DD had a very short spell years ago regarding being 'non binary'. It was strongly influenced by an authority figure in her life being so herself.
It quickly fizzled out. And she went into a new emo/goth phase with dresses and veils.
Now she's like a grungy 90s kid. All normal phases.
She now has a new male friend who I find out is actually trans.
DD has had a terrible few years and is in and out of therapy for unrelated issues.
The therapy place she is currently on a waiting list for has shit like this all over their forms.
I've just recieved feedback from her phone sessions (emailed to me) and not once do they use female pronouns. They use her name and THEY.
A few weeks ago her teacher, in a meeting about DDs SEN progress and Autism assessment via CAHMS, she said that there was a pandemic of nonbinary kids in DDs year and they wouldn't allow the kids to talk to parents.
I'm now thinking she was trying to tell me DD is one of them.
I think DD has told this assessor that her pronouns are they/them.
Can I email the assessor and ask, we've had open dialogue so far.
Should I call the school and ask the teacher directly?
I went through hell a few years ago with this Bullshit.
I really don't want to start it again.