"And the Dansky quotes upthread are much too close to the "just believe" for me. We do have time. We always have time to make sure we actually do know what's going on. Documentation, and critical analysis must never stop."
I included links to the tweets quoted. Although the first one is a stand-alone tweet, the other two are QTs commenting on other threads so should be read in those specific contexts.
Copy and paste for convenience:
"I have become convinced that the easiest way through the gaslighting of the #GenderIndustry is to quickly accept that this entire thing is as bad as it seems, and probably much much worse, and to go on from there. We don't have time to be shocked about any of it anymore."
twitter.com/KDansky/status/1510306327184224258
"Things are just as bad as we think they are. Most likely worse."
twitter.com/KDansky/status/1394031027849506818
"This is absolutely common. I remember seeing the same thing in the form of a Facebook ad in May of last year, and I have seen it several times since then. We all need to understand that this kind of thing is everywhere, and it's going to get worse. We need to stop being shocked."
twitter.com/KDansky/status/1501707699075092486
The point I was making in my OP, which others above have recognised, is that being rendered into a state of "OMG-shock" by the latest horror uncovered, whatever it is, is disabling.
It was not the first time, and I am sure it will not be the last, that I have reminded myself of Dansky's words as a means of pulling myself out of a shocked, disempowered state of mind in order to turn my thinking, full of resolve, into "OK. Now what am I actually going to DO about it?!"
What do I need to find out? Who likely knows more than me already? Where do I find more information? What then could I do? What should I do? Who can help? Who can I help? etc. etc.
I hope that clarifies.