I have seen people recommending reference to the Yogyakarta Principles in relation to the use of pronouns, however I have just been reading this article: policyexchange.org.uk/publication/transgenderism-and-policy-capture-in-the-criminal-justice-system/
and in it it notes:
In 2017 the Yogyakarta Principles plus 10, a supplemental set of
principles, were published. Principle 31(A) of the 2017 document calls
on states to ‘‘…end the registration of the sex and gender of the person in
identity documents such as birth certificates, identification cards, passports
and driver licences, and as part of their legal personality.”23
In other words, the ultimate aim of the Yogyakarta Principles is the
complete elimination of all sex and gender markers from the law. Self declaration of ‘gender identity’ is seen as a stage on the route to this aim.
The Yogyakarta Principles state that, while sex or gender continue to be
registered, states should ensure that no eligibility criteria are used as a
prerequisite to changing legal sex or gender. They specifically state that
there should be no prerequisites based on age or mental capacity, and that
a person’s criminal record should not be used to prevent a change of legal
sex or gender.
‘Yogyakarta Principles plus 10 Additional
Principles and State Obligations on the Application of International Human Rights Law
in Relation to Sexual Orientation, Gender
Identity, Gender Expression and Sex Characteristics to Complement the Yogyakarta
Principles’, 2017 yogyakartaprinciples.org/principles-en/yp10/
Which made me look into the whole Yogyakarta principles a bit more. I've not read the whole Yogyakarta principles (sorry, I've not had time - I've got to number 16) but they seem totally for self identification, and from what I have read seems to be pretty clear that we should just accept peoples gender identity (self proclaimed) and not treat them any differently to someone of that sex. Indeed in Principle 9 they even advocate: "Ensure, to the extent possible, that all prisoners participate in decisions regarding the place of detention appropriate to their sexual orientation and gender identity; Again, this looks to allow self identification into single sex spaces."
Whilst most of the principles are absolutely what we should be doing, for example not discriminating in law due to gender ID or sexual orientation, it seems to me that spouting the Yogyakarta principles re pronouns is opening a much bigger can of worms than it is closing? Or have I got this wrong? Happy to be told that I am misinformed and should have read all 31 before commenting!