When Alice Capsey was selected to play top-level cricket at the age of 16 [and hit a four off her very first ball at Lords, what a dream start], they had to ask her parents' permission first.
I remember hearing something about her mother having to be on any social media/chat groups as a safeguarding measure for her daughter, and the warning of 'Capsey's Mum!' being issued by the other players if the conversation was straying...
In other words, a high level of safeguarding for a 16 year old young women playing with adult women.
But a 12 year old playing with a man - no problem!