It feels like time to bring out this annual posting, if noone else has!
For any newer readers thinking 'erotic cross dressing', hmm Naomi, that seems a bit of a reach....
Tara Hewitt, trans EDI adviser to the NHS, giving a talk to a room full of cancer healthcare professionals back in 2016 explaining who falls under the trans umbrella: watch at 5.30 if you don't have time for the whole talk (though believe me, it's a jaw dropping watch in many places) confirms it includes that those who fetishistically dress (Tara refers to these people generally being associated with men wearing women's underwear, because Tara can't think of examples where women like to wear boxer shorts for a kick - ' you don't say, Tara'! And also 'men' 🤔).