@Belovedfool
Women aren't even human to them, are we?
It's amazing how crystal clear that has become over the last 10 - 15 years. We're not human.
We're fucking support animals and should spend our lives on our knees servicing, in whatever way they need, our male superiors.
The one thing that has become increasingly clear to me while following this debate is the disproportionate anger aimed at women who say NO when that 'no' is to protect their own rights or the rights of other women and girls.
Women who say NO in contexts like the one talked about in this thread are seen as selfish and cruel. It is (intellectually) interesting to learn that this is a thing (after decades of feminism), and it might be, as you say, that women are seen as the support humans by both many men and many women.
Women might also be seen as the applauding chorus in a play about other people's heroic struggles, as the actors playing the supporting roles in films about some other individuals, and as the universal mothers, expected to act for others without any egos or personal ambition.
Loudly saying NO destroys all those myths so gets savagely attacked.