Hm. I see what you mean, Weary, but I think perhaps one of the problems of the left, and one of the reasons it seems to be open to horribly misogynist attitudes is because it doesn't seem to have resolved what you're calling minutiae but are actually I think the very large part of many women's lives - child bearing, child rearing, caring for elderly relatives.
It's convenient for the right AND the left to have all this unpaid labour seen as irrelevant distractions. Women just need to get on with it and stop talking about it (I'm absolutely not directing this at you, Weary, I'm looking for the reason that women's fears/views/voices/wants are all dismissed so easily).
Women are service humans, our value is nil, we are there to uncomplainingly and unstintingly serve males, raise children, care for family and be sexually available.
Yes there's a weird way of both monetising/marketising care/labour while also having a pretend inability to see it as actual labour.
And Onna, I just don't see how one can claim that a massive chunk of labour that is carried out unpaid is entirely separate from politics/society. Its indivisible - look at the Spanish grandparents' strike, for example. Without unpaid labour our society would not and could not function, ergo its dependent on it.