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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What do you think about removing the House of Lords?

137 replies

MarshaBradyo · 25/11/2022 16:22

I don’t follow them much but I remember the very emotive and excellent speeches re the word mother in the maternity act.

Some of us followed it on here, and I was grateful enough to the four key players to email them.

My concern is that without those speeches we would have gone in a direction many didn’t want

With proposals to remove it - do you agree?

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chilling19 · 05/12/2022 22:20

Thelnebriati · 25/11/2022 18:31

I didn't used to be in favour of the HOL because they were unelected, but politics has changed. Now the HOL seems to be the last bastion against extremism, which seems ironic.

This ☝️

sashagabadon · 05/12/2022 22:23

I agree @DysonSpheres

Schlaar · 05/12/2022 22:29

I am massively in favour of the HoL. They aren’t chasing votes or being whipped. They are the only ones who are free to speak the truth without fear of reprisal.

pattihews · 06/12/2022 00:47

Snnowflake · 05/12/2022 13:36

But there are thousand of Lords largely thanks to Blair and ensuing PMs.

C'mon: if you'd googled you'd know there are 786 current sitting members of the HoL.

jtaeapa · 06/12/2022 01:00

I think we should keep them.

In the commons, MPs vote on stuff often after whatever the whipping process is. So, often votes aren't really fair or representative. Politics is a dirty business.

Whilst the lords isn't an ideal situation, they can stop really stupid decisions made by parliament going through.

I would liken it to having a choice of (when it's cold), being naked or wearing ill-fitting clothes with holes in. On balance, most people would wear the crappy clothes rather than freeze. And that's how I see it with keeping the lords.

GreenLunchBox · 06/12/2022 01:07

Absolutely hilarious. Let's just continue in the ridiculous decline and pit of corruption the UK has become. Who actually cares any more?

GreenLunchBox · 06/12/2022 01:09

I forgot to tag a particular post with my lady message but didn't, but does it really matter.... I'm sure there's numerous posts I could have tagged instead 😴

GreenLunchBox · 06/12/2022 01:10

*last, not lady

GreenLunchBox · 06/12/2022 01:12

jtaeapa · 06/12/2022 01:00

I think we should keep them.

In the commons, MPs vote on stuff often after whatever the whipping process is. So, often votes aren't really fair or representative. Politics is a dirty business.

Whilst the lords isn't an ideal situation, they can stop really stupid decisions made by parliament going through.

I would liken it to having a choice of (when it's cold), being naked or wearing ill-fitting clothes with holes in. On balance, most people would wear the crappy clothes rather than freeze. And that's how I see it with keeping the lords.

Do we not deserve better than holey clothes? FFS, how did we get to this?

GreenLunchBox · 06/12/2022 01:13

jtaeapa · 06/12/2022 01:00

I think we should keep them.

In the commons, MPs vote on stuff often after whatever the whipping process is. So, often votes aren't really fair or representative. Politics is a dirty business.

Whilst the lords isn't an ideal situation, they can stop really stupid decisions made by parliament going through.

I would liken it to having a choice of (when it's cold), being naked or wearing ill-fitting clothes with holes in. On balance, most people would wear the crappy clothes rather than freeze. And that's how I see it with keeping the lords.

Sounds amazing!

MangyInseam · 06/12/2022 01:18

What I want to ask about ideas like adopting a system like the Americans is - have you flipping looked at the Americans?

What on God's green Earth makes them think this is a good idea? I mean from an evidence based standpoint?

Pythonese · 06/12/2022 01:22

Its so remote from the day to day challenges of my life as to be meaningless. It’s like saying, what do you think if concrete ?.

MarshaMelrose · 06/12/2022 01:30

It's a bad short-termist idea. Why do we keep fiddling round with our constitution thinking it can do no harm? Amd then being surprised when it does? Having experts in the second chamber who are not only passionate - easy to find those - but actually know more than their arse from their elbow - they're much rarer - is really beneficial to the country as a whole.

MarshaMelrose · 06/12/2022 01:32

MangyInseam · 06/12/2022 01:18

What I want to ask about ideas like adopting a system like the Americans is - have you flipping looked at the Americans?

What on God's green Earth makes them think this is a good idea? I mean from an evidence based standpoint?

They're constantly deadlocked. Govt workers didn't get paid because they couldn't get the budget through. Yeah, great idea.

NitroNine · 06/12/2022 04:25

Oh FFS MN. Literal hours trying to write a reply only for it to get eaten just as I was getting the last link over. I shouldn’t have to draft my posts to say more than a few words.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 06/12/2022 06:14

Reform, yes. But not to anything like the US system.

The good things about the current HoL - long term view, not chasing votes - need to be reinforced, not scrapped.

Ger rid of the bishops. No outgoing PM, or other sitting government, appointments. Nobody who has been an MP in the last 10 years. No party affiliations, no whips. Terms of at least 10 years - and if terms are shorter than life, no re-election. If any hereditary element is kept, then equal ops - no male bias to inheriting the post.

Namenic · 06/12/2022 06:46

This makes me not want to vote Labour. I won’t vote Tory either. Maybe I will write to my mp who is labour.

GreenLunchBox · 06/12/2022 07:57

Namenic · 06/12/2022 06:46

This makes me not want to vote Labour. I won’t vote Tory either. Maybe I will write to my mp who is labour.

Sounds like a good plan. Let's keep the shitshow we have now.

