I’m Autistic and so is my younger sister. This may or may not be reassuring…
All the gender stuff is a little after my time so I escaped it and am a RadFem.
My sister is 8 years younger than me and in her teens it was all just building up a head of steam. She and her pals were all queer, bi, pan or trans 😬 She was quite radicalised about it all and would stand up fervently for what she believed in at the time.
Few of her friends continued down those paths, most just realised they were Autistic, gay, lesbian or bi.
My sister is now a full blown RadFem and talks about some of the ridiculous instances that got her “peaked”.
So my point is that we can come back from it so long as no physical harm is done.
That’s what we should be focusing on; educating our Autistic daughters especially on why they are so vulnerable to this ideology (looking for somewhere to fit and not feeling like everyone else). Educating them about the very many Autistic female detransitioners and how horrifically their lives have been impacted forever.