I forgot to add the POLICE were also calling the hospital about the TW, which is one other reason why they were concerned.
For those who haven’t read the judgement, it’s important to point out the underwear convo happens at a totally different hospital than the alleged “bullying.” At the moment the TW was told their pay would be cut after two months off for notes and convo nobody in room at time saw anything about, they magically became fit to work and transferred to a new site where they were appeased by being given a service woman to ask about makeup, invite self over to house late at night and talk about wet underwear with.
Someone on another site pointed out underwear convo was obviously woman (the exclamation mark writer) trying to delicately say “please stop sexually harassing staff” but did it clumsily which opened door for TW to claim discrimination. She’s basically like “hmmmm, but..don’t you normally wear underwear?” Obviously these are women encountering AGP behaviour for the first time, their instincts telling them something is wrong and uncomfortable, but that is clashing with their “TW are oppressed victims and you must never question them” training. So they’re legitimately uncomfortable and also confused, and try to deal with it by trying to say “but why would you take your underwear off at work? Who does that?” to figure out what they are dealing with. In other words, women got sexually harassed, felt something was wrong, couldn’t name it, harasser got victory in hearing over them.
Interestingly, even though the women at this point were clearly uncomfortable (I genuinely love exclamation mark writer, I’m not in the UK and it seems so perfectly English to me; poor thing, the only avenue to express herself was some pointed punctuation), they still can’t bring themselves to admit in the hearing that it was nasty. They actually end up doing themselves in a bit by saying nothing was wrong about telling woman I’m not wearing underwear right now because they’ve been rendered unable to say “I felt weird when underwear came up, we were alone in a locked room. This person told me they felt sick and I took her aside privately and then all of a sudden they said it was soooo hot their underwear was wet and they took it off, and I knew something was off about that.” But of course, that would mean admitting that she felt scared trapped in a room while being told “I’m naked under here” which would mean admitting her instincts knew this wasn’t a woman…I feel so bad for these poor women being gaslit.
This is the service woman “work buddy” who has advised TW about makeup, talked to TW outside of work, counselled about mental health problems…at one point she shows message of TW inviting self over to house and she’s like “oh dear, I’m in bed.” Many women said Tw would invite self over on weekends and evenings. They’re obviously deeply uncomfortable, trying to appease and refuse politely…it’s really quite awful. TW is obviously trying a come on, and woman judge seems to almost see it but then doesn’t.
somebody also pointed out the TW was probably forced to apply for a job by job Center, wasn’t expecting to get it but pandemic and enthusiasm for diversity hiring did them in and they were forced to accept the job or get kicked off unemployment. So began immediately trying to sabotage and get a settlement.
TW actually has legal degree. So used power and privilege over immigrant and working class women, bullying them to get money.