It's the misogyny seen so very normalised across all of this.
Women couldn't possibly have any inner lives or real reasons for saying no to men other than being naturally bad and provocative.
Most threads on this board will sooner or later have someone pop up to dissect and try to disparage women's reasons as something that should be objectively (from a male perspective) dissected and interrogated rather than being heard as 'lived experience' and learned from. Interestingly, they're often the voices busy scolding women for doing feminism wrong.