Re ‘you’re saying all TW are predators’. No, nobody on here is saying that. That would be stupid and untrue. MN FWR specifically aspires to reality-based discussions.
And on that point obviously not all TWALT but IIRC freedom of information releases show that TW are highly over-represented in the UK’s sex offenders prison population, compared to ‘cis men’. That fits when for some TW, the idea of themselves ‘as a woman’ is a sexual fetish. So much so predictable and shown by years of evidence, in the relationship of paraphilias to sexually motivated actual crime against women.
However, this is also why gender identity based prison housing allocation for men in women’s single sex prisons is completely unacceptable. Regardless of how the men ‘gender identify’. Whether they’ve committed a crime against women and girls or a different crime.
On a political level it’s also why Stonewall’s ‘no debate’ and ‘acceptance without exception’ mantras have been so deliberately dangerous and rights-eroding for women and children and in a terrible bitter irony very destructive and harmful for lesbians and gay men. Yet this attitude still survives as the last resort of misogynists who want women to shut up and be kind. Even when the problems with this politics have been factually pointed out.
Since some men in any category of men are dangerous to women and children, then no, you don’t want to be ‘accepting’ them. You want to strengthen safeguarding to deter the ones who want to get access to women and children in spaces where they are particularly vulnerable , however they gender identify.
Nobody should be required to validate anyone else at the cost of their own safety, privacy or dignity, which is exactly what happens when women are forced to accept men into women’s single sex spaces. So we say No. Saying no should be enough. For decent people, it would be enough.
So at this stage in this over a decade long culture war, anyone who has not been living under a rock but is still on the women-hating and homophobic, anti safeguarding and anti-reality side of the argument is really marking themselves out.
Women who are gender-critical are not marking themselves out as ‘man-haters’ btw but as reality-based risk assessors, which is what women have to do all the time, unfortunately..