the equality & diversity one…..

Yes that's probably the one I was thinking of.

YouAreNotBatman · 29/04/2023 11:13

The person taking the tenancy must be a single woman, and men will only be able to live in the tower block if they become a tenant’s partner. The only way a tenant could be male is if they are the adult child of a female tenant and inherit the tenancy.

So there is no point to this then.
Already vulnerable woman could move in a new boyfriend (usually these womwn have the worst taste in men) and impose risk on rest of the women, and that man knows the whole place is filled with vulnerable women!?
Madness!!
What could possibly go wrong.

Also, sons are going to be problem.
Every woman thinks the men in their lives are the ’good one’s’ and are blind to the reality.
That’s why we’re in this mess in the first place.

Hagosaurus · 29/04/2023 12:38

There’s always a problem with women only spaces which are also open to men who say the magic words. The decent men stay out, but the violent/abusive men are happy to lie to get in. So all we’ve done is exclude the good men - which actually makes women less safe.
That in no way means I think all TW are violent/abusive, although some definitely are. There just is no way to tell the difference between a man who just wants to live their life and an abuser (regardless of how they dress & identify) until it’s too late. However, wanting in to women’s spaces is one clue

SirVixofVixHall · 29/04/2023 12:40

Holly Lodge in Hampstead used to be women only, I had friends there and I applied for a flat but then bought something instead. I am not sure if it still is all female.

ChopperC110P · 29/04/2023 12:47

Unless it’s run like a Victorian boarding house with “no male visitors” allowed and the locks and security to enforce it, the fact that it’s a women-only resident block is meaningless even before you consider the odd transwoman moving into a flat. There are going to be boyfriends staying over and wandering the hallways.

Ramblingnamechanger · 29/04/2023 13:36

It would be great if it was for same sex attracted lesbians only, and it was a really female only block. But no we are not allowed to have that because some man will want to self id as lesbian into it. Just called it a block for everyone and stop pretending it is women only