My Dd is just 15. She has Autism. She has anxiety. She has SPD.
We moved school a year ago (no choice). she has just made a few friends.
ALL are 'trans'... /she is frequently non verbal through stress & 50% attendance.
Her only previous friend was very domineering & has just revealed she lied to Dd about something very important. Dd had had her first big crush on this girl, who has behaved very unkindly, to say the least. Dd is devastated.
So, For many reasons, DD is really vulnerable.
At Christams she told me she was gay (via a Christmas card, her preferred method of comms for 'big stuff' is via text / cards etc as non verbal kicks in)
A few weeks back she said she 'is Trans'. I asked what that meant & she said: 'I am a boy, I've looked it up on Reddit'. I tried to tease out what she meant by that etc but she was all very closed down. She has now told me she wants to bind her breasts. I said that I thought it was a bad idea to try to alter her body whilst it is growing healthily. I talked about clothes to 'hide' her body shape if she felt self conscious but said I'd rather she didn't restrict any part of her body that was growing. She listened but is still adamant she wants to bind. So, I've agreed to help her do some research (her older brother has Autism & we've had a lot of issues & she knows I research important stuff before I decide what to do.
So ... I have Covid. I feel absolutely crap. She wants to do the Research today (the day we'd set aside).
Can anyone please point me to some reputable articles?
If htey are ALL anti binding she will switch off so there needs to be some balance but I guess it's pretty clear from my (long, sorry..) post that I'd rather they supported my POV that binding is a bad idea...