PomegranateOfPersephone · 06/12/2022 08:18

DysonSpheres · 05/12/2022 21:37

No. This sort of thing feels me with dread for a Labour government. As said, the pandemic along with this ridiculous, stark raving illogical adherence to self id, showed me that left wing parties in the main are happy to dissolve our rights. Citizen rights, human rights, women's rights. It's funny when I was younger I very much saw left wing as anarchist, forward thinking.

Not now, I see them as conformist, conformist to whatever is deemed 'right think' and happy to force you to conform too. Watching female MP's (some actual mothers) unable to say women have a cervix has blown my mind. Blown it.

Now, I am all for the HoL. And I never ever thought I'd say it, but I'm now VERY pro lifetime and inherited peerages. I don't even care that they get paid just for turning up. Give them more if need be. They are a bulwark against political ideological excess. A balance.

Yes the nonsense of the last few years has also made this woman of Carribbean heritage incredibly pro-monarchy too (not that I was particularly against it, just very ambivalent). Now the thought of an elected Head of State, corruptible, open to flattery, with an eye on retirement roles, schmoozing with big business, now sounds like madness. I only wish there was an upcoming female heir to the throne, but alas no.

My own thoughts have evolved very much like yours over my lifetime. I used to consider myself anarchist, anti monarchist, never in my life voted Tory. Now I find I am ever more appreciative of our constitutional monarchy and even the hereditary peers in the HoL, I want to first born child rather than firstborn son similar to how the monarchy now works. I am even in favour of the Lords Spiritual, although not a church goer myself or member of the C of E, because the Church of England is connected with the monarchy and the state, my local infant and junior schools are C of E for example, this is part of our history and culture and church leaders naturally are interested in the wellbeing of their flocks, the people of this country, they bring a different perspective and about just under 50% of people in the UK “identify” as Christian. Representatives from the other main religions established in the UK should have similar representation too, to bring a Jewish, Muslim, Sikh and Hindu perspective.

I look across at the US in horror, no thank you I definitely don’t want an elected head of state nor an elected second house. I like our mixed system I think it works better, it is more diverse! The US appears to be driven by the interests of money alone, it is to my mind way more elitist than our system, wealth seeks and gains power to further increase wealth which further increases power and so on until wealth and power concentrates in the hands of the few, a new aristocracy or rather an oligarchy with no sense of responsibility to the people or the structures of government, no sense of past or future, none of the noblesse oblige or scared duty mentioned by another poster. In fact there really isn’t any accountability at all, the wealthy individuals and corporations running the show are private citizens and private companies and owe nothing to anyone apart from increasing the wealth of their shareholders if they have them.

oh and I am still not voting Tory, too many of them seem enamoured of US style neo liberal economics.

Virginiaplain · 06/12/2022 08:21

pattihews · 25/11/2022 16:46

A few years ago I would have been all for it, now I feel fiercely protective of it. Because it became clear watching the gender ideology debacle play out that MPs weren't prepared to say what they thought because they were bound by party loyalty or because they were scared of being removed by the TRAs in their constituency parties. Members of the HoL, who are there for life and don't have to toe party lines, were able to say things that desperately needed saying and they really kicked the debate off. It made me realise how incredibly important it is for democracy that there's a second chamber that brings experience and can speak freely without fear of losing their job.

What do Wales, Scotland and New Zealand have in common? They are unicameral — they don't have a second chamber — and gender ideology has been able to take hold unchecked. I'm in Wales and Mark Drakeford and his government have dealt with resistance by snippy refusing, time and time again, to meet anyone who is gender critical. Women, teachers, doctors: they just refuse. This is not democracy and it's very serious. Here in Wales we've had a one-party state for more than 20 years now and it can just do what it likes, unchecked, because it doesn't have to listen to anyone it doesn't want to.

Yes, the Scottish gov runs roughshod over anything - there have been so many bad and costly decisions made - eg the new parliament, these blooming ferries -could do with a Lords with some with financial wisdom (or any wisdom come to that).

Baaaaaa · 06/12/2022 08:22

Hereditary seats were stopped in 1999 (though there are some still remaining, time will sort that out)

Starmer is essentially removing the body that regulates the commons and thus regulates him.

Why? What does he want to be able to do that the sitting Lords have prevented. I think we know.

This is dictator level overreach and this man is dangerous.

Hoppinggreen · 06/12/2022 08:24

I’m a bit torn to be honest.
In principle I don’t want a group of unelected unqualified people helping to decide our laws but there are some really good, intelligent members who are there due to success in their field. Plus the fact that they are unelected gives them the ability to make decisions not based on getting re elected (which may or may not be a good thing). Also they are probably not there for the money so hopefully less susceptible to corruption

Virginiaplain · 06/12/2022 08:26

Our local council here in Scotland falls totally on party lines - so if you have a council of 8 snp and 7 conservatives the snp decision always wins regardless.
If we had a voted Lords the same would happen. Those standing would be like Parliament - so a Cons from the home counties, labour from london, and each candidate would know that if they did anything to annoy their Cons or Labour electorate they'd lose their seat at the next local election so the Lords would be indentikit of the Gov. So no benefit.

LlynTegid · 06/12/2022 08:28

@BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn sensible ideas I think. I don't think you could completely avoid some party politics though.

BelenaConhamHarter · 06/12/2022 08:37

We need a House of Lords to keep the House of Commons in check and it must be non-partisan.

I think what we currently have is probably as close as we are going to get to a good option.

I do wonder about hereditary peers. I like the idea that you have a group of people who have a born responsibility to serve the country and therefore devote themselves fully to public service. The problem is, there are also a group who don't care, or who use it to advance themselves.

Maybe we should have referendums on everything instead - like the Swiss.