I know. My DS is in a Catholic primary and I'd have hated the idea of it 6 years ago but now I feel relief. The principal is an extremely sensible seeming woman and I feel fairly secure that ideological nonsense is pretty limited in her school. I feel stress about the upcoming decision re secondary school. Our nearest secondary is an Educate Together and I was initially delighted about this.
However, ETs are probably the most gung-ho about this stuff and will likely cling hardest as the rest of society peaks. Apparently the school has 'gender neutral' toilets, which I find extremely off-putting. Though I guess if they are fully private cubicles all off a main corridor, it is potentially safer than having supposedly single sex toilets that an opposite sex student claiming to be trans can access. And on the other hand, our other nearest school is a gaelscoil and I'd worry that I wouldn't be able to understand what he might be taught.
It's a minefield. DS is a pretty matter of fact type child who believes very genuinely in being kind but knows you can't change sex and than NB isn't real. So while I do still worry about him being convinced otherwise, I also worry quite a bit about him stating facts and becoming ostracised. I do hear more and more from parents of young teens that they are starting to tire of this shit. So maybe he'll just be one of many. However an awful lot of my friends are still full woke and raising their children to believe you can really change sex or be neither, and a lot of their kids are in ET primaries. I'm sure a lot of them will end up in ET secondary.