IIRC there was some DfE guidance that talked about the need to avoid suggesting that children may be born in the wrong body or that non-conformance to stereotypes means you are trans. But I don’t think it gave any clues about what should be taught and I can’t find it.
Found this one assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/1090195/Relationships_Education_RSE_and_Health_Education.pdf
says
75. Pupils should be taught the facts and the law about sex, sexuality, sexual health and gender identity in an age-appropriate and inclusive way. All pupils should feel that the content is relevant to them and their developing sexuality. Sexual orientation and gender identity should be explored at a timely point and in a clear, sensitive and respectful manner. When teaching about these topics, it must be recognised that young people may be discovering or understanding their sexual orientation or gender identity.
- Pupils should be well informed about the full range of perspectives and, within the law, should be well equipped to make decisions for themselves about how to live their own lives, whilst respecting the right of others to make their own decisions and hold their own beliefs.
Also says kids should know:
• how stereotypes, in particular stereotypes based on sex, gender, race, religion, sexual orientation or disability, can cause damage (e.g. how they might normalise non-consensual behaviour or encourage prejudice).
So you can’t be compliant with this guidance and teach gender id as a fact. Some people feel they have one; others don’t. Some people believe there’s a conflict between gay rights and trans rights; others don’t.
Give some definitions and then a good place to start might be the difference between sex, gender identity and gender presentation. And can we assume one based on any of the others? And can we assume everyone has one (sex, yes; gender id and gender expression, no)
Pictures through time (and maybe place?) - eg Victorian boys in dresses, 1970s Bowie, Maya looking pretty in a nice dress, Julie Bindel, Magdalen Berns, the Susie person from mermaids (assuming she identifies as cis), Glinner and Jo Maugham from Good Law Project, Alison Bailey in that amazing vintage pride picture, and some current trans/nb people - ie a mix of people known to have said they have/don’t have a gender id and some unknowns. Get kids to guess - who says they identify as man/woman/nb, who says they have no gender id, who has said nothing (and what can we assume about them?)
What does gender id mean to different people? Some quotes - some trans people who it’s really important to, some people who find it utterly oppressive and retrograde.
discuss in what ways gender Id could be helpful/important, in what ways it could be harmful.
a quote from a happy transitioner. A quote from a devastated detransitoner - maybe that guy who’s suing the nhs?
and the law, and the need for tolerance and respect on all sides.