I've just left a restaurant where I overheard two women discussing non-binary people in relationships. How it makes a man queer rather than straight if they date a female non-binary person because it would be disrespectful of her identity to call himself straight.
This was followed by correcting "her" to "them" and the fact that it's up to you to educate yourself and not expect them to do it. But maybe it's okay to ask questions if you don't understand, maybe.
Oh and non-binary people are more likely to be into polyamory....?! Oh no, pansexual .,, because they just see people as people.
It was one of the most earnest conversations I've overheard recently. What a waste of time and energy